Teaching kids the Rosary

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Hi all,

I’ve been reading these forums for ages but this is my first time posting. I’m sorry if I’m asking this in the wrong place!

I was wondering how you all explain Mary and praying the Rosary to kids. My family are not very devout Catholics (not including myself, of course!) and I didn’t understand anything about the Rosary or about why we honour Mary until I was in my teens. I want my little brother, who is nine, to understand these things while he is young! If anyone has any thoughts on how best to teach him I’d appreciate it!!

🙂
 
Here is a neat description of how to help a child say the rosary.

cptryon.org/prayer/child/rosary/

When I was little our family used to kneel down around the bed and say it together or we would say it on our way to school in the car. I guess it stayed with us all these years… Luckily! When I got older and on my own, I went right back to it. It’s a good thing to teach your brother. God bless you for caring enough to teach him about it.
 
I guess it’s depends on the ages of the kids.

When we are very young, we try to keep it simple. I know people teach things so differently now than years ago.

I learned from praying it with my family. We used to all kneel down, as a family. My mother, or one of my brothers or sisters, would lead. We would follow. When my mother wanted another to learn, she had us lead…or at least part. When we were young, we prayed, answered, but we didn’t lead.

When we made mistakes, she would correct us.

I resisted leading. I was afraid of making a mistake, but eventually she insisted I was old enough and needed to also learn how to lead it.

She also explained to us the history of our family. She explained that our family had been praying like this for generations. My mother spoke French as her native language. She explained that there was a point when some would begin the rosary in English and the others would finish in French. She said they prayed like that, daily.

Then, even in advanced age, and pain, see my parents get on their kneels together, nightly, to pray the rosary. When I visited as an adult, I would pray with them. My parents would pray with others of my brothers and sisters who were Catholic when they visited.

I got to see that this was normal, or should be.

My mother also had us watch movies (before there were videos) on the saints, the 10 commandments. She had a bunch of movies she made sure we saw…The Robe, Barrabas, Ben Hur, Joan of Arc, and I think there surely must have been one about St. Bernadette. We would sometimes stay up till the wee hours of the morning to finish a movie.

My mother would talk about St. Bernadette and explain it all to us.

My mother got books for us on the lives of the saints. My parents tried to lead by example…go to church, confession, etc. My mother taught us our prayers simple ones and later got more complex. We would pray, individually, nightly, before bed. We would get on our knees, and my mother would tell us what prayers, and we would say them. If we had questions, she answered them.

Now, one could get a book, or video, on Fatima, say…or Lourdes. I think there are adult versions and children’s versions now, I think, on both.

Today, young kids could go online to the religious coloring pages online and learn more.

My mother always had crucifixes up …one in each room. She had statues…one in her room of the Blessed Virgin Mary. She had pictureds. One was very old…of the Immaculate Heart of Mary and Sacred Heart.

I would teach children that EACH prayer is a rose. When you finish the rosary, it’s a **CROWN **of roses, to present to Our Lady. We need to pray our very best, because we want the flowers to be very nice.

I would teach them you could pray for people…mother, father…brother, sister…sick people…whoever. …ourselves. Then, we get better at it with practice ;).
 
Wow, thanks for the responses so quickly! There are some great ideas there.

I guess another part of my question is, how can I teach him why we say the rosary? All the explanations I give my non-Catholic friends won’t quite explain it to a kid! I’m trying to figure out a way to make him understand why we honour Mary, if that makes sense.

Thanks again 🙂
 
My understanding of it is that we honor Mary because she is Jesus’ mother, and we pray to her so that she will ask her son Jesus for help with dealing with our problems for us and those we offer the rosary for.
Make sure you are never forcing prayer, religion, morallity, or anything else down his throat. If you nag him to pray or force him to discuss it he will hate religion and prayer. And bribes will certainly not work because then the only reason he will pray is for a reward.
I’m not accusing you, just trying to give you a warning of what could happen if you do these things.

