So it’s all relative? Truth…or right and wrong is never relative!
Interesting response. Certainly not what I said.
You want a black and white answer; the Church has not given one; it calls for prudential judgment, which means that there is not one absolute black and white answer.
Your question is akin to asking if it is immoral to shoot someone. Sometimes it is, sometimes it may immoral to not do so. And no, that is not “situational ethics”. that is a prudential judgment based on the Commandments.
Gracepoole answered your question with an attachment - did you read it? If you did, since you are the one who has to make the decision, why are you asking someone else what they would decide? Is this a game of seeing how many take one side or the other, and then going with that side? That is not making a prudential judgment; it is asking others to make the decision for you.
I have given you the best answer I can - which is also in line with the article referenced. You seem to not like that, and want an absolute answer. Since the Church doesn’t give one, then you are going to have to take responsibility for your choice.
Don’t misunderstand; I thoroughly understand the dilemma. But this is not something you get to pin on others, or the Church; it is your call. There may be family pressure on one side or the other - or on both sides. Ultimately, none of those people live your life - you do, and you are responsible for making the choice.
People want the Church to make decisions for them; then they are not responsible for the result. They can blame it on the Church - "The Church told me (I had to) (I had to not) do this act. But more often than not, the Church does not answer that way. The Church gives guidance; we have to make the choice.
The Church does say that some acts are intrinsically evil. This is not one of them.