Hello. Lately, I’ve been struggling with devotion to Mary. I am a new convert to the Catholic faith (Easter Vigil 2014) and I come from a Protestant background. I understand and believe all of the Marian doctrines and I have had a great love and devotion to Mary. I enjoy praying the Rosary and I even have made the consecration to Jesus through Mary using Fr. Gaitley’s book, 33 Days to Morning Glory. Lately though, I have been struggling with my devotion to Mary. I’m thinking it has something to do with my Protestant upbringing, but I feel like sometimes that devotion to Mary takes the focus off of Jesus. Am I wrong in feeling this or is it possible to overemphasize Mary? If so, how do we know when we start to over emphasize Mary?
Hello strings,
It is wonderful that you have made the total consecration to our Blessed Mother and now that you have made it, you are totally dedicated to her and her cause which is the same as that as Jesus, namely, the spread and establishment of the kingdom of God and the most sacred heart of Jesus on earth. I think you need to eliminate from your thoughts the idea that your devotion and consecration to Mary somehow takes the focus off of Christ or God because this is simply not the case. Mary is filled with Jesus Christ and God and she leads us to them and she knows best how to lead us to them. Consecration to Mary involves the imitation of Mary and her virtues and our Blessed Lady fulfilled the will of God perfectly at all times like no other creature.
As St Louis de Montfort and St Maximilian Kolbe tells us, we totally consecrate ourselves to Mary because this is the will of God. So, we don’t have to worry or have such thoughts as overemphazing Mary, for it is the will of God that we give ourselves totally to her, honor and love her as much as we can, and unite our will to hers at all times. For doing the will of Mary is the same as doing the will of God for Mary’s will is wholly united to God’s will. As St Louis de Montfort says, we will never love or honor Mary as much as she deserves.
We consecrate ourselves to Mary not as if she is the end of this consecration. We give ourselves to our Blessed Mother so that we can give ourselves more perfectly to Jesus and to God. Jesus and the Trinity is the end of the total consecration to Mary.
Once we have made the total consecration to Mary, we give and offer everything to Jesus and to God through Mary. It is not necessary that we have to distinctly think about offering everything to Jesus through Mary in everything we do; as long as we don’t detract our consecration to Mary, we offer everything to God through Mary whether we are actually thinking about it or not in all we do. Also, feel free to give yourself to any devotion approved by the Church and to which you may feel attracted such as the devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. As long as we don’t detract our consecration, we offer everything to God through our Blessed Lady and this is very pleasing to God.
Total consecration to Mary doesn’t mean we can’t speak or pray directly to Jesus, or God the Father or the Holy Spirit. For Jesus and the Trinity is the end of the consecration to Mary. If our Lady leads you or attracts you to speak or pray to Jesus or the Father or the Holy Spirit, then by all means, do so. Mary may also lead you to pray and speak directly to her and feel free to do this as well. Consecration to Mary is not meant to restrict us, on the contrary, we should have more confidence in going to Jesus and God.
The main point here is that don’t worry about those thoughts that may come to mind that if you consecrate yourself to Mary and do everything for her and try to do her will at all times that you are somehow detracting from devotion to Jesus or God. Jesus knows that you are doing this for him. The simple fact of the matter is that though we love Mary, Jesus, God the Father and God the Holy Spirit, the angels and saints in heaven, our own fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters on earth, we can only think of one at a time; unlike God who can think of all things simultaneously.
Feel free to give yourself to Mary in full liberty, without any limitations, unreservedly, without those vain fears which constrict and chill hearts.
I will end here with a quote from St Maximilian Kolbe, a great apostle of Mary, the founder of the Knights of the Immaculata and the Marytowns which was in response to some of his brother friars who asked him the same questions that you have presented:
“How little is the Immaculate known even now, in theory and still less in everyday life! How many prejudices, incomprehensions, and doubts still linger in the minds of some people! May the Immaculate permit her Niepokalanow [Marytown] to dispel these shadows, to dissipate these cold fogs, to revivify and enkindle the fire of love towards her without any limitations, in full liberty, without those vain fears which constrict and chill hearts. So may people seek the King not next to his palace, but within it, inside it, in its innermost chambers [in Mary].”