God bless,
 
Here is an explanation from that page I sent earlier…

Do you know someone who is good at telling stories? Someone you love to listen to? Maybe it’s a teacher in school or your mother or father. We like good storytellers because they tell us things we like to hear.

Mary, the Mother of Jesus, is a good storyteller. When Jesus was a child in Nazareth, he must have listened to Mary and liked the stories she told. We can listen to her now, when we pray the Rosary. This is a prayer where we join Mary and with her remember stories about her Son.

When we pray the Rosary, we say certain prayers, like the Our Father and Hail Mary. But we also remember stories that are called “mysteries.”

Mysteries are stories about God, and so we never know enough about them. They never get old, because they keep telling us things we never knew before.

The Rosary tells the story of Jesus, in four parts. At this Web site, to begin each part I have written a little bit to help you understand what the stories are about; these pages are called “learn about”. On the pages called “pray” you will find a map to each one of the stories for that mystery. There is also a page to help you learn how to pray the Rosary.

On these pages, you will see pictures that were painted many years ago. We do not think that the pictures look just like the people and places the stories tell us about; it is just how different artists imagined people might have looked. You will imagine things in your own way and maybe you will make your own pictures.

The Rosary begins with the Joyful Mysteries, which are happy stories.
 
I guess it’s depends on the ages of the kids.

When we are very young, we try to keep it simple. I know people teach things so differently now than years ago.

I learned from praying it with my family. We used to all kneel down, as a family. My mother, or one of my brothers or sisters, would lead. We would follow. When my mother wanted another to learn, she had us lead…or at least part. When we were young, we prayed, answered, but we didn’t lead.

When we made mistakes, she would correct us.

I resisted leading. I was afraid of making a mistake, but eventually she insisted I was old enough and needed to also learn how to lead it.

She also explained to us the history of our family. She explained that our family had been praying like this for generations. My mother spoke French as her native language. She explained that there was a point when some would begin the rosary in English and the others would finish in French. She said they prayed like that, daily.

Then, even in advanced age, and pain, see my parents get on their kneels together, nightly, to pray the rosary. When I visited as an adult, I would pray with them. My parents would pray with others of my brothers and sisters who were Catholic when they visited.

I got to see that this was normal, or should be.

My mother also had us watch movies (before there were videos) on the saints, the 10 commandments. She had a bunch of movies she made sure we saw…The Robe, Barrabas, Ben Hur, Joan of Arc, and I think there surely must have been one about St. Bernadette. We would sometimes stay up till the wee hours of the morning to finish a movie.

My mother would talk about St. Bernadette and explain it all to us.

My mother got books for us on the lives of the saints. My parents tried to lead by example…go to church, confession, etc. My mother taught us our prayers simple ones and later got more complex. We would pray, individually, nightly, before bed. We would get on our knees, and my mother would tell us what prayers, and we would say them. If we had questions, she answered them.

Now, one could get a book, or video, on Fatima, say…or Lourdes. I think there are adult versions and children’s versions now, I think, on both.

Today, young kids could go online to the religious coloring pages online and learn more.

My mother always had crucifixes up …one in each room. She had statues…one in her room of the Blessed Virgin Mary. She had pictureds. One was very old…of the Immaculate Heart of Mary and Sacred Heart.

I would teach children that EACH prayer is a rose. When you finish the rosary, it’s a **CROWN **of roses, to present to Our Lady. We need to pray our very best, because we want the flowers to be very nice.

I would teach them you could pray for people…mother, father…brother, sister…sick people…whoever. …ourselves. Then, we get better at it with practice ;).
Don’t have a thing to add, just wanted to say this is a beautiful post and what a wonderful mother you had, ClearWater!!!
 
I had my kids write their own Rosary books…they had a page for each mystery, picture to color, and a list of ten things ( one for each Hail Mary) to contemplate in the mystery. It took many weeks to complete, but it was worth the time and effort.
 
