Suko, I have been through my times of deep depression and even suicide. I cannot agree more with one of your replies from a person on here saying that never feel like you don’t know what to say or how to help your friend. My friends who always just stuck by me and would come over and listen to me talk, or just watch t.v, were the ones that I felt really cared about me. Have you suggested to your friend to talk to a counselor? At first, I had a hard time talking to one, but then was eventually put on meds b/c of the level I was at. The meds actually helped me open up and talk to someone. It might be a good idea since you said your friend isn’t really religious. Also, helping them to the leg work of finding a counselor in the area would be very helpful too. When you’re at that point, you don’t have the energy for mood to do anything for yourself. It sounds like you are being a very true and caring friend. Hang in there.
God, please help your child get through this time of struggle and help them realize how precious life here on earth really is. Please help them find peace in their life and the reason to want to live each day. Also, please help this wonderful friend get through this time as well. It’s hard watching a friend struggle, please guide them in how to help their friend and give them the strength to never give up on their friend.
You both are in my prayers,
Jenn