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You may have read one of the poems or Bishop Sheen’s take on the idea that when we get to Heaven we will be surprised who we see there or don’t see there. And some will be surprised to see us there! 
I also heard it put another way, which is the heart of what I’m getting at: If we have a conflict with a person here on Earth, we’ll either meet them in Heaven or in Hell.
Since we don’t want to meet them in Hell, then, we can’t wish that they would go there because then we risk going there ourselves due to our unforgiveness. Not good. :nope:
If we have the sense, and get the chance, then, we will make peace with him or her in this world. If death comes before there’s a chance it’s the next world, and we Catholics believe that would be in Purgatory. :sad_yes:
The ideal would be then that both parties are in the grace of God and meet happily in Heaven, end of story. :heaven::heaven:
This is a powerful spiritual exercise if you meditate upon it. Thinking back on the people I’ve had upsets with - I mean, hopefully not that many, but even a few is sad, if there hasn’t been a chance to reconcile and one or the other of us dies. It’s probably even the best idea to keep praying that that chance to reconcile will come - like in the case of someone who you can’t find a way to contact or who is upset with you and has requested you not contact them.
I also heard it put another way, which is the heart of what I’m getting at: If we have a conflict with a person here on Earth, we’ll either meet them in Heaven or in Hell.
Since we don’t want to meet them in Hell, then, we can’t wish that they would go there because then we risk going there ourselves due to our unforgiveness. Not good. :nope:
If we have the sense, and get the chance, then, we will make peace with him or her in this world. If death comes before there’s a chance it’s the next world, and we Catholics believe that would be in Purgatory. :sad_yes:
The ideal would be then that both parties are in the grace of God and meet happily in Heaven, end of story. :heaven::heaven:
This is a powerful spiritual exercise if you meditate upon it. Thinking back on the people I’ve had upsets with - I mean, hopefully not that many, but even a few is sad, if there hasn’t been a chance to reconcile and one or the other of us dies. It’s probably even the best idea to keep praying that that chance to reconcile will come - like in the case of someone who you can’t find a way to contact or who is upset with you and has requested you not contact them.