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My friend says its a part of growing up. Have any of you been this person, or know somebody that does?
My guess is that the OP means an “inside joke” sort of thing. Someone makes a comment about someone while they are there and the person is oblivious to it, but everyone is laughing because they talked about the person before he was there.How exactly does one tease somebody without knowing it?
I’m reminded of a long ago co-worker who always said underhanded slightly personal mean statements you knew he meant and always say “I’m just jokin’” until someone called him on it by some pretty strong words… Knock off the BLEEP…My friend says its a part of growing up. Have any of you been this person, or know somebody that does?
I do the same. But If I really dislike a person I don’t stay quiet I’m outright hostile and very direct. I do that to make them uncomfortable which almost always makes them leave my presence so it works for me. But I rarely dislike a person much less to that extent, a person has to be a complete hypocrite.I pick on people all the time. If I like you, I pick. If I don’t like you, I don’t say anything to you. But I am one very messed up individual.
I know that I am picking when I do it, though.
Many thick skinned individuals don’t consider it teasing so they don’t know they are doing it.How exactly does one tease somebody without knowing it?
Yep. I totally get you.I do the same. But If I really dislike a person I don’t stay quiet I’m outright hostile and very direct. I do that to make them uncomfortable which almost always makes them leave my presence so it works for me. But I rarely dislike a person much less to that extent, a person has to be a complete hypocrite.
I pick on people all the time. If I like you, I pick. If I don’t like you, I don’t say anything to you. But I am one very messed up individual.
I know that I am picking when I do it, though.
What are you thinking about?