Texas! How is it?

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Yup. I am much happier in my high cost of living area compared to when I lived in a different state with very inexpensive housing. Everything is a trade-off and you have to discern what is most important to you.

Do any of our Texas friends know of Jennifer Fulwiler? She’s a writer and radio host on the Catholic Channel. Former atheist turned Catholic convert with 5 kids living in Texas. Talks about her very real life and very real struggles.
I know of her, but don’t know her myself. IIRC, she lives in the Austin area.

One of the things about Texas is that you can start in Texas, drive in a fairly straight line for 11 hours, and still be in Texas. It’s BIG.
 
Oh, and one thing I keep meaning to mention:

Snakes.

I’ve lived here 10 years, some of it in north Texas (DFW) and some of it in the Houston area. I have never seen a poisonous snake outside of a zoo, though I know they are out there.

(Mind you, the snakes may have a sense of self-preservation and are therefore avoiding me, as I would consider a small tactical nuke a perfectly reasonable use of force against even a baby copperhead/cottonmouth/rattler/coral snake, but there ya have it. 😉 )

Never have seen a scorpion, either, but I’ve also never spent much time in western Texas, which is more desert-like and prone to them.

Roaches, on the other hand…shudder. I came from the Midwest, but grew up in the Northeast. In both areas, roaches are a sign that you live in an absolutely filthy slum. Here? Even if your house is very clean, you’ll see one every once in a while. Ugh.
Well, that’s true. Everyone in New Mexico has a snake story and there are watch for rattlesnake signs , but I have never even seen a garden snake the entire time I lives there…34 + years. But then, I don’t go kicking up their habitats either, LOL
 
In Texas you can pay someone for any number of things, including driving. This doesn’t make the transit issues go away, but it’s pretty convenient and you don’t necessarily need the highest income to do that kind of thing there, people like to offer their services and work something out.

There’s also a lot of splitting up the driving among mom-groups when the kids are enrolled in a lot of activities.
 
yup.
There are far WORSE places to live…
The best place to live is where
  1. you and your family can live reasonably happily and safely
  2. there is a great parish
  3. good schools (all the way up)
  4. you can well afford your housing (poverty wreaks havoc with even the best families)
  5. lots of good activities for kids. (including cultural amenities).
that could be almost anywhere…you have to do your homework. As in: go and see.
I moved to Nebraska once. (hubs transfer) . It was OK, but no way would I have ever selected it. Nope. Not goin back either. Most of this is simply opinion and what you EXPECT from a home.
Yes, yes, yes!

Before we moved to our area in TX, I was able to come out for a visit or two and scope things out and look for housing. The people that were wooing my husband set up a bunch of meetings and outings for me–as they try to do for all new people. Before we moved, I knew we were going to have a great parish, a great school, and a very convenient neighborhood, and I knew that we were going to be able to afford it all comfortably.

One thing I would suggest to the OP is doing some personal finance study so you get a good idea of what you can afford. A good rule of thumb is to spend no more than 25% of income on housing and for your mortgage to be no more than 2X income. That’s an impossibility in much of the coastal US, but achieving those ratios is very important for having a comfortable life going forward. Life gets really tough the higher percentage of your income is swallowed up by housing costs.
 
Oh, and one thing I keep meaning to mention:

Snakes.

I’ve lived here 10 years, some of it in north Texas (DFW) and some of it in the Houston area. I have never seen a poisonous snake outside of a zoo, though I know they are out there.

(Mind you, the snakes may have a sense of self-preservation and are therefore avoiding me, as I would consider a small tactical nuke a perfectly reasonable use of force against even a baby copperhead/cottonmouth/rattler/coral snake, but there ya have it. 😉 )

Never have seen a scorpion, either, but I’ve also never spent much time in western Texas, which is more desert-like and prone to them.

Roaches, on the other hand…shudder. I came from the Midwest, but grew up in the Northeast. In both areas, roaches are a sign that you live in an absolutely filthy slum. Here? Even if your house is very clean, you’ll see one every once in a while. Ugh.
I try to think of the big roaches as outdoor varmints that just happen to wander indoors occasionally.

