Start solid foods for 12 month breastfed baby?

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My breastfed daughter will turn 1 at the end of this month and she is not on solid foods at all. The reason is that 1/ she is lactose intolerant and I had to cut the dairy out of my diet in order to nurse her. 2/ I can see (and smell…) that some foods (other than dairy) that I eat upset her stomach and give her a rash.

Has anybody had the same experience? Any advice on how to start solids at 12 months? and what should I give her first?
Thanks and God Bless You.
 
My second child had a whole slew of food allergies which became apparent (through my milk) when he was only a week or so old. We finally had him skin tested at 12 weeks of age and found out he had many allergies. He has since outgrown them all (he’s four now), thank goodness! Anyway, because of this, he also didn’t begin solid foods until he was about a year old.

So, I feel for you!

It sounds like you already have a good sense of the foods that don’t agree with your baby, but I will say that doing the testing was extremely helpful to me because even though we were fairly certain dairy was a culprit, it helped us to narrow down what the others were. It’s nothing to be afriad of – so if you have insurance that will cover it, I’d say go for it!

My third baby also didn’t eat many solids until she was about a year old, but for her it was due to lack of interest more than anything else.

As far as solids go, with a baby that age, you obviously don’t have to start with the same purees that you would for a younger baby.

Typical easy and low-allergen first foods could be:

-bananas, just cut up into small pieces (you could try quartering the banana length-wise and then slicing those pieces)

-well-cooked sweet potato cut up into small pieces (think the size of a pea or just slightly larger, and make sure it’s well-cooked)

-ripe pear, cut up very small

-other very ripe/soft fruits, depending on their availability: peaches, plums, kiwi (a favorite of all my babies!), papaya

-small brown rice pasta that is very well-cooked (NOT al dente, lol!) (I would definitely look for a brown rice pasta if your baby has shown signs of food sensitivities because you definitely don’t want to go down the road of wheat or gluten insensitivity, which can happen if you give it too early)

-applesauce

-soft, thin oatmeal – again, overcooked (and watered down) so it isn’t hard to swallow

-beans (like black beans, pinto beans, lentils) are HUGE favorites of my 1-year-old, we started giving them to her when she had a little bit more experience eating, but she only has three teeth at almost 15 months, so we are super careful with anything that might be hard to chew.

-make a batch of vegetarian soup or chili and take the veggies and give small pieces to your baby. This way she can have what the family is having! Tomatoes and corn can sometimes be hard for little ones to digest (because of acidity), so that might be something to think about if you try this. Our whole family loves this recipe – we have it often on Fridays.

If you are into books, I like Whole Foods for Babies and Toddlers a lot!

Super Baby Food is also good, though very dense, and geared toward giving solids to baby beginning at 6 months. But it has good toddler ideas and recipes, helpful info on how to prepare a TON of different fruits and veggies for little eaters, and a great two-page spread on what age you can give various foods. (Note that this info is SLIGHTLY out of date because she does say it’s OK to give nut butters, which they now recommend not giving to children under two, and also recommends avocado which is actually a common allergen). She also has great tips on natural cleaning, homemade baby wipes, all kinds of handy household tips. It’s an odd, but helpful, book.

Good luck! I hope this helps!
 
For accurate professional advice specific to your own case, ask your pediatrician.
 
For accurate professional advice specific to your own case, ask your pediatrician.
WatchingMedia is correct; I should have said that first. Please take my post in the spirit of, “I’ve had a similar experience, here is how we have handled it”, and not a program that you should follow! Always check with your own medical professional for specific advice pertaining to your situation.
 
I’m so sorry for the late follow up. We were out of town (we don’t use the internet on vacation) and both my kids have been sick with a cold.

Anyways, THANK YOU SO MUCH! all three answers help. My baby is turning One today!

We have a doctor’s appointment next week for her and I’m feeling awkward telling the doctor that my daughter is not on solids yet but I will ask what she thinks.
My experience with pediatricians is that they advocate starting cereal as early as 4 months and formula with other solids at 6 months.

When my daughter was 1 week old, she was terribly sick. My breast milk was poisoning her and the flow was too fast. I have changed my diet, pumped my milk night and day to make the flow less powerful for her, prayed and persevered in the nursing experience also ignoring my back pain during the long nursing sessions. During the first few months of her life, I have worried a lot and now her 23 pounds are telling me that she is not doing so bad and it was worth the sacrifices!


