Taking up your cross everyday

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There is scripture that relates to taking up your cross everyday. Going in through the narrow gate, that the christian life is hard.

What exactly does taking up your cross mean in practical terms? The reason I ask is because It seems my life is easy right now and I want to be living right.
 
I have pondered this for many years. Something that consistently occurs, though in different circumstances, is sacrifice. It can go so many different directions. Money, time, my “wants” verses God’s desires for me. It always has been a conscience decision on my part. Most of the sacrifice is something I really don’t want to do, yet deep down know it is what I should. These sacrifices have been for me, a cross of affliction, from the opposition of my selfish will.
 
Taking up my cross means to not complain and accept with God’s grace the things that come my way that I cannot change. Such as, sickness, loss of job, death of a loved one, etc. Keeping our eyes on our crucified Lord helps us to do this.

Romans 8:28

“All things work unto good for those who love God.”
 
There is scripture that relates to taking up your cross everyday. Going in through the narrow gate, that the christian life is hard.

What exactly does taking up your cross mean in practical terms? The reason I ask is because It seems my life is easy right now and I want to be living right.
I don’t think there is a “formula” that applies to every individual. If you do not have trials right now, that could well be a blessing. Does it open opportunities of charity for you? Perhaps you are called to help those who need it, just as Simon the Cyrene was a bystander and called to help Christ carry his cross. There are saints who did various penances in history, however, there are also saints, such as Padre Pio, who at times in his life said he did not go seeking out additional penances, but accepted the ones God willed come to him. One safe thing to do is to pray for God to reveal His will to you. :o
 
There is scripture that relates to taking up your cross everyday. Going in through the narrow gate, that the christian life is hard.

What exactly does taking up your cross mean in practical terms? The reason I ask is because It seems my life is easy right now and I want to be living right.
An examination of the Scriptures shows that the people of God can expect to be called to do things which are impossible for the natural man, the man without the Spirit working in him. Apart from the Spirit’s work upon the sinner, the Christian life is not only hard it is impossible. “that which is impossible to man is possible with God.” and “Abide in Me for without Me you can do nothing.” As for those that do have the Spirit working in them, denying themselves and taking up the cross(the way of self-denial and suffering for the sake of God’s glory and the good of His people), this is the fruit or evidence that God is truly working in them. So Paul teaches in Galatians 5, *“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.” *
Naturally, we want to disregard the will of God for our lives and go our own way instead. However, the Christian fights against the flesh and strives to lay aside his own wants and desires in order to do what God wants and desires. It is a struggle, a fight. Consider Paul in Romans 7, “I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.”

Without the Spirit, pleasing God is impossible, but by His grace the Christian is enabled to carry out this daily requirement. Romans 8,* “Those who are in the flesh cannot please God… You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of God dwells in you. If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.”*
 
There is scripture that relates to taking up your cross everyday. Going in through the narrow gate, that the christian life is hard.

What exactly does taking up your cross mean in practical terms? The reason I ask is because It seems my life is easy right now and I want to be living right.
Without knowing what you do with your day it would be hard to answer specifically. Would you care to give us an outline of a typical day for you?
 
There is scripture that relates to taking up your cross everyday. Going in through the narrow gate, that the christian life is hard.

What exactly does taking up your cross mean in practical terms? The reason I ask is because It seems my life is easy right now and I want to be living right.
In its most simplest, but most difficult of terms, it is to humble our own will to the will of God. "“If anyone would be my disciple, let him deny himself”, take up his cross daily and follow me.". When we deny ourselves, we are denying our own will, and humbly subjecting it to the will of God.

How many of us are willing to do that? If we are willing, then we will be given a cross, or crosses to carry. This cross, or crosses will test our faith, our trust in God. If we remain faithful in the midst of our cross, we will become more like Jesus Christ by the working of the Holy Spirit in our lives.

God’s peace be with you

micah
 
Ok I am starting to understand more. How do I know that the spirit is in fact working in me? I am just ignorant and not mature enough to know, or perhaps not smart enough.

My day consists of waking up in a rush, attending college and in the evenings I try to study the bible or the catechism when I can. I do pray as well and Ive been attending more masses. Im slowly converting from my old ways. so I assume it is working… but i think i need to submit more, perhaps avoid lsitening to certain music and refrain from talkign in a certain way that i do with certain people
 
Ok I am starting to understand more. How do I know that the spirit is in fact working in me? I am just ignorant and not mature enough to know, or perhaps not smart enough.

My day consists of waking up in a rush, attending college and in the evenings I try to study the bible or the catechism when I can. I do pray as well and Ive been attending more masses. Im slowly converting from my old ways. so I assume it is working… but i think i need to submit more, perhaps avoid lsitening to certain music and refrain from talkign in a certain way that i do with certain people
You say you are converting from your old ways, and that you need to need to avoid certain music and refrain from talking in a certain way with certain people.

I don’t see you as being ignorant and not mature or smart enough to know that the spirit is working in you. 🙂
 
=pwlj_christ87;9982973]There is scripture that relates to taking up your cross everyday. Going in through the narrow gate, that the christian life is hard.
What exactly does taking up your cross mean in practical terms? The reason I ask is because It seems my life is easy right now and I want to be living right.
Let me know if you still have questions.

“TAKE UP YOUR CROSS”

Phil.2: 8 “And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross Luke.9 :23
And he said to all, "If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. **Mark.8: 34 And he called to him the multitude with his disciples, and said to them, "If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. Luke.9: 23 **And he said to all, "If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. **Luke.14: 7 **Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me, cannot be my disciple.”