I doubt if this helps the OP, but my first piece of advice is to start out by just saying the rosary with the kids at a young age. Don’t do it every night, but do it often enough to where it s a normal family activity. And at a young age, say under 6, all you have to explain at first is that it is a family prayer. Then one can explain it to them as time goes on, but it becomes no different than explaining to them why they brush their teeth or take a bath, etc. They are simply learning the “why” about something they see as a natural activity.

Its the same with going to mass on Sunday. Take them to mass every Sunday from the time they are infants. It is then just something one does. Explanations to follow.
 
I heard this on EWTN: praying the rosary is like sitting in the blessed virgin mothers lap while she shares her photo album of her son, our Lord, JesusChrist.

Each of the mysteries (Joyful, Sorrowful, Glorious, and Illuminious) allow us to connect to Jesus through his mothers promotion of him.

Gosh, my 2.5 year old tries to say the rosary on her own. We play it on TV daily. She also tries to say the “Divine Mercy Chapulet” too. When we show our enthusiasm over anything to small children, they get excited too.

Why do we say the “Rosary”? Well, historically, it originated from the Jewish reading the Psalms on beads. During the dark ages, the 150 were changed from Psalms to OurFathers. Eventually it evolved to its current form. Ever since I watched, “our lady of Fatima” I like to pray the rosary for the conversion of sinners; sometimes I’m the sinner who need to conversin. Imagin how beautiful & pleasing to God if we all had the conversion.
 
Ever since I watched, “our lady of Fatima” I like to pray the rosary for the conversion of sinners; sometimes I’m the sinner who need to conversin. Imagin how beautiful & pleasing to God if we all had the conversion.
🙂
 
Hi all,

I’ve been reading these forums for ages but this is my first time posting. I’m sorry if I’m asking this in the wrong place!

I was wondering how you all explain Mary and praying the Rosary to kids. My family are not very devout Catholics (not including myself, of course!) and I didn’t understand anything about the Rosary or about why we honour Mary until I was in my teens. I want my little brother, who is nine, to understand these things while he is young! If anyone has any thoughts on how best to teach him I’d appreciate it!!

🙂
As a Religious Ed Sacramental Catechist this was a top question! Depends on his learning style. How does he learn best?

For children who have no knowledge of Mary begin at the beginning.
Hail Mary full of grace
The Lord is with Thee
Blessed art you among women
and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary mother of God
Pray for us sinners
Now and at the hour of our death

Break each prayer of the Rosary down into its basic parts…this is a lesson plan I often used in the classroom for the Hail Mary

Hail Mary…we are calling out to Mary to get her attention…Hail is a word used by sailors
Full of Grace…Mary is FULLLLLLLLL of SPECIAL STUFF from God called Grace…it’s better than any video game or toy, better than any car, or even our house. It’s a protection but it doesn’t keep the rain out or repel rain like an invisible shield.
The Lord is with Thee…(usually point to the frick and fracks …who is your best friend…they point to each other…oh, nod my head…guess what…God and Mary are even better friends than you two…of course the eyes get big. …Mary is always with God)
Blessed art Thou among women…Mary is the most special woman ever
And blessed is the fruit of Thy womb Jesus…we did the students family trees to show Mary as Jesus’ mother and help the kids relate to Mary and Jesus
Holy Mary mother of God…Mary is Holy…then explain the Holy Trinity again
Pray for us Sinners…because Mary is Holy she can talk to God (pray) for us (the sinners)
Now and at the Hour of our Death…reassure them that we aren’t going to die now but that just like we need to eat and sleep, we need to pray everyday to grow.

For a nine year old boy break down the rest of the prayers, then add the mysteries. You might even do a field trip showing him a tree slice of a very old tree. Highlight the rings, let him count total years…let him find anomalies …drought, knots…even the strongest tree needs help. The bark hides what’s happening inside, his friends don’t have to know he is praying until he is comfortable sharing that with them.

The tree ring analogy is one of my favorites…a skipped meal may not show much, missed night of sleep doesn’t show, we all weather life’s storms, then the hundred year trees show us some real good stuff! How humbling.

Good luck to you and your little brother in the journey ahead, I hope your efforts will influence your family by your good example!
 
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