She understands it already at an age-appropriate level. After all, we hear at every mass how the bread and wine are “the work of human hands”. But the question was about being able to draw a symbol. The only thing we could think of was drawing a picture of a host, but then we wondered if the word “symbol” meant something more than that.
The catechists have been focusing heavily on the Real Presence, to my immense relief, and I can tell that these children are not only very knowledgeable about the sacrament, but they are also very eager.
With the world being so hostile to Christians and Christian values, IMO, it would be cruel to withhold the sacrament any longer. The Eucharist is the food that truly sustains us and strengthens grace in our souls. I am quite thankful that it is our bishops who decides matters of such importance, and not speculating lay people. Our Lord Himself said “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them.” Who are we to insist on an adult understanding. We are to have a faith like a child’s, not insist a child is well-versed in theological topics.
And regarding confirmation, why, in the name of all that is good and holy, would anyone think it better to delay the sacrament that perfects our baptism and strengthens us with the gifts of the Holy Spirit? What could we possibly be waiting for? Teens are exposed to an onslaught of evil daily in the world today. They need to be ready for spiritual combat. Confirmation gives them that grace.