ben_dy:
Now see - here, again, I learn something that I did not know and wouldn’t even have asked because I just assumed that if you had a non-Mormon spouse you would not be able to get a temple recommend!
If you want the rules on that more accurately spelled out, they are as follows: if an LDS
woman is married to a non-LDS man, then she would have to obtain permission from her (non-LDS) husband to go to the temple. If he doesn’t want her to go, and refuses to give his permission, then she can’t go, even if she fulfills all the other requirements. But if an LDS
man is married to a non-LDS woman, he will not be subject to the same rule. He can obtain a temple recommend provided he can answer the questions satisfactorily.
amgid, if this question doesn’t fall into the secrets of the temple: is proxy work usually done by family members or, if family members are unable, volunteers? Say folks who are retired? I was just wondering because of what was said in my situation where I have thousands upon thousands (I would estimate almost 10,000+ easily counting my non-direct lineage ancestors) of ancestors in my genealogy work.
Let me first congratulate you on your genealogy work. That is an inspired work, and would be the envy of many a faithful LDS! The answer to your question is that anybody (with a temple recommend) can do the proxy work; it does not necessarily have to be by family members.
There are two ways that genealogical data that are submitted to temples for proxy work: they are called “family file” and “temple file”. “Family file” are those names of your own ancestors which you have researched and prepared yourself (as a Church member), and which you submit to the temple for proxy work. They have the priority, and you would have the complete control over who does the proxy work for them. You can either attend to it yourself (if you have a recommend), or you can ask someone else to do it (or any part of it) for you. “Temple file,” on the other hand, are the names of diseased persons which the Church itself has extracted and prepared for proxy work, subject to certain guidelines, and submitted to the temples. If you really wanted the proxy work to be done for your ancestors even while you are not a member of the Church, that
may be possible, I am not absolutely certain at the moment. It would probably have to be done as “temple file”. You would not have the privilege of doing it yourself, as you are not a member of the Church; but others would be doing it for you. Alternatively, it may be possible to submit them as “family file,” provided that you have LDS friends or relatives who would be willing to accept the responsibility of doing it on your behalf. You would have to talk to your local bishop to see if that is possible. If he doesn’t know, he can always find out for you.
But before you can do any of these things, however—even if you were a member of the Church—you would have some work to do to prepare those names for submission to the temple. That will require quite a bit of work, especially if you have a large number of names, as you say you do. The Church has created a special software to enable you to do that. It is called Personal Ancestral File, or PAF for short. I believe the latest version of it is PAF5. You can download it from the Church’s website. You can also download a set of interactive lessons which teach you how to use it. There is also an instruction manual in PDF form that you can download and print out, which teaches you how to use it. It is quite easy to use. Download all three, and then install PAF5 first, followed by the “lessons,” on your PC, and you are ready to go. You will have to enter your data into the computer using that software, and save it as a computer file. Then you would take that file to the temple for it to be processed for temple work.
(Continued in the next post…)
amgid