I wrote this for Belorg but you might profit from it.
The problem is that you don’t understand Thomas and won’t until you actually begin to read him as opposed to depending on commentary from folks, with an ax to grind, who haven’t read him either. Except for a few isolated cases he remains unread by anyone outside the universe of Catholic philosophers.
By definition God is outside the universe of his creation, He is absolutely other than the created universe. It is not part of Him and He is not part of it. Although He works within the universe, as I have explained before and as Thomas teaches, He does not interfere with the natural causation of the created universe. Its causality and the rules and laws thereof has been created with its being. However, He does directly maintain its existence and direct it toward its proper end. His continued support of existence is indeed described by Thomas as a continuation of His creative causality.
One needs to keep in mind that God’s eternal state accompanies His activity. In this sense eternity is all around us on account of God’s intimate activity within all things. Yet the two modes of existence, the eternal and the finite, are ever interlocked but absolutely separate.
Admittedly a difficult concept to understand and explain, one is blinded by the light, so to speak. We cannot understand God’s creative action, it is a mode of activity beyond any science but is necessary by inference.
Our human intelligence is geared toward the Truths of the created universe, material beings and what we can learn from them. From them we can learn that God Is but can only understand that His nature is far beyond our comprehension. Likewise causality. We know physical causality and by inference arrive at Divine Causality, which includes Creation. We cannot understand how that happens, we just know that it is necessary. If we attempt to force the Creative act ( a round peg ) into human understanding of causality ( a square hole ) we naturally conclude that either God is a part of the universe or the universe is a part of God or that the universe exists as an uncaused reality. In other words we wind up in skepticism, agnosticism, or atheism. That will always happen when we try to make God fit human categories of thought and understanding. We just have to stand back in humility as say, " I know it happens, but I can’t explain how. " Linus