The only thing different than in 1929 is that the buildings are higher today. Be careful where you keep your treasure. Those who place their faith and hope in this world will become hopeless.

I don’t think you see the humor in my post. Living and preaching hopelessness or saying things like the “American Dream” is dead is like saying you believed it the first time someone told you there was an “American Dream”. I don’t know about you but I am not only proud to be American no matter what because this is my country, as the song goes. I never placed my trust on things of this world because people that were determined to take a piece of it never gave me a chance at it because I placed people first no matter what.
I quit a job about a month ago that made pretty decent money with great benefits, but I was underpaid because I was performing the same duties as an engineer but have a different math/science degree. The new manager, married, fallen away Catholic, rough life almost as rough as mine, reminds me of my older brother who also bought into the lies of so called the “American Dream” in that they could have it all - wife, children, house, boats, girlfriend…

…yeap, he had it all and it was taken away from him just as fast as he made it. Once he lost it all everyone turned on him it seemed. Anyway, my newly promoted boss told me while reflecting on my issues of having to juggle a sick wife and sick children along with work “is a good argument against people having children”. Needless to say I chose to drop that decent paying job over a principle because it became obvious to me that they would continue to overwork me, never work with a flexible enough schedule to allow me to get licensed and never get promoted. And it was a government job that they left when the clock turned 5 o’clock on the dot. They acted like they worked hard, but they didn’t get the fact that I worked 80+ hours in the private sector along with all the other engineers. I paid my dues the hard way and they were determined to use and abuse me. I don’t feel sorry for myself, I feel sorry for them. My new plan is to get certified to teach and maybe if it’s God’s will continue my formation as an aspirant for the diaconate. That manager, former friend, never apologied even after I left. So, please call me a fool. Jesus said people would hate us because of him. I am a fool for Christ, like St. Francis of Assisi, at least I’m trying. Nope, I’ll remain the Franciscan that I am and let those that want to save up and store on earth what they could have saved up and stored in heave.
You could have chosen to employee those 45 people and their families, but out of seemingly on the surface selfish reasons you choose to do what’s in your best interest instead without thinking what it would do to those families.

Why not offer them lower salaries instead of self-actualizing prophecy?
BTW: my first year of college was in the seminary to become a priest. I chose to return again but met my wife, another true calling requiring serious commitment because of her illnesses. I chose sacrifice money/“success” and even a priestly vocation for her. I’ve passed up many "wonderful and exciting opportunities that could have made me quite well off for the sake of principles like God, family, others, self and career, in that order. My children are the sweetest you’ll ever meet. They are model children to emulate. But I know how the world is and in spite of that I chose to raise them to be holy, not self-seeking money hungry mongrels, which is my perception of people that are stuck on the “American Dream”. I served in the military over 10 years and the nerve of a man that called me “yellow” without knowing my secrets. I found out my last day of work that he said I was a coward for not letting the military deploy me without a fight. But he lived a worldly self-seeking life and died instantly of a heart attack within a week of me having a near prophetic moment of thinking about it - very strange. What he didn’t know was the fact that my wife was on the verge of a major breakdown while running a home daycare and our 3 children in her care as well as our newborn having a birth defect that was healed miraculously, and ultimately converted my wife, who’s found peace in the Catholic Church. I avoided telling anyone about it to save her dignity and knew that once some jerk of an manager got hold of it they’d end up scandalizing me over it in some sick fashion like I’ve seen these guys do to others. We would have lost what little we had. And we would not be Catholic today had it not happened the way it unfolded. You see. God IS in control.
Yes, I have more than my fair share to say about things. You may be a decent person, I don’t know. But you insulted me by preaching to me in that somehow you acted like you are much more knowledgeable about these things and somehow assumed I was worldly. My brother, hung himself because his life felt hopeless. He lost his “success” and everything else fell apart. He lost it all and ended his life because his pride was to great to lower his expectation of getting paid more than me at the time…And to end up with a best offer of $50k per year was just too low for his pride. He could have easily moved into something else with his engineering degree but couldn’t see it because his mind was so far lost in feeling like everything failed him… I wonder what he thinks about leaving his 2 young children behind now.