Sorry, but what you’re saying just doesn’t fly with what Palamas said. You keep saying that this interpretation doesn’t fit with the tradition of the Church, but you aren’t showing anything at all to back this up. Palamas is quite clear that he regards Mary as the dispenser of all blessings right now, as Queen of Heaven. I’m all for variant understanding of words, but yours simply can’t be applied to what he said.
When he speaks of her being the boundary between the created and the Uncreated, it is clear from context that he’s speaking of the Incarnation because that is what he talks about around that statement. There is no context that supports your assertion, however, that he somehow means something other than her “dispensing all blessings” from Heaven now. There is simply no way that this statement:
After death, she has found immortality, and in Her body dwells in Heaven together with Her Son and God. Therefore, She pours forth abundant grace on those honoring Her. She even bestows on us the boldness to hasten unto Her, for She is the vessel of so many graces. She distributes blessings generously on us, and never ceases this profitable bestowal and gracious help.
can be read and understood in the manner you propose. It clearly speaks of her after death, dwelling in Heaven, bestowing Grace on us. Furthermore, he says:
Thus, since through Her alone did He Who “appeared upon earth and lived among mankind” (Baruch 3: 38), come unto us, being invisible to all before this time, so in the age to come, without Her intercession… every form of spiritual gift would be beyond the capacity of created beings. She alone has received the fulness of Him Who fills all things, and now through Her, all may receive it, for She dispenses it according to the capacity of each, and in proportion to the purity of each, since She is both the treasury and the overseer of the riches of God.
Here he explicitly juxtaposes the Incarnation, which comes through her, and her current role of dispensing of Grace which she has by virtue of her relation to God. I’m sorry, but your account absolutely does not any possible interpretation of his words.
You can either disagree with what St. Gregory Palamas says here, which is fine as it’s not dogma by any stretch, or you can accept that his view represents a trend of thought in the Byzantine tradition that is not currently popular (at least in the circles you run in), but you can’t say that he’s saying something other than he clearly is: Mary is now the overseer and treasury of all Grace.
The funny thing is that I’m not especially Marian in my devotions, beyond what we pray in the weekly Divine Liturgy; I don’t come anywhere near St. Gregory Palamas’ devotion, but perhaps it is simply that I’m nowhere near his Saintliness. My belief is simply that we shouldn’t constantly throw out the teachings of our Fathers just because a new stance has come in vogue, and I see this tendency all to often in the modern Byzantine tradition. Rather than simply deny the fact they plainly taught, and argued passionately for, things that are not currently popular, we should accept that our tradition is broader than it is currently lived. It is simply flatly wrong to say that the doctrine of Mary as “mediatrix of all Grace” is utterly foreign to Byzantine piety, and to do so is to throw out our own Fathers in reaction to current trends in Latin devotion is the worst kind of “Latinization” because we don’t even gain anything new from it. It happened with the Immaculate Conception, and now it’s happening with “mediatrix of all Grace”. Again, these aren’t dogmas in our tradition, but they’ve certainly found a safe home and fertile ground within it historically, and only recently have they been thrown out in reaction to the Latins actually catching up with us.
Now, in answer to the heart of your objection, again I stress that no one is claiming that Mary has anything special by nature, nor that she attains what she has other than by her unique role as Theotokos. If she is “mediatrix of all Grace” (and I’m not claiming that she necessarily is, just pointing out that this view is sound in our tradition), it is by Grace and the Incarnation.
On another note, I want to add my voice to the choir of people that disagrees with the notion that salvation can only be attained with devotion to Mary. If Mary is indeed the dispenser of all Blessings, she obviously doesn’t “require” devotion to her before “dispensing all blessings”. Devotion is most fitting, but it’s not a requirement by any stretch. If Saints have said this, then I flatly disagree with them.
Peace and God bless!