Leela, why does the standard for goodness have to be external to God? If God is good it is a divine attribute. The dilemma, in my view, is false. It is based on an arbitrary distinction between God and goodness. Truth, goodness, justice, freedom, beauty and love all converge in one Supreme Reality…
That is true but “it is good to be concerned with the wellbeing of others” is hardly an adequate interpretation of reality. Why is it good?
Did the Golden Rule emerge from secular morality?
It is my understanding that some articulation of the ethics of reciprocity seems to have emerged in just about every society we know about. It is a particularly rational approach to ethics that does not depend upon the divine revelation given to the Jews and the Christians.
It depends on the religious consensus that human beings should treat one another as members of a family created by God.
What about the teaching of Jesus regarding children?
Please cite a reference from the New Testament…
As far as I know, all instructions concerning how we ought to discipline our children come from the Old Testament.
The following gives us a good indication of how we should treat them:
And they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them. —Mark 10:13-16
At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and
become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
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Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.
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do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven. What do you think? If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go in search of the one that went astray? And if he finds it, truly, I say to you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine that never went astray. So it is not the will of my Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.
—Matthew 18:1-6, 10-14
Fathers, do not **provoke **your children, lest they become discouraged. —Colossians 3:21
Are you opposed to smacking a child?
I don’t take a view that no one should ever hit a child under any circumstances, but I think there are generally better ways to raise our children than as how we are instructed by the Bible.
You mean “instructed by the Old Testament”.
I assume that most Catholics don’t follow the Biblical injunctions that ThomasToo has referenced. I don’t think that the reason Catholics tend to spare the rod these days is not because they have come to better understand the divine revelation of morality but because they better understand what is good and bad for children. We now know much better than the authors of the Bible about how to deal with our unruly youngsters to best help them become adults who are also concerned about the wellbeing of others.
I am sure the words of Jesus regarding love for children have not been nor ever will be superseded…