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Eliza10
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Ah, I see. You’re allowed. But I don’t subscribe to the ‘Big Step-Brothers’ theory. That Joseph, the “Just Man” would have been like Our Blessed Mother, and also have chosen to love God so much that he chose not to marry, and live chastely for the love of the Lord alone, makes sense.I’ll admit: I really don’t subscribe anymore to the ‘cousin’ theory, which was popularized by St. Jerome. … I personally side with the earlier tradition (the one you find in the Protoevangelium of James…) that the ‘siblings’ of Jesus were Joseph’s children from a previous marriage.
This tradition says that Our Lady, who had vowed herself chastely to God alone, was asked by the rabbi’s of the Temple where she lived from a young age, to marry, and so the Handmaid of the Lord obeyed the servants of God. The rabbi’s chose Joseph after calling the unmarried men of the House of David to the Temple (and St. Joseph obeyed, trusting to God his vow) and they all brought branches, and after prayer, it was Josephs branch that sprouted lilies, and that is how he was chosen and that is why we see over the centuries in the Holy Catholic Church, guided by the Holy Spirit, statues and icons of St.Joseph with the lilies.
It would make sense that Joseph would be a vowed virgin, too - rather than previously married. Because if Joseph’s marriage to the Virgin Mary was a “second-time-around” marriage for him, Joseph, in this completely new and different kind of marriage would have to completely change his orientation and life-habit of what is marriage. While its true, that with God, all things are possible, I just cannot think of any good reason why God would give Joseph TWO different vocations, one lesser, one greater. And what a shame to call a traditional marriage a lesser vocation - that is a HIGH vocation, but, you have to admit, being the father of Our Lord on earth - that has to be considered to be a step up…
Instead, it makes more SENSE that Joseph’s new life, betrothed to Mary, was a more pure continuation of the old - still chaste, as he had practiced, but now, chaste together. So, onward and upward - an enrichment of his one, chosen vocation. Still continuing in living for love of the Lord, but now in His flesh! The same for Mary, so that union of same life vocations would make for a strong bond.
And since it is God that gives us our vocations, and God knew Joseph’s vocation was to be Our Lord’s earthy father, than why would God have Joseph “fill-in time” before then, living out a traditional marriage vocation, and being a traditional father, only to change his vocation completely, later, and add to traditional father, untraditional father??? Why would He not instead have Joseph be alone (and in an alone-type career,.like carpentry) so Joseph would have a lot of alone time to hear Gods voice, so that God could teach him, helping Joseph’s heart grow, to prepare him for his BIG vocation?
So that latter makes much more sense to me - Joseph’s betrothal to Mary as a continuation and enrichment of the same vocation for Joseph, rather than a second, completely different “marraige” vocation from the first marraige vocation. It was a simple, quiet, Holy Family of three. Not grand-central with a huge revolving-door household full big full-grown step-brothers and step-sisters who would be coming to see St. Joseph and naturally wanting to reminisce about their old days as family before Mary and Jesus. Also there would be St.Josephs grandchildren from the supposed previous marraige (so, Baby Jesus as “Uncle Jesus”), who also would deserve to hear stories about their beloved grandma and the childhood life of their parents. They would ALL deserve St. Joseph’s time and attention. So the Holy family would not be the three, but one big blended-family!
No, I think it was much simpler than that for the Holy Family. I know often times a long quiet period of contemplation happens before a big work, and Jesus had a BIG WORK to do. I think it was quiet and peaceful and hard working in the simple, poor, rich-in-spirit home of the Holy Family in Nazareth.
I think the things of God do make sense for the simplest of us as well as the most complicated. And the theory I go with makes more plain and simple sense to me.
I want to add, I have never seen any evidence that St. Jerome “popularized” his ideas - he just had his worthy very scholarly and history and tradition-based opinions. He had a monastery to run. And a lion to take care of.
Apocryphal works are intriguing to some. Not to me. More intriguing and worthy to me are the traditions handed down by the Apostles in the One, Holy, Catholic Church guided by the Holy Spirit.
Also is a leap to say your ‘Big Step Brothers’ theory is the “earlier” idea, too. If you could prove that, then there would be no need for other theories… But you can’t. Whatever the TRUTH is, that’s is what in fact predates all the later ideas…