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Introduction
I was messaged by a JW friend of mine on Facebook yesterday. He recommended I watch a TV programme about the Vatican that was on at the time. It was entitled “Benedict’s Via Dolorosa” and gave an overview of important points during his Pontificate. Among the ones mentioned were the IOR (“Vatican bank”), the abuse scandal and Vatileaks.
He asked me for my opinion on it, and so we talked. I stated that while my expectations were rather mixed before I watched it, the documentary turned out to be better (though not perfect) than expected. However, I took issue with certain statements made. One of them was the characterisation of the sexual abuse scandal as a “paedophilia crisis in the Church”. I made clear that paedophilia is an absolute exception among the horrible crimes committed, and that most cases were cases of homosexuality among the offenders. That’s what got us into talking about more Church stuff.
I was asked about my opinion on Pope Francis, to which I gladly made three observations I had: First, that I liked him and admired his humility and love for the poor. Second was that I had absolutely no concerns about him being a “liberal” or “reformer”, in the sense that he would institute women priests and abolish celibacy, since he is orthodox and protected by Infallibility. Thirdly, I observed his obviously different and more simple style than Benedict, but stated that one could not pit the two against each other since every Pope is different. Though I said I favoured Benedicts “style” of dress and liturgy, I made clear I had no problem with Francis’.
His comments
My Witness friend stated he admired Pope Francis’ “attitude towards all the gold and so forth”, seeing in that an “back to the roots” attitude. Concerning the IOR, he believed that Francis would not be able to repair the “broken system in the Vatican”, but would only be able to turn it into a giant PR image. Clean the façade, but shove all the rubbish inside, so to speak.
My question
Now, I have posted a thread in the Prayer Intentions forum asking for prayers for his conversion, and for me to find charitable and truthful words when approached or talking to him about the Faith. In conjunction with that, I am wondering whether any of you, maybe even ex-Witnesses, have ideas of questions I could ask him that could get us into talking about the Truth of the Catholic Faith.
As an example, I could think of historical questions. The founding of the Catholic Church by Christ for example. Or similarly, whether there have always been true Christians. Do you have any points I could talk to him about, questions I could ask to get him thinking? Preferably in a way that doesn’t sound to him like “Now, here I come to convert you” but in a way that sounds more like an interest. The earlier tone would just scare him off. Thanks.
I was messaged by a JW friend of mine on Facebook yesterday. He recommended I watch a TV programme about the Vatican that was on at the time. It was entitled “Benedict’s Via Dolorosa” and gave an overview of important points during his Pontificate. Among the ones mentioned were the IOR (“Vatican bank”), the abuse scandal and Vatileaks.
He asked me for my opinion on it, and so we talked. I stated that while my expectations were rather mixed before I watched it, the documentary turned out to be better (though not perfect) than expected. However, I took issue with certain statements made. One of them was the characterisation of the sexual abuse scandal as a “paedophilia crisis in the Church”. I made clear that paedophilia is an absolute exception among the horrible crimes committed, and that most cases were cases of homosexuality among the offenders. That’s what got us into talking about more Church stuff.
I was asked about my opinion on Pope Francis, to which I gladly made three observations I had: First, that I liked him and admired his humility and love for the poor. Second was that I had absolutely no concerns about him being a “liberal” or “reformer”, in the sense that he would institute women priests and abolish celibacy, since he is orthodox and protected by Infallibility. Thirdly, I observed his obviously different and more simple style than Benedict, but stated that one could not pit the two against each other since every Pope is different. Though I said I favoured Benedicts “style” of dress and liturgy, I made clear I had no problem with Francis’.
His comments
My Witness friend stated he admired Pope Francis’ “attitude towards all the gold and so forth”, seeing in that an “back to the roots” attitude. Concerning the IOR, he believed that Francis would not be able to repair the “broken system in the Vatican”, but would only be able to turn it into a giant PR image. Clean the façade, but shove all the rubbish inside, so to speak.
My question
Now, I have posted a thread in the Prayer Intentions forum asking for prayers for his conversion, and for me to find charitable and truthful words when approached or talking to him about the Faith. In conjunction with that, I am wondering whether any of you, maybe even ex-Witnesses, have ideas of questions I could ask him that could get us into talking about the Truth of the Catholic Faith.
As an example, I could think of historical questions. The founding of the Catholic Church by Christ for example. Or similarly, whether there have always been true Christians. Do you have any points I could talk to him about, questions I could ask to get him thinking? Preferably in a way that doesn’t sound to him like “Now, here I come to convert you” but in a way that sounds more like an interest. The earlier tone would just scare him off. Thanks.