Tempted to do evil-what to do?

[scrupulousGirl]

Ok, today and yesterday (a scrupulous thought) popped into my mind and it was "to do a very very evil thing . I immediately dismissed it. But now it is super tempting (im doing EVERYTHING IN MY CONTROL) to not fall into temptation. The matter of the temptation: to make a VOW to do evil. The thoughts wont leave me alone i know i would never make a vow to do such a thing. So as long as i know inside that i do not want this am i ok? The thoughts of making the vow keep popping into my mind.

 

[Aussieman88]

You have to keep dismissing that thought. If its an angry situation go throught the situation in your mind and decide to forgive the people involved. Tell yourself that you will put on the mind of christ which the bible tells us we can do. then decide Jesus wouldn’t entertain these thoughts and kick them out of your mind.

Remember we are at war with the demons on the devils side and the battleground is in the minds of men. Decide to win and you will win.

God bless

 

[scrupulousGirl]

You have to keep dismissing that thought. If its an angry situation go throught the situation in your mind and decide to forgive the people involved. Tell yourself that you will put on the mind of christ which the bible tells us we can do. then decide Jesus wouldn’t entertain these thoughts and kick them out of your mind.

Remember we are at war with the demons on the devils side and the battleground is in the minds of men. Decide to win and you will win.

God bless

Ok thanks! Thats what i am trying to do. Its not a matter of anger, but a extremely disgustinging and distungly evil thought…pray for me.

 

[Robert_Sock]

Listen to your conscience.

CHAPTER 13 – On Resisting Temptations [The Imitation of Christ]

So long as we live in this world, we cannot remain without trial and temptation: as Job says, “Man’s life on earth is a warfare.” We must therefore be on guard against temptations, and watchful in prayer, that the Devil find no means of deceiving us; for he never rests, but prowls around seeking whom he may devour. No one is so perfect and holy that he is never tempted, and we can never be secure from temptation.

Although temptations are so troublesome and grievous, yet they are often profitable to us, for by them we are humbled, cleansed, and instructed. All the Saints endured many trials and temptations, and profited by them; but those who could not resist temptations became reprobate, and fell away. There is no Order so holy, nor place so secluded, where there are no troubles and temptations.

No man can be entirely free from temptation so long as he lives; for the source of temptation lies within our own nature, since we are born with an inclination towards evil. When one temptation or trial draws to a close, another takes its place; and we shall always have something to fight, for man has lost the blessing of original happiness. Many try to escape temptations, only to encounter them more fiercely, for no one can win victory by flight alone; it is only by patience and true humility that we can grow stronger than all our foes.

The man who only avoids the outward occasions of evil, but fails to uproot it in himself, will gain little advantage. Indeed, temptations will return upon him the sooner, and he will find himself in a worse state than before. Little by little and by patient endurance you will overcome them by God’s help, better than by your own violence and importunity. Seek regular advice in temptation, and never deal harshly with those who are tempted, but give them such encouragement as you would value yourself.

The beginning of all evil temptation is an unstable mind and lack of trust in God. Just as a ship without a helm is driven to and fro by the waves, so a careless man, who abandons his proper course, is tempted in countless ways. Fire tempers steel, and temptation the just man. We often do not know what we can bear, but temptation reveals our true nature. We need especially to be on our guard at the very onset of temptation, for then the Enemy may be more easily overcome, if he is not allowed to enter the gates of the mind: he must be repulsed at the threshold, as soon as he knocks. Thus the poet Ovid writes, “Resist at the beginning; the remedy may come too late.” For first there comes into the mind an evil thought: next, a vivid picture: then delight, and urge to evil, and finally consent. In this way the Enemy gradually gains complete mastery, when he is not resisted at first. And the longer a slothful man delays resistance, the weaker he becomes, and the stronger his enemy grows against him.

Some people undergo their heaviest temptations at the beginning of their conversion; some towards the end of their course; others are greatly troubled all their lives; while there are some whose temptations are but light. This is in accordance with the wisdom and justice of God’s ordinance, who weighs the condition and merits of every man, and disposes all things for the salvation of those whom He chooses.

