I should be sleeping, because I am sick. But I can’t sleep. So I’ll just share.
I agree with you on several points. I have often found on CAF that many of the debates about the liturgy are like the debates with some fundamentalist Protestants. For every citation that you can pull up I can pull out anohter, if you know what I mean. At some point I just say, “Let it go! Let the Sacred Congregation for Liturgy do its job.” **The fact that we can read these documents does not guarrantee that our understanding or application of them is correct. It’s certainly OK to share what one has read and to discuss it with others. But it’s quite another thing to try to impose one’s understanding on others, when one does not have the qualifications or the authority to do so. ** This only causes conflicts, rather than bring people into a closer union with the Lord in the Eucharist.
I also agree that the so called banalities are not always tragic. Some simple examples: female altar servers, communion in the hand, communion standing, not wearing a veil at mass, holding hands during the Lord’s Prayer, female lectors, EMHC, all of these are allowed by the Church. Some are allowed as a regular thing and others are allowed under an indult of some kind. There are indults all over the place that we don’t know much about.
For those watching TV this coming Good Friday, you will see the official preacher of the Papal Household deliver his annual Good Friday homily to the Pope and the entire staff at the Vatican. It will be one of the Capuchin Franciscan Friars.
Now watch how silly people can get. The Capuchin Franciscans have a tradition that goes back to the time of St. Francis that prohibits any distinctions between ordained and lay friars. The only time you see a distinction is during mass when the ordained friars wear vestments. Outside of mass they wear the same habit and in the community they all go by the title Brother, Frater or Friar.
The rule for preaching at any liturgy is that the priest must wear at least a stole, an alb and stole is more desireable. The Capuchin friar who preaches to the Papal household wears neither a stole nor an alb. He introduces himself in Italian as Fratello or Fra, meaning Brother. This is an indult that has been granted to the Capuchins for centuries. It is up to the friar and his superior to decide whether he wears a stole and alb or not. Most superiors leave it to the friar.
Last year, I was watching on EWTN. The commentator, I believe it was Raymond Arroyo commented on the lack of stole and alb. He explained the indult. The Msgr. who was seated next to him said that they had deliberately written Father on the subtitle, instead of Brother, because many people would be confused or scandalized if they wrote Brother. I wondered, why would anyone be scandalized? Confused I can understand. That’s the job of the commentator to explain that this is an order that uses the title Brother and they have this inddult to preach without priestly vestments, but scandalized over an 800 year tradition?
We may have gone from the extreme of being sloppy in our worship to being gossipy. I can’t think of another word. I’m sure there is a better one.
Part of fixing the problems that we have is understanding what the Church allows, why, to whom and under what circumstances. If we correct our own thinking, we can feel more comfortable, even if we would like to see something different.
It’s like marriage. I don’t know of any married couple who have 100% agreement on everything. But in good marriages there is tolerance for what is allowed.
Our relationship to the Church is also a covenant relationship, just like marriage. Those things that are not allowed need to be fixed. There are proper channels for the laity to help and there are proper authorities whose job it is to fix these problems. There has to be cooperation and patience. I wonder if we are too impatient. Maybe that’s why we pick up a document from before Vatican II or after Vatican II and push it in some one’s face hoping that this will shut them up and we can move on with life as we want it to be.
If it does not work that way, we become upset, rather than work together to understand.
I’ve come to the conclusion that I do not argue with those who want to argue about the mass. I’ll answer questions, ask questions, listen to opinions, expres mine and let the Holy Spirit renew us.
Fraternally,
JR