On this, no, you are clearly out of line with every orthodox Church Father since at least the second century (and only then because first century writings are sparse), and out of line with Saint Paul himself. It has been the consistent teaching of the Catholic and Orthodox Churches that Jesus took his flesh from Mary, that Jesus was not just “placed” there to pass through her, but that he took his flesh from hers. This was especially emphasized because the reproductive understanding of the time was that children took their flesh only from the father’s seed and that the woman was just a vessel (which is similar to what you propose). The Church Fathers were consistent in hammering that with Jesus and Mary it was different, that he had a true human nature due to the flesh he received from Mary. Before the development of any other Marian dogma or doctrine, this was of primary concern to all the Fathers. When any of them wrote about Mary in the early centuries, it was almost always in reference to Jesus being born of/from and not just through her, that he took his flesh from hers. You see this in commentary on the genealogies, of Saint Paul’s words, etc… Jesus’ flesh was formed from Mary’s flesh. Jesus is part of the family of men he came to redeem.
In short, this is a core Catholic and Orthodox doctrine on the Incarnation, and is among the most ancient parts of the faith (in terms of available, explicit, developed testimony).