I pulled my kids form the Catholic Schools because it was more secular than the public school. My kids were learning little about their faith and very little academically. They spent to much time on computers playing games on the internet. The filters on the police departments computers were set higher than at the Catholic school. They had watched over ten movies before January and they were movies that I would not allow in my house. They had the TV on in the classrooms nearly every day and they watched Cartoon Network. I don’t allow my kids to watch that channel in my house. Why should I pay tuition so they can watch it at school. The books they were using were all from the public school. There faith was only a part of the curriculum twice a week and then a non-Catholic was teaching it out of a watered down book. When I complained about anything I was called a trouble maker. I tried to get on the school board and they took my name off the ballet. It was crazy. I hope that school does close, not because I want revenge, but because it isn’t helping to make good Catholics. There is no need for more poor schools. If you can’t do it better then the public, don’t do it. It’s a waste of time and money. I am homeschooling and finally my children have there faith first. It is hard and takes a lot of work, but it is worth it. I may come off as being pushy while writing this all on this thread, but during this time I offered to help in any way possible. My husband offered to help set the computer filters the way he had them set at the police department. I offered to get the money together to get better religion books. I offered to help teach religion. I organized carnivals. The day after one of my children’s funerals, I dug through my house and found loads of things to bring the parish rummage sale. I cleaned filthy bathrooms. I cleaned classrooms during brakes. I painted, worked fundraisers, wrote grants…
What ever I could do to help I did. When ever they asked me to do something, I did. I wanted the school to be a holy place. If it is not spreading the truth and it is not willing to change then it needs to die. If it is not growing, then it is sick.
Your story is very similar to our story. We put our children in the parish school and after a tortuous 5 years, we HAD to pull them. The were being taught a watered down faith, if not out right false hoods (ie: angels are myths, women will be priests some day). It was horrible.
We took our kids to a private school that teaches the Catholic faith, but is not an arch diocesan school. It costs a bit more, but we are willing to make the sacrafice. There were some from the old school that assumed we left for financial reasons, and we’ve had to correct that falsehood. I think its important that they know the real reason why we left. Poor catechesis and poor academics. I was willing ot overlook some poor academics, for the sake of religious education, but it was apparaent that neither was being done well.
Why is our parish school still loosing students? Its for the reasons we left. The teachers are of the generation that never learned their faith. They grew up during the “I’m okay, you’re okay” method of teaching religion. How can they pass on the faith that they were never taught?
We support our parish, our building fund, and the local seminary. We do not give directly to the parish school, instead we support our tiny, finanacially strapped school. I’m hopefule that our parish will have a strong school someday, but for now, my children will not attend there. We have a new priest who is making changes, but it is slow going. Our bishop is wonderful, but can only do so much. It is at the parish level that things must change.
I wouldn’t panic about the decline of Catholic schools. In our area alone, there are 4 private schools, teaching the Catholic faith, but they are not allowed to call themselves “Catholic” because they are not under the diocesean control. We remain independent so we can avoid teaching the mandated “sex ed” classes and other non-sense. Homeschooling is also on the rise, for the main reasons we left (homeschooling would be our next option if our little school wasn’t there). The faithful are still out there, they just may not be attending the parish school. I believe the poster who said to pray for vocations is right. As our seminaries begin to send out faithful priests, our schools will flurish under their care. It all takes time.