My apologies to those whom I said did not answer my questions. I was reading their posts hastily and not thoroughly. I went back for a re-read, and there was more to the story.
I think those are some good answers, and have put me in a better understanding than I was in before.
The truth is I am beginning to have faith in the Church’s authority, as it is starting to sound silly that God would leave us with only a cryptic book to guide us through a journey on which our eternal salvation or damnation depends.
But my faith is not enough, because I come from a family of Baptists and Pentecostals, some of which are very anti-Catholic. I need to be prepared to defend these beliefs based on things that they will accept. They will certainly not accept my faith in the Catholic church, but rather likely just worry even more that I am being brainwashed.
Here’s my new way to think about it:
Assume Mary was not without original sin.
Then what is the point of the immaculate conception? Why not just have Mary and Joseph consumate their marriage, make a baby, then God could manifest that baby with his spirit and divine nature, say he’s actually the son of God, and we would end up exactly where we are now, with a saviour that is the son of God and the son of a woman, whom we’d all revere and respect.
But God clearly didn’t choose to go this route. And to assume that Mary is not without sin would kind of contradict his choice.
It seems to be similar to the argument of the real presence or not. If you think of communion as just a symbol, it sort of trivializes the whole point of the new covenant with Christ.
Anyways, these are just my thoughts on the issue.
Thanks for the helpful replies, and sorry for the negativity that came out in my previous post.
-nt