JoeFreedom
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I am not a cradle Catholic. I learned the faith later in life. The way I look at these threads are that they serve to confuse and divide. Worse yet, they cause people to question if they are sinning and potentially good enough for God. They serve to show to many (especially Protestants who are anti-Catholic) that we are just a bunch of rule-followers, and to people looking to come into the faith, question why they should move from following God’s law, to following a divided community which cannot make up its mind on what is right and what is wrong when it comes to saying prayers and receiving the Eucharist.
As far as I’m concerned, the important stuff like loving God and loving neighbor far outweigh whether someone holds hands with their neighbor during the Our Father. True, I understand the need for guidance and law in the liturgy, but unless 1 of 2 things happens for me, I’m not sweating it. 1) Pope declares Ex Cathedra or 2) It is specifically documented in canon law.
Outside that, “this father said this” or “that father said that” or “this web site has a video and proves this or that”… I’m going to ignore. If millions of people around the world are now destined to hell because they are ignorant of the “true” way to say the Our Father, we’ve got some self reflection to do, because our faith is turned upside down on its head…
As far as I’m concerned, the important stuff like loving God and loving neighbor far outweigh whether someone holds hands with their neighbor during the Our Father. True, I understand the need for guidance and law in the liturgy, but unless 1 of 2 things happens for me, I’m not sweating it. 1) Pope declares Ex Cathedra or 2) It is specifically documented in canon law.
Outside that, “this father said this” or “that father said that” or “this web site has a video and proves this or that”… I’m going to ignore. If millions of people around the world are now destined to hell because they are ignorant of the “true” way to say the Our Father, we’ve got some self reflection to do, because our faith is turned upside down on its head…