I will take your advices about the different kind of foods to try and how to introduce them with a 1/2 teaspoon in the morning or put a little bit on the cheek and watch for the reaction. I would have never guessed that!

God Bless you all and your beautiful families. I would strongly encourage other women to nurse their babies even if it demands sacrifices. It is so beneficial for both mother and child!
Beafedor
 
Her case is not going to be like starting with a baby that is only months old, although her oral-motor muscles aren’t going to be quite what they’d be if she’d been eating since she was a younger infant. Still, she can undoubtedly take lumpier foods than a 9-month old could. Starting with foods that your diet suggests she’d tolerate well, give her simple stuff off of your plate and see how she does.

Not to alarm you, but not having the mouth experience that some other kids have, she may not talk quite as early as some kids do. As she can handle them, try to give her foods with some lumps that give her tongue some work to do, and not only stuff with a size or consistency that encourages “stuff and swallow.”

She may also find that chewing on cold things is very comforting as her teeth come in. Frozen fruit is not as hard as plain ice. (Stay away from citrus and kiwifruit for now. Kiwi is notorious for causing rashes in very small children.) Those little teething biscuit-cookies are sometimes a hit, too. It is not something to eat, so much as something to do, but the idea works.

Give her very small portions, as the sight of an amount of food that is far beyond what a person wants can ruin a person’s appetite at any age. Besides, my observation is that small children believe everything within their reach to have a purpose. Food supplied in excess of what they want, they will conclude, must be for their entertainment. Throwing food and squashing it onto her own person are entertaining activities to a toddler, particularly if it causes Mommy to run around in any way. Better to leave her asking for more. Also, give her food to try when she is hungry but not too tired. It will go best if this is an attractive adventure at a time of day when she is in the mood for adventure.

You may try, for instance, to put her in a high chair or on your lap when she is hungry, and then proceed to eat something yourself that she might be willing to try. If she wants some of what you’re having, you’re off to the races. If not, you haven’t registered an outright refusal. (You can’t always win at the dinner table, but you can try as much as possible to frame the rules of the game so that you never lose.)

Mostly, what you want to avoid are foods like hotdogs and dried fruits (like raisins) that can make themselves into a de facto cork. I have a friend who is a pediatric emergency doctor. If she had her way, a kid wouldn’t know what a hotdog was until he or she was six! A list of foods that could lead to choking is something your pediatrician can help you with.

If she isn’t unhealthy-looking or underweight, don’t apologize to her doctor about her diet. Just report how she’s responded to what overtures you’ve made to her with foods, and ask about any goals or pitfalls you should be aware of.

Good luck!
 
One more thought: learn what diet and habits give your child the best chance of excellent dental health. Contact a pediatric dentist office and ask if they have any brochures on dental health in infants and toddlers. There are some concoctions out there intended to help children learn to eat solid foods that seem to have been invented specifically in order to effectively rot little teeth, the most famous being a thick combination of milk, corn meal, and sugar or honey.
 
Neither of my out-of-utero children ate solids with any sort of regularity until 15-20 months old. I nurse them. No big deal.

I don’t “start” solids; I simply let my children take them whenever they’re ready. 🤷 We don’t do baby food (no jarred stuff, no blender, no “bland” food, no special “order” in which to “introduce” food), although I will slightly pre-chew things like steak if Baby wants to eat it.

In my experience, pediatricians are no more or less qualified to give parenting advice than any other person out there, so I don’t ask them about parenting. In my opinion, this specific topic is generally a parenting decision, not a medical one. 😃
 
Thanks for all the great advice!
Truly Beloved, thank you so much! I appreciate your sharing your experience.
I would think that my daughter is rather healthy, she is 24 pounds for 31 inches.
During the visit, the doctor didn’t understand my question about “starting solids”. He assumed she was “finger feeding” herself and on baby jars. I felt akward and I didn’t insist. He said that her hemoglobin is a little low, I don’t know if that is related to her breast milk only diet.
I tried baked sweet potatoes but she wouldn’t eat it on a spoon, she would eat it on my finger. I guess it’s a more natural way to do it and it was probably done like that centuries ago.

Right now, I’ve started to toilet train my 3 year old son so I’ve shifted my focus from her diet to his toilet habits. Wish me luck!

Blessings,
Beafedor
 
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