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lynnehelen
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My son was suspended from school today and may be asked to withdraw. My husband, who is on contract out of town, is threatening and hysterical. He already tried to kick my son out of the home the day he turned 18 (which he can’t do, as an 18-year-old my son has the same rights as any other person living in a dwelling where he has made a home and would at least get 30 days’ notice and of course as he is still in high school I can get an order for continuing support.)
My husband is saying he wants to support him in finishing college prep school and going to college and meanwhile pulling out the rug from under him. And from under me, which I resent as I was specifically called here to try to help my son get back on track. I am pleased to say that I remembered about “Love: never gives up, never loses hope” and to remember that, as far as my son is concerned, is all I really need, as the problem stems generally from lack of faith amonst us and especially how it has been harmed between me and my son.
I realized that the Lord may have a purpose for my son other than what seems obvious to me, that he may be better off at public school, under circumstances which I cannot reveal here he may even be better off having to leave school and get a job or worse, although I pray that that is not the case.
I am asking for prayers for my own personal safety in this situation, and for my son’s well-being, whatever form that may take. I am also asking for prayers for my husband, who has done wrong by me and needs mercy. I don’t know what to ask for about his relationship with my son, which I don’t understand.
I pray that this situation reaches a Godly resolution.
Thy will be done.
Amen
Thank you for all of your prayers, they have sustained me and I am feeling much more confident, slow change has turned into fast change, to quote a song by a black man, “Seal,” from 15 years ago and I am thinking more to the good now instead of being lost in the negative.
My husband is saying he wants to support him in finishing college prep school and going to college and meanwhile pulling out the rug from under him. And from under me, which I resent as I was specifically called here to try to help my son get back on track. I am pleased to say that I remembered about “Love: never gives up, never loses hope” and to remember that, as far as my son is concerned, is all I really need, as the problem stems generally from lack of faith amonst us and especially how it has been harmed between me and my son.
I realized that the Lord may have a purpose for my son other than what seems obvious to me, that he may be better off at public school, under circumstances which I cannot reveal here he may even be better off having to leave school and get a job or worse, although I pray that that is not the case.
I am asking for prayers for my own personal safety in this situation, and for my son’s well-being, whatever form that may take. I am also asking for prayers for my husband, who has done wrong by me and needs mercy. I don’t know what to ask for about his relationship with my son, which I don’t understand.
I pray that this situation reaches a Godly resolution.
Thy will be done.
Amen
Thank you for all of your prayers, they have sustained me and I am feeling much more confident, slow change has turned into fast change, to quote a song by a black man, “Seal,” from 15 years ago and I am thinking more to the good now instead of being lost in the negative.

