In reflecting, we need to realize our duty to bloom in unpleasant surroundings, love and worship Our Lord in spite of obvious imperfection, and rejoice that our hearts do not succomb to the pressures to become cynical, angry and morbid as a result of all that we see. St. Paul tells us "rejoice always, again I say “rejoice!”
This reminds me of the Serenity Prayer, especially this “expanded” version of it:
God, give us grace to accept with serenity
the things that cannot be changed,
Courage to change the things
which should be changed,
and the Wisdom to distinguish
the one from the other.
Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,
Taking, as Jesus did,
This sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it,
Trusting that You will make all things right,
If I surrender to Your will,
So that I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with You forever in the next.
Amen.
“Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,
Taking, as Jesus did,
This sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it,”
Whether we want it that way or not, there is such a thing as “reality”. And we have to deal with reality whether we want to or not. We can choose to whine about it, or we can choose as the flower in the rock, to find God in it and trust that He “will make all things right.”
Yes, we should change the things we can, but we must also have the wisdom to accept those we can’t change and learn to trust. The actions of others can’t steal our faith or our peace unless we allow them to.
Peace,