malachi_a_serva:
Question, can a married man become a priest in North America? As it states above, “in the West this is generally prohibited”. Just looking for clarification. If it is prohibited, I am wondering why it would be as Jesus chose Peter to be his Apostle and he was married. I am sure you have all explained this before, but it puzzles me.
Thank you.
A married man cannot become a priest in the west, although there are exceptions to the rule. For instance, married converts from a faith such as Anglicanism.
Why is it that Jesus chose Peter to be his Apostle, when Peter was married?
Simply because there is nothing wrong with being married, and being a priest. This is why there are some priests in the Latin rite that are married, and priests, and why priests in the Eastern Catholic church can normally be ordained if they are already married. It is a useful discipline that is encouraged by Jesus and Paul, but it is not a moral law.
A discipline is a practice, it is not absolute, and can be changed.
Nevertheless, the west derives its tradition of a celibate clergy from Jesus’ injunction about “they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.” (Matt 19:12) As well as Paul’s position in Corinthians that, “it is well for them to remain single as I am.” (7:8), and “does well; and he who refrains from marriage will do better” (7:38).
The highest example of holiness is to not marry and to remain celibate, as Jesus’ words indicate. Jesus himself remained unmarried and celibate for his ministry, as did Paul and John. It is not for everyone, of course, as Jesus also notes.
Once again, it is a practice, or a discipline. It is not absolute and could theoretically be changed. However, it is also a position well grounded in the example of Christ and in Scripture.