Suicidal Nephew? Please Pray!

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My sister’s son is 15 years old. He’s a good Christian kid with a heavy interest in Catholicism. So anyways, he’s been home schooled for about 3 years. He doesn’t really have any friends, except for a few kids in his martial arts class. He’s a great person, he loves technology, but he’s not your stereotypical nerd. In fact, many people (especially girls his age) have said that he looks like a male model. Well last week he was staying at my parents house, as was I. He went down into the basement. After about 3 hours, I started getting worried. I went down there to find the bathroom door locked. I knocked. There was no answer. I unlocked it with my fingernail (it’s a pretty cheap lock) and I found my nephew, laying on his stomach with his belt tight around his neck. He was unconscious. I quickly got the belt off him and turned him over. His face was beat red and tears were rolling down his face. He started regaining consciousness. He didn’t even have the strength to open his eyes. They just kept closing. I rushed him upstairs and got him some water. I asked him what was going on down there, and he burst into tears. He said, “I give up! I’m done looking!” “Looking for what?” I asked. He replied “There just a bunch of whores (pardon the language), and they’re all going to Hell!” “Who?” I said. “The girls.” He started sobbing. “All they want is sex sex sex! I want to wait until marriage, but all girls want is to sleep with everyone they see! I’m sick of it! I hate them! Even Christian girls, they have sex with every boyfriend that they’ve been with. They say they’re gonna wait, but then they don’t!” My heart shattered. The same thing happened to my brother when he was 14, the same brother who punched himself every day, the same brother who slept with a knife under his bed, the same brother who became addicted to every drug he could find, the same brother who planned to burn down every church in his city. I told him that there are many girls who are waiting, but he called me a liar. His only source of what teens do is from the media. I really don’t want this poor boy to go through the Hell that my brother has been dealing with for ten years. What should I do? (Sorry this is so long)
 
That’s really sad (I have tears while writing this). Maybe you can talk to your sister and see if she’ll let him attend a youth group or something. I see why some parents don’t want their kids in public school, but you can’t just cut them off from the outside world without resulting in some problems. Look at the North Koreans. Their only source of the world is through radio and TV propaganda designed to make them hate Americans. Since his only source is the media, I can’t say I’m really surprised that he believes what he believes. I will pray for him, and also for your brother.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†
 
O Sacred Heart of Jesus we lift this young man up to you in our prayers and ask that all may be well with him soon.

Hail Mary, full of grace, our Lord is with you.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
He needs immediately counseling and might need to be admitted to a psychiatric hospital. He nearly DIED! Stay with him and have him tell his parents and get counseling lined up. He’s right that girls are very aggressive these days, but most young men don’t take that to the point of trying to kill themselves. He needs help.
 
suicide attempt should equal a trip to the ER
prayers for him and all involved!
 
Lord please hear our prayers for our friends nephew. This is a desperately frightening situation and we pray for the safety of this nephew. Lord please guide him to see the way forward. Please guide all around him to help him and support him that he may feel secure and loved and safe. Lord please grant him calm inner peace to not feel so desperate to consider drastic thoughts. Lord please place Your healing hand upon him that he may feel Your love for him in his everyday life.
Lord in Your mercy hear our prayers
Amen

Our Father, Who art in heaven
Hallowed be Thy Name;
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
I am about to do my prayers now… I will include your nephew in my prayers… And I second that said by previous posters… please have him seen to by a professional… This could have ended very tragically… only for your intervention … Thank God for your presence of mind and worry.
 
We put our hope in the Lord
He is our protector and our help.
We are glad because of Him.
We trust in His holy Name.
May your constant love be with us, Lord.
as we put our hope in You.

Psalm 33: 20-22
 
St. Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the Devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray,
and do thou,
O Prince of the heavenly hosts,
by the power of God,
thrust into hell Satan,
and all the evil spirits,
who prowl about the world
seeking the ruin of souls. Amen…
 
i turn to you, dear virgin and martyr, confident of your power with God and of your
willingness to take this boys cause into your hands. I praise and bless the Lord for giving
you to us as patron of the nervous and emotionally disturbed. I firmly hope that
through your kind intercession He will restore his lost serenity and peace of mind.
May He speak to his heart and reassure him: “My peace I give you. Let not your heart
be troubled nor let it be afraid.” Pray for him, dear St. Dymphna, that his nervous
and emotional turmoil may cease, and that he may again know serenity and personal
peace.
Amen.
In Physical
 
I think he needs to go to a psychiatric ward. This is not to be taken lightly he could do it again if he does not get the proper help, I don’t highly agree with medications as I take them myself, but he may actually need it for a short while, if not he definitely needs counselling of some sort.

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Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee,
Blessed Art thou among women
And blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary, Mother of God
Pray for us sinners
Now and at the hour of our death
AMEN :highprayer:
 
:signofcross: Lord Jesus Christ, Merciful Redeemer, we ask Thee to attend those who are suicidal. Grant them the grace to recognize their problem and get the help they need. Bless them with Thy Sweet Presence and an outpouring of Divine Grace. We also ask Thee to attend their loved ones and caregivers. Grant them wisdom, prudence and guidance. O Crucified and Risen Saviour, make haste and come to our aid!
 
Lord have mercy. I thank God that you found you nephew in time.
May God give guidance and help to your nephew.
May God help him to find healing and hope, and a truly good Catholic girlfriend.
 
Thank you so much for the prayers! I convinced my sister to let my nephew go to a Catholic youth group yesterday. And what were they discussing? Sex before marriage. Turns out all of the kids were highly opposed to having relations outside of marriage. When I came to pick him up, I saw him talking to a girl who looked like she was really nice. He got her number, and they’re going on a date this Saturday. I haven’t seen him this happy for months. Thanks again!
 
Our Father, who art in Heaven
Hallowed be thy Name
Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done
On Earth as it is in Heaven
Give us this day, our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who tresspass against us
And lead us not into temptation
But deliver us from evil. Amen

Hail Mary Full of Grace, the Lord is with Thee,
Blessed art Thou among Women and Blessed is the Fruit of Thy Womb Jesus,
Holy Mary Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death, Amen.

Glory be to the Father and to The Son and to The Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be World without end, Amen
 
What should I do? (Sorry this is so long)
Pray without cease and especially Mother Mary.

I pray for him.

Dear God, please protect your child in all ways and from any arms. I beg you, to grant him all the graces so he cans feel at peace in his heart. In Jesus name. Amen

Hail Mary Full of Grace, the Lord is with Thee,
Blessed art Thou among Women and Blessed is the Fruit of Thy Womb Jesus,
Holy Mary Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death, Amen.
 
Thank you so much for the prayers! I convinced my sister to let my nephew go to a Catholic youth group yesterday. And what were they discussing? Sex before marriage. Turns out all of the kids were highly opposed to having relations outside of marriage. When I came to pick him up, I saw him talking to a girl who looked like she was really nice. He got her number, and they’re going on a date this Saturday. I haven’t seen him this happy for months. Thanks again!
This is wonderful news.

I continue to pray for your nephew, he has been in my heart since i read his story.

Dear Saint Michael, i pray that you protect him always from any arms or from any dark/evil being around him, if this is ok with God. Amen
 
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