I’ve just skim-read this article. Funny, I remember Tab Hunter from when I was a kid, and learned then that he was gay, so he couldn’t have been totally in the closet! Haven’t thought of him for years.
Two things strike me as positive about him in regards to his private life: first, that he evidently believes in keeping his private life private; second, that he seems to have stayed with the same partner for many years. This doesn’t make his actions right, of course, and it is maybe typical of current gay rationalizing that he still claims to be “a devout Catholic”. (Though true of many high profilers; e.g. Nancy Pelosi.)
I believe that perhaps the central problem in the Church today is that so many Catholics do not honor or even recognize her authority----from this springs the “cafeteria-style” Catholics. And if Tab Hunter sees himself as a devout Catholic, he is a good example of this—he is a “strong Catholic”, despite living a gay lifestyle! Well, hooray for him!
The article is actually about the continued difficulties of out-of-the-closet homosexuals in Hollywood, but as a Catholic I am responding to what catches my eye.
And I never before knew that Tab is a Catholic!
What a time to be living in!
Makes me think of Gandalf in “The Lord of the Rings”, who says in response to Frodo’s wish that he didn’t have to carry the overwhelming burden of the Ring, “Neither do any who face such times. But it is not our choice as to what times we live in. It is up to us only to do what we can with the situations given us.” (Paraphrased)
Amen.