The Collar / Reform of Renewal

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Has anyone read “The Collar” by Jonanthan Englert or Fr. Groechels book “Reform of Renewal”?
I found them both interesting. The first takes 5 older seminarians and follows them for a year, who stays, who doesn’t and the problems and gifts older men have and their desire to be a priest.

The second surprised me a bit, (a bit naive, I guess) because it was written in 1990 and had the first page I think, start with the counseling of a priest who was in trouble for an encounter with another man. Fr. Groechel touches on the abuse even back then and how the church was pretending to be better than it was. He said how when asked at conferences how some were doing, seminaries even in other countries would say, Great, we are doing wonderful" but if pushed for numbers, would have to admit they hadn’t had any in years. Lying doesn’t help anyone and he didn’t care if he angered anyone in saying it. The church has made a lot of mistakes but pretending to be in one place and really be in another was a big one. Can you imagine lying about vocations? He even touched on the vocation ads that promise one thing and are very different when you visit…Well, hopefully now, things will slowly get better and this was written a while ago. I was just surprised how so much was there, the signs of crumbling, but no one wanted to see the “pink elephant” in the room.

I commend him for leaving and starting a new order. It has grown quite nicely the last decade and I trust that they will always be loyal and truthful.
I know the church will survive because Jesus wont let it die but humans can do a lot of harm. I hope for continued renewal in my heart and in others.
 
Has anyone read “The Collar” by Jonanthan Englert or Fr. Groechels book “Reform of Renewal”?
I found them both interesting. The first takes 5 older seminarians and follows them for a year, who stays, who doesn’t and the problems and gifts older men have and their desire to be a priest.

The second surprised me a bit, (a bit naive, I guess) because it was written in 1990 and had the first page I think, start with the counseling of a priest who was in trouble for an encounter with another man. Fr. Groechel touches on the abuse even back then and how the church was pretending to be better than it was. He said how when asked at conferences how some were doing, seminaries even in other countries would say, Great, we are doing wonderful" but if pushed for numbers, would have to admit they hadn’t had any in years. Lying doesn’t help anyone and he didn’t care if he angered anyone in saying it. The church has made a lot of mistakes but pretending to be in one place and really be in another was a big one. Can you imagine lying about vocations? He even touched on the vocation ads that promise one thing and are very different when you visit…Well, hopefully now, things will slowly get better and this was written a while ago. I was just surprised how so much was there, the signs of crumbling, but no one wanted to see the “pink elephant” in the room.

I commend him for leaving and starting a new order. It has grown quite nicely the last decade and I trust that they will always be loyal and truthful.
I know the church will survive because Jesus wont let it die but humans can do a lot of harm. I hope for continued renewal in my heart and in others.
I’ve read The Collar and enjoyed it very much. At the time, I was considering the Priesthood as a “later in life” vocation (I’m in my 40s) but feel that my calling is more toward the monastic life of a monk. I will be continuing to discern this for several more years (4 to be exact). God bless.
 
I am reading it for the second time and I am discovering things I didn’t catch the first time I read it. It is an amazing book and should be required reading for anyone discerning the priesthood or for anyone who wants to understand the formation process.
 
I read The Collar a couple of years ago and liked it. I think it offers a certain reality check as to what seminary is in practice distinct from the overly pious ideas that so many imagine.

I haven’t read Fr. Groechell’s book, but what you note shouldn’t be so surprising. Really, how it is any different than other forms of marketing? “Everything is awesome!” the proclamation always goes. But the reality is likely far from it.

I saw this a bit in Chicago where native vocations were declining about the time that I went through the high school seminary. Anyone with two eyes to see knew it and questioned matters. But all one ever heard from the people in charge was how wonderful life was in the seminaries and that things were going well. Last year the Archdiocese closed the minor seminary, citing “declining vocations” as the justification.
 
Yes, but you would think they wouldn’t lie to each other…well, maybe it’s like one guy who owns a business not wanting another business buddy to know he isn’t doing well, so they both BS. We all know the “insiders” knew about the abuse, but to see how far back it was mentioned, brought the reality back to me. So many mistakes that hopefully will never be able to surface again.

I got 2 newsletters in the mail today…one from EWTN’s nuns to say they are starting a branch in Texas now! They are full to capacity in Ala. (praise the Lord!) and are sending 5 nuns out there, like they did in Arizona.
Fr. Groechels’ group is expanding too. They are opening a new mission in Nicaragua. They are in the Honduras and started a free hospital called St. Benedict Joseph which is great.
They are also in a bad area (but very welcomed) of Ireland and doing well. 2 more ordinations this year and 8 friars making their final profession this summer and 2 more sisters.
I didn’t have a great day, but this mail made me smile.🙂
 
I read “The Collar” and really enjoyed it. They had it at my public library. I wanted to find more books about the seminary, but that was the only one they had. I admit to being a bit put off by some of it. There are references to some pretty un-priestly things in there, like the suggestion of some sexually active (both straight and gay) seminarians, and one of the “spotlighted” seminarians who wasn’t really Catholic in his beliefs - and he eventually drops out, of course.

At the same time, there were some great stories in there from the men who eventually **did **become priests. That inspired me, and makes me want to become a priest too.
 
This was a great book, simple but uplifting:
amazon.com/Priest-Portraits-Serving-Church-Today/dp/1928832717/ref=pd_bxgy_b_text_b

salon.com/books/sneaks/1997/10/22review.html
This book was good about the 'elite" seminary in Rome and US students there.

I also read, (even before I thought my son might be interested) many books some might avoid, books about nuns who left and why (they still give insight if not too bitter into their world) priests that left, married priests, etc. to get a view from all sides. It’s never good to just read the uplifting stuff, then you you usually disapointed.
 
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