Stop me before I buy more books!

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Unlike many folks who check out products in brick & mortise store and then buy online. I do the opposite – “window shop” online and then buy at a real store if possible.

Except for books. Since getting a Nook I’ve made more impulse buys than I care to admit. It’s doubly difficult because B&N keeps sending ads for $1.99 and $2.99 specials. Most of the offerings are near-porn “romances” but there are always some good ones like The Atlantic by Simon Winchester* I just bought last week.

So I now have at least 20 ebooks in holding pattern, un- or half-read. :eek:

Anybody else fall into the same trap?

*Wincester has done a lot of intersting books, see his site.
 
Nothing like agonizing over a $1.99 purchase… Do you ever go to Walmart and get surprised at the total considering that you only bought 2- or 3-dollar things?

Maybe you need to incorporate books into your budget and put a limit on? Say $5/week? You would then be permitting yourself to spend some, and it might help to keep you from going overboard. There are always the free old (out of copyright) books for when you have a very strong urge! All this is what I do with apps on my iPod.
 
Except for books. Since getting a Nook I’ve made more impulse buys than I care to admit. It’s doubly difficult because B&N keeps sending ads for $1.99 and $2.99
Do you do other things on impulse? How do you restrain your impulsiveness in those cases?

-If you want to stop buying these impulse books when you get the special ad - opt out of receiving the ads.

-You can remind yourself that the nook book will be around another day - there is no need to buy impulsively.

-All the books at the library are FREE to read.

-When you have the impulse to buy the book from the tempting ad - place that money right away in a donation for charity.
 
Unlike many folks who check out products in brick & mortise store and then buy online. I do the opposite – “window shop” online and then buy at a real store if possible.

Except for books. Since getting a Nook I’ve made more impulse buys than I care to admit. It’s doubly difficult because B&N keeps sending ads for $1.99 and $2.99 specials. Most of the offerings are near-porn “romances” but there are always some good ones like The Atlantic by Simon Winchester* I just bought last week.

So I now have at least 20 ebooks in holding pattern, un- or half-read. :eek:

Anybody else fall into the same trap?

*Wincester has done a lot of intersting books, see his site.
I think you need to get into the library habit. Much cheeper and you can still hold the book in your hands - and then you don’t have to find a shelf space for a book you will never read again. The only books you should buy are those you use all the time, not just once or twice. Also you can read many good books online at no cost. Learn to appreciate what is available for free. Also, for really cheep books, haunt the used book stores and garage and estate sales, but maybe, in your, case, that might be a bad idea. .

Linus2nd
 
Anybody else fall into the same trap?
Totally with you, except in my case it is audio books after my bride gave me a subscription to audible dot com last Christmas. It is a terrible curse!

I hope she renews it this Christmas

😃
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Unlike many folks who check out products in brick & mortise store and then buy online. I do the opposite – “window shop” online and then buy at a real store if possible.

Except for books. Since getting a Nook I’ve made more impulse buys than I care to admit. It’s doubly difficult because B&N keeps sending ads for and specials. Most of the offerings are near-porn “romances” but there are always some good ones like The Atlantic by Simon Winchester* I just bought last week.

So I now have at least 20 ebooks in holding pattern, un- or half-read. :eek:

Anybody else fall into the same trap?

*Wincester has done a lot of intersting books, see his site.
Only 20, Didymus? Then there is no way I’m even counting or posting how many books are on my Kindle ‘to be read later’ 😊

Although this paid off in the last fortnight when I was ill and looking for some light reading and found many such titles waiting for me to read. All had been acquired as 1 or , or even free, specials.

And now I’m checking into Simon Winchester, thanks for the recommendation.
Maybe you need to incorporate books into your budget and put a limit on? Say /week? You would then be permitting yourself to spend some, and it might help to keep you from going overboard. There are always the free old (out of copyright) books for when you have a very strong urge! All this is what I do with apps on my iPod.
This is good advice. Although I have found that some weeks there are lots of offerings I find irresistible, and then there will be weeks and weeks where nothing really appeals.
-You can remind yourself that the nook book will be around another day - there is no need to buy impulsively.
Yes, the Nook/Kindle/whatever e-book will be around another day, but at more than the 1 or special. When you think of it, 1 or is very little to spend on a book that you think you may enjoy by an author new to you, and if it turns out to be a book you don’t enjoy, the expense was not too much - but if you’re looking at say 10 or more, that’s a little different, expense-wise.
I think you need to get into the library habit.

