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beckycmarie
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“You are Mine” has the same effect on me.
Well said. I agree strongly with this. Tears are part of what makes us human, whether we are male or female. It might help you to remember…I don’t think gender has anything to do with this type of consolation. Suffice to say, the Spirit is more powerful than our emotions, and we just have no other place to release this intense spiritual joy than in tears. Beautiful, isn’t it? A refreshing gift from God.
So it’s not just me. . .When the Priest says, “This is the Lamb of God, who takes away the sins of the world. Happy are those who are called to His supper”, I lose it.
But Claire… you are so correct!i used to think that i am such a baby
These parts get to me too. It doesn’t help that I have probably been sobbing since the beginning of the consecration. My pastor’s homilies will get me started quite frequently also. He is awesom and it is all I can do to not stand up and applaud a lot of the time.My watery glug in the throat times are “Through Him, With Him and In Him, all glory and honour is Yours Almighty Father forever and ever”…and “Lord I am not worthy to receive You, but only say The Word and I shall be healed”…
I attend a Lutheran church, but I tear up easy during some songs and during the sermon. It can be odd little things that just strike me depending on the subject matter. It happens at most services. I just try to hide it somehowOnce in a while during mass, especially the gospel readings, something in the text will strike me that gives me really strong happy or wonderous feelings and I have to fight really hard to hold back tears. Of course being male I have to do whatever is possible to not let anyone notice, and I don’t think anyone has ever noticed. Is that really weird? I would be a lot less embarassed if other guys have the same issue. LOL. And no I don’t normally cry in movies and I’m not particularly emotional.
Michael is a very dear friend of mine, and yes he does cry during Mass. Just being in the presence of Christ and the awesomeness of it all gets to him sometimes. Well, most times actually.I remember watching a clip of Michael Voris on *The One True Faith * saying he sometimes tears up in Mass. I do, but I’m not a guy, so I don’t know if that helps.![]()
I have teared up - or started to - so many times at Mass I cannot count.Once in a while during mass, especially the gospel readings, something in the text will strike me that gives me really strong happy or wonderous feelings and I have to fight really hard to hold back tears. Of course being male I have to do whatever is possible to not let anyone notice, and I don’t think anyone has ever noticed. Is that really weird? I would be a lot less embarassed if other guys have the same issue. LOL. And no I don’t normally cry in movies and I’m not particularly emotional.
I am a “manly man”, I work an industrial job.Once in a while during mass, especially the gospel readings, something in the text will strike me that gives me really strong happy or wonderous feelings and I have to fight really hard to hold back tears. Of course being male I have to do whatever is possible to not let anyone notice, and I don’t think anyone has ever noticed. Is that really weird? I would be a lot less embarassed if other guys have the same issue. LOL. And no I don’t normally cry in movies and I’m not particularly emotional.
What you describe here is exactly the same with me. It used to bother me a lot and like you I’ve learned to accept it. I don’t think I’ll ever get used to it though… It happens so unexpectedly… WHAM!Happens to me too. Not really any particular part of the Mass but just something that will hit me and my eyes fill up. Sometimes it’s even during some of the hymns that we sing… a part of the song will hit me and same things happens. It used to bother me… I would fight it and now it’s like almost normal… I feel touched by the Spirit. My advice would be not to “fight” it but let it be and let go… explore those things that touch your heart that way… understanding those things will bring you closer to God.
Peace,
Paul
In the late '80s I recall one of our lectors started a reading, got the first sentence out, then broke down in tears. I don’t remember the exact start of the scripture reading, something like “For God [or the Lord] has been good to me…”, at which point he lost it.What you describe here is exactly the same with me. It used to bother me a lot and like you I’ve learned to accept it. I don’t think I’ll ever get used to it though… It happens so unexpectedly… WHAM!
Anthony, I can assure you this is not weird or unusual for men or women. It happens regularly to more than most realize. I have teared up more tha once while proclaiming the gospel at mass and had to assure one of the altar servers that I was indeed OK. Other times that this occurs is during the consecration and reception of Communion. WOW Some call this a gift of tears. I have had it occur while preaching missions in different parishes. What most say, and I agree, is that one is overwhelmed by being used by God, or by being blessed by him the way he blesses us because we are acutely aware of our unworthiness. Believe me, this does not make the person a saint. We all have our faults and failings, but it certainly does make us more aware of them.Once in a while during mass, especially the gospel readings, something in the text will strike me that gives me really strong happy or wonderous feelings and I have to fight really hard to hold back tears. Of course being male I have to do whatever is possible to not let anyone notice, and I don’t think anyone has ever noticed. Is that really weird? I would be a lot less embarassed if other guys have the same issue. LOL. And no I don’t normally cry in movies and I’m not particularly emotional.
Once in a while during mass, especially the gospel readings, something in the text will strike me that gives me really strong happy or wonderous feelings and I have to fight really hard to hold back tears. Of course being male I have to do whatever is possible to not let anyone notice, and I don’t think anyone has ever noticed. Is that really weird? I would be a lot less embarassed if other guys have the same issue. LOL. And no I don’t normally cry in movies and I’m not particularly emotional.