As I mentioned upthread, the family encountered a diamond back in our city park. It was hanging out in some fall leaves. I only saw the photo, and it was amazing how well the attractive argyle sock pattern of the diamond back blended in with the leaves on the ground. I believe my husband saw a cottonmouth in the water on a field trip and a copperhead when he turned over an archery target that was on the ground.

One of our first acquisitions when we moved here was a “Poisonous snakes of Texas” poster.
 
Well, that’s true. Everyone in New Mexico has a snake story and there are watch for rattlesnake signs , but I have never even seen a garden snake the entire time I lives there…34 + years. But then, I don’t go kicking up their habitats either, LOL
I do hear a fair number of snake stories from people living out in newly-developed suburbs (for example, finding a rattler rattling out on the comfy warm driveway), but we live in the city and I haven’t heard a poisonous snake story from a city resident. But we do still get visiting opossums, raccons, and this crazy kind of CLIMBING fox. I’ve actually seen one sitting on a house chimney.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gray_fox
 
One thing I would suggest to the OP is doing some personal finance study so you get a good idea of what you can afford. A good rule of thumb is to spend no more than 25% of income on housing and for your mortgage to be no more than 2X income. That’s an impossibility in much of the coastal US, but achieving those ratios is very important for having a comfortable life going forward. Life gets really tough the higher percentage of your income is swallowed up by housing costs.
This is very, very important. I might know from personal experience. 😛
 
One of the things about Texas is that you can start in Texas, drive in a fairly straight line for 11 hours, and still be in Texas. It’s BIG.
At least 11 hours. Interstate 10 is 877 miles long.

Reminds me of a picture postcard I saw long ago, looked like this:

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The sun has riz, the sun has set,
And here we are in Texas yet.
 
At least 11 hours. Interstate 10 is 877 miles long.
El Paso is actually a little closer to the Pacific Coast at San Diego than it is to Houston, yet it is a straight shot down I-10. I have never driven it. I have twice flown and once drove as far as Big Bend NP (a great park, btw).
 
Before meeting me, my DH had no concept of planning one’s errands so that one only made right hand turns, and any lefts were at protected left arrow lights.

Then he came to visit and saw the marvel that is Westheimer. Yeah, he gets why there are two Starbucks on opposite corners now.
 
It’s hot as blazin, dry as toast, …
I’ve heard it said that, in August, the only thing separating Texas from Hell is a screen door 🙂
The city motto for Austin is “Keep Austin Weird”. So that city is out there.
I’ve seen plenty of “Keep Austin Weird” T-shirts, but I also recently saw someone wearing a T-shirt that said “Keep Austin 170 Miles From Here” 🙂
 
El Paso is actually a little closer to the Pacific Coast at San Diego than it is to Houston, yet it is a straight shot down I-10. I have never driven it. I have twice flown and once drove as far as Big Bend NP (a great park, btw).
And Texarkana is closer to the Atlantic than it is yo El Paso. Dalhart is closer to Canada than it is to Brownsville, Brownsville is closer to Mexico City than Dalhart.
 
Before meeting me, my DH had no concept of planning one’s errands so that one only made right hand turns, and any lefts were at protected left arrow lights.

Then he came to visit and saw the marvel that is Westheimer. Yeah, he gets why there are two Starbucks on opposite corners now.
Funny!
 
Texas is so big, it should have its own national airline.
We did, once. Texas International (became Continental, then United).

In the 1980s there was also a commuter airline called “Tejas” that flew old-fashioned looking tw(name removed by moderator)rops between Houston and the smaller cities.

ICXC NIKA
 
Austin Jeep dealers have spare-tire covers labelled “Jeep Austin Weird.”
 
And Texarkana is closer to the Atlantic than it is yo El Paso. Dalhart is closer to Canada than it is to Brownsville, Brownsville is closer to Mexico City than Dalhart.
I guess I never thought of that perspective, but that means Texas spans one third the distance across the United States, from ocean to ocean, and half the width, from Mexico to Canada.
 
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