Linus2nd
It there is a library nearby. In my home country I live on a farm, nearest library is at least half an hour away, and we mostly go to that town to go to Mass, the library is not open on Sundays. Where I currently live and work, there are no libraries with books in any of the languages I read. The same would apply to buying from sales, second hand shops, etc - only works if they are easily available where you live.

In both these cases my Kindle means I’m not deprived of reading.
 
I’m sorry… what’s the problem??? 🤷

;)😃 (the first step is admitting the problem… and I refuse to do so!)
 
I’m sorry… what’s the problem??? 🤷

;)😃 (the first step is admitting the problem… and I refuse to do so!)
Thank you! Problem solved! You would be a great (or at least popular) therapist. 😃

Ai-ai-yi!
I forgot my free books, counting them I have ~37 in waiting but to truthful I downloaded a lot of them to read “whenever”.

I think I will unsubscribe from the ads though, that should help some.
 
I too had this problem. It was like my addiction. It just manifest in a different way. I felt the obsession and compulsion to buy books. I stopped buying books in shops,on-line and for my iphone. I only get them now if they are free 🙂
 
I buy paper books and refuse to stare at another screen after work. And I have a ton of paper books.

Peace,
Ed
 
So I now have at least 20 ebooks in holding pattern, un- or half-read. :eek:

Anybody else fall into the same trap?

*Wincester has done a lot of intersting books, see his site.
Yes! Let’s form a support group for book addicts like ourselves. Impulse buying is so easy on the internet.😊
 
I set a budget. I have to think long and hard before I spend a certain amount on any particular book. I’ve got a list of over a hundred books I would like to own, but I only buy books that I feel are rare enough or important enough, that I should buy them now. Other books I want are way out of my price range now. If I win the lotto, I will put money aside, pay off my credit card, and help the poor. But I will still pick and choose before I buy books from my list. Except for the book about the Horten Ho-IX.

Peace,
Ed
 
I had a similar problem a few years ago, back when I actually had time to read. I set a firm rule that I wouldn’t buy another book until I’d read all the ones in my “to read” pile. In a frenzy of reading I got through most of them in about 3 months, including one I’d been working on for about 3 years. I didn’t get through all of them and went back to buying books, but at least now my “to read” pile is much more manageable.
 
Yes! Let’s form a support group for book addicts like ourselves. Impulse buying is so easy on the internet.😊
By George I’ve got it!
Speed reading classes! If I could read a book a day, or every other day, I’d be caught up in no time.

Another problem is prioritising – I got started with the Bible & Catechism daily lessons but got interrupted by Asimov’s and Analog SF magazines, then a free anthology from Tor (150 stories!) then . . .

New Plan: cut RSS feeds in half, no forums (fora?) except CAF & eliminate the backlog. Cross my heart X.
 
I too have lived far from a library and even now, our library is a bit limited.

It seems that you are outside the US-- it may be that you could access a library online. A lot of systems allow people to get a card for payment of an annual fee ranging from $20 to $80 (!). This allows access to their online stuff. I am not exactly sure how to do it because in one, I got my own card so I wouldn’t have to use my mother’s when I was visiting her, and the other we got when we moved outside the county to a place with a terrible library. So in both cases I was 1. there in person and 2. had a readon for doing it. But since bother systems had a system to deal with it, and I have heard of other systems which also do, I assume it is not uncommon. You might be able to get someone here in the States to set you up with a card. Get them to give you the contact info for the person who knows how to work the app because I can’t say that these apps are as easy to work as the apps which are not attached to libraries.

I also download a huge amount of stuff to read and to listen to–I don’t know if you can do that on your device.
Only 20, Didymus? Then there is no way I’m even counting or posting how many books are on my Kindle ‘to be read later’ 😊

Although this paid off in the last fortnight when I was ill and looking for some light reading and found many such titles waiting for me to read. All had been acquired as 1 or , or even free, specials.