This is telling us that we MUST recognize that BECAUSE Jesus suffered in His humanity; we can expect no less. We MUST accept what ever difficulties Jesus gives to us in Faith; in Hope and in Love. Not complaining; and trusting that He will do as promised and NEVER give us more than we can handle WITH HIS AID.

Heb.6: 10 “For God is not so unjust as to overlook your work and the love which you showed for his sake in serving the saints, as you still do.”

Rev.2: 23 “and I will strike her children dead. And all the churches shall know that I am he who searches mind and heart, and I will give to each of you as your works deserve.”

1 Peter 1: 17 “Now if you invoke as Father him who judges impartially according to each one’s works, conduct yourselves with reverence during the time of your sojourning, “

Matt.19: 17 “If you would enter life, keep [ALL OF] the commandments."

THE NARROW GATE:
Matthew 7:13 “Enter ye in at the narrow gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way that leadeth to destruction, and many there are who go in thereat.”

Luke 13:24 “Strive to enter by the narrow gate; for many, I say to you, shall seek to enter, and shall not be able.”

Matthew 7:14 “How narrow is the gate, and strait is the way that leadeth to life: and few there are that find it!

This means that God makes “sufficient” grace available to every soul He Creates. BUT he does not demand acceptance OF IT. Like God Himself [Gen.1:26-27], we are given for proper use, a mind, intellect, FREEWILL all of which are attached permanently to our SOULS. Each of these gifts like God Himself are “spiritual things” which can neither die or be killed. It is this “Other-Self” that will either enjoy the Beatific Vision; or Eternal Hell; BY OUR LIFES CHOICES.

Isa.43 Verses 7 and 21: “every one who is called by my name,** whom I created for my glory,** whom I formed and made." AND the people whom I formed for myself that they might declare my praise.”

God Bless you,
pat /PJM
 
Ok I am starting to understand more. How do I know that the spirit is in fact working in me? I am just ignorant and not mature enough to know, or perhaps not smart enough.

My day consists of waking up in a rush, attending college and in the evenings I try to study the bible or the catechism when I can. I do pray as well and Ive been attending more masses. Im slowly converting from my old ways. so I assume it is working… but i think i need to submit more, perhaps avoid lsitening to certain music and refrain from talkign in a certain way that i do with certain people
Yes, these are very good beginnings. It truly is not a matter of being ignorant, or smart, but of receiving the spiritual understanding and wisdom from God. Usually though, God will make his presence known to you by the changes He is bringing about in your life. It is our heart that God is seeking to purify, and the negative attitudes of our heart are what he wants to prune so that we can receive the fruit of the Holy Spirit: Love, joy, peace, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, longsuffering and temperance.

Are you familiar with the sermon on the Mount? These are very challenging precepts to follow, and they can not be followed without the Spirit of God. If we desire to follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, and humbly ask for God’s graces through his Holy Spirit, He will grant them to us. As a young person, you will undergo many temptations along the way, but never give up even if you should fall.

Our walk with God is often a daily faith journey of trials and conversion, in turning ourselves toward God and His ways, and turning away from our own selfish, sinful, prideful, stubborn ways. Most of us have emotional and psychological healing and growth to undergo as we take this spiritual journey. There are Catholic spiritual writers on this subject if you ever seem to hit a bump, or run into a ditch in the road. Having a true spiritual friend, or mentor is also very advantageous and something you may want to pray about.

Finding some time to be quiet before God, whether in the morning or in the evening is so important. Confession, Mass and the holy Eucharist will be your foundation. You have made a decision of turning towards God…as a college student this is very good.

“May the peace of God which passes all understanding keep your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, so cast all your cares upon him, for he cares for you.”

God loves you

micah
 
Ok I am starting to understand more. How do I know that the spirit is in fact working in me? I am just ignorant and not mature enough to know, or perhaps not smart enough.

My day consists of waking up in a rush, attending college and in the evenings I try to study the bible or the catechism when I can. I do pray as well and Ive been attending more masses. Im slowly converting from my old ways. so I assume it is working… but i think i need to submit more, perhaps avoid lsitening to certain music and refrain from talkign in a certain way that i do with certain people
I quoted from Galatians 5, “And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.”
This statement comes at the end of the chapter. Read all of chapter 5 and you will find matter worth much consideration.
 
these are all good posts about “taking up one’s cross.”

the second beatitude is, blessed are they who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

this refers to the mourning we do over our past sins. We do so, because it is often hard to change, to conform our life to Christian living.

Those are crosses we bear – for starters – just living our life as a new creation in Jesus Christ. Then, there are the crosses we bear with respect to other people – helping them, putting up with them, etc. There are a limitless number of people who need our help, to be saved, for example.
 
Ok I am starting to understand more. How do I know that the spirit is in fact working in me? I am just ignorant and not mature enough to know, or perhaps not smart enough.
Have you ever considered what gift(s) God has given to you? For example, my most obvious gift is faith.
My day consists of waking up in a rush, attending college and in the evenings I try to study the bible or the catechism when I can.
Already you are doing more than I did while in college.
I do pray as well and Ive been attending more masses.
Do you have it organized where it is a priority or does it feel like you are having to force these into your busy schedule? If it is the former then you are on a good path. IF one takes time for God it is amazing how much time one does have for all else.
Im slowly converting from my old ways. so I assume it is working… but i think i need to submit more, perhaps avoid lsitening to certain music and refrain from talkign in a certain way that i do with certain people
So, you have a sense it is working. Can you share an example of “converting from my old ways”? It does not truly matter I am simply a curious type. Also, you offer some suggestions of how you might subtract things to cause change in the future. Have you considered what you might add to your life to enrich your faith? This might not be possible for you with your busy schedule, but sometimes by subtracting other things then time opens up for something new.

God bless
 
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