We must not despair, therefore, when we are tempted, but earnestly pray God to grant us his help in every need. For, as Saint Paul says, “With the temptation, God will provide a way to overcome it, that we may be able to bear bear it.” So, let us humble ourselves under the hand of God, in every trial and trouble, for He will save and raise up the humble in Spirit. In all these trials, our progress is tested; in them great merit may be secured, and our virtue become evident. It is no great matter if we are devout and fervent when we have no troubles; but if we show patience in adversity, we can make great progress in virtue. Some are spared severe temptations, but are overcome in the lesser ones of every day, in order that they may be humble, and learn not to trust in themselves, but to recognize their frailty

 

[RoseMary131]

Ok, today and yesterday (a scrupulous thought) popped into my mind and it was "to do a very very evil thing . I immediately dismissed it. But now it is super tempting (im doing EVERYTHING IN MY CONTROL) to not fall into temptation. The matter of the temptation: to make a VOW to do evil. The thoughts wont leave me alone i know i would never make a vow to do such a thing. So as long as i know inside that i do not want this am i ok? The thoughts of making the vow keep popping into my mind.

I am praying for you.

Maybe you would be interested in the Liguori newsletter for those suffering from Scrupulosity.

mission.liguori.org/newsletters/scrupanon.htm

A prayer for you from them as well.

mission.liguori.org/newsletters/scrupulosity.htm

Prayer for the Scrupulous

I behold the Christ in you.
I place you lovingly in the care of the Father.
I release you from all anxiety and concern.
I see you as God sees you, a spiritual person,

created in the image of God,
endowed with qualities and abilities that make you needed,
and important–not only to me but to God and His plan.
I believe that you have the understanding you need to choose life.
I bless you.
I have faith in you.
I behold Jesus in you.

Words of Wisdom

Acquire the habit of speaking to God as if you were alone with God. Speak with familiarity and confidence as to your dearest and most loving friend. Speak of your life, your plans, your troubles, your joys, your fears. In return, God will speak to you–not that you will hear audible words in your ears, but words that you will clearly understand in your heart. These may be feelings of peace, hope, interior joy, or sorrow for sin…gentle knockings at the door of your heart. - St. Alphonsus Liguori

Dear Lord, be with us and guide us each day. Let us hear your voice as we use our talents to share your word with others. Give us the love and wisdom necessary to strengthen our relationships as we strive to serve you in our daily lives. Amen. - PMD

 

[mike2112]

I completely understand. Remember that you are going to be entertained with numerous thoughts and temptations… but do your best not to entertain those thoughts. When you have fallen, it is hard to overcome it. Whenever those thoughts come back just say “I give you all of my weaknesses and temptations Lord… I need help.” and then say “I resist these thoughts in the name of Jesus.”

Also make sure that you avoid television shows, movies, music, etc. especially with the culture nowadays. The images and things you have heard and seen can enter through your thoughts and tempt you. Go to confession often, and know that this is a Spiritual battle.

This weekend’s reading is about the temptation of Jesus. Satan tempted Jesus in many ways and tried to make him eat food while he fasted for 40 days and was hungry.
But, Jesus resisted him and then the devil left.

If you can resist and overcome this temptation, you will develop strength to overcome more.
I always say, “Protect me Jesus by your precious blood.” So I know I am protected.

St. Michael’s prayer also is great against Satan’s attacks.

I know how it feels… I’m a 19 year old guy, and I have fallen alot into horrible sins…
The pain and suffering afterwards is too much for anyone to bear…
I’ve learned alot since then though.

I will keep you in my prayers!

 

[Lisa1967]

Pray. Also, join the Scrupulosity group here.

 

[Aussieman88]

In spiritual warfare, the sword of the spirit is ‘the word’. Note in todays reading, Jesus defeated the devils temptations by quoting scripture to him. He used The Word. and after 3 times the devil fled from him.

read the new testament untill you find a passage that satisfies the issue in your situation. When you get those thoughts. Read that passage out loud. THE WORD, it says in the bible, is sharper than any two edged sword. It penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit.
Hebrews 4:12
It carries power because it is the word of God almighty and it will chase those thoughts from your mind.

Justin…