And now I’m checking into Simon Winchester, thanks for the recommendation.

This is good advice. Although I have found that some weeks there are lots of offerings I find irresistible, and then there will be weeks and weeks where nothing really appeals.
This is where a mental or written account can come in handy–one week nothing appeals, the next week you have $10 to spend rather than just $5 🙂 And you can make this any amount that fits your budget. This way you will be in control of your spending, and not be shocked to find out you have spent $x on books! You will have spent what you are “allowed” to spend and have decided that is a reasonable amount.

You could then also give up buying books for Lent and Advent, if you wanted.

It is very reasonable (in my mind–ok, in my mind absolutely essential!) to spend a small amount on reading materials, esp if they are not going to clutter up your house! (Don’t look at my house… homeschooling seems to make biblioddiction impossible to cure!)
Yes, the Nook/Kindle/whatever e-book will be around another day, but at more than the 1 or special. When you think of it, 1 or is very little to spend on a book that you think you may enjoy by an author new to you, and if it turns out to be a book you don’t enjoy, the expense was not too much - but if you’re looking at say 10 or more, that’s a little different, expense-wise.
It there is a library nearby. In my home country I live on a farm, nearest library is at least half an hour away, and we mostly go to that town to go to Mass, the library is not open on Sundays. Where I currently live and work, there are no libraries with books in any of the languages I read. The same would apply to buying from sales, second hand shops, etc - only works if they are easily available where you live.
In both these cases my Kindle means I’m not deprived of reading.
If I were you, next time I would get a more flexible device which allow a wider selection. On my iPod, I can access more than just books, and also listening materials for when I am driving or doing dishes. You can also get Kindle and Nook apps so everything will transfer if you don’t want two devices, altho I have to say that I would keep what you have because the apps currently aren’t great. The iPod is good enough and easy to carry, but I think it’s probably easier to read on the iPad Mini. I think Samsung makes a phone which is an in-between size–don’t know if they have a separate device like Apple does.
 
I too have lived far from a library and even now, our library is a bit limited.

It seems that you are outside the US-- it may be that you could access a library online. …Get them to give you the contact info for the person who knows how to work the app because I can’t say that these apps are as easy to work as the apps which are not attached to libraries.

I also download a huge amount of stuff to read and to listen to–I don’t know if you can do that on your device.

This is where a mental or written account can come in handy–…

It is very reasonable (in my mind–ok, in my mind absolutely essential!) to spend a small amount on reading materials, esp if they are not going to clutter up your house! (Don’t look at my house… homeschooling seems to make biblioddiction impossible to cure!)

If I were you, next time I would get a more flexible device which allow a wider selection. On my iPod, I can access more than just books, and also listening materials for when I am driving or doing dishes. You can also get Kindle and Nook apps so everything will transfer if you don’t want two devices, altho I have to say that I would keep what you have because the apps currently aren’t great. The iPod is good enough and easy to carry, but I think it’s probably easier to read on the iPad Mini. I think Samsung makes a phone which is an in-between size–don’t know if they have a separate device like Apple does.
Thanks, St Francis. Indeed, I’m not in the USA, or anywhere near. On line library would mean reading on a computer screen? Very uncomfortable for the amount of reading I do.

Tried listening to things while I do something else, but find that doesn’t really work for me. Lately, and where I mostly drive, full concentration is needed - even praying a Rosary as I drive is no longer an option for me.

As I’m single and still working, not really much need to ‘budget’ too much for books, but the day is coming when I will have to be a little more careful.

I have ended up with both the Kindle (bought many years ago) and an iPad (bought as a more portable device than a laptop, especially when flying). I much prefer the Kindle for reading though because it is an easier size to manage anywhere, and the battery lasts for ages between charges. It also means that when I eventually go back home I won;t have to worry about the books I want to take. Kindle is wonderful when you fly as well; current book nearly finished, no problem, if you do finish it on the flight there are many others to choose from. The iPad is wonderful for the children’s picture stories because of colour, battery life is horrible. Although I still buy the grandchildren loads of real books.

Now, having sidetracked the thread a bit, I come back to Didymus’ question and want to know why anybody would want to stop buying books? To me reading = of the same value as breathing!
 
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