Thank you. But why do some object to this?
I have nothing against people holding hands during the Our Father
of their own volition. If a family wants to hold hands during the Our Father (which is, after all, about
our Father, not just
my Father and
your Father, but
our Father), then they should be permitted to do so, since the Church does not prescribe how they should hold their hands.
I do object, however, to being told to hold hands, or being forced to hold hands. I much prefer to keep the “traditional” posture of prayer, hands clasped or palm-against-palm. Since the Church does not legislate the posture for the faithful’s hands, the priest nor the bishop has the right to tell us to hold hands with one another at this time, whether by a general announcement before Mass, or by an addition of words to the Mass itself.
I also object to members of the congregation using the
orans posture (hands outstretched) during the Our Father. They’re mimicking the priest’s posture (which is not permitted), and they only do it
then, as opposed to all the other times the priest uses this posture for his arms. Furthermore, there’s liturgical speculation that the priest shouldn’t be using the
orans posture at this time (even though that’s what he’s told to use in the books) because he is not praying on
behalf of the congregation, but
with the congregation: every time the priest uses the
orans posture in the Mass, he’s the only one speaking, praying on behalf of the Church,
except for the Our Father.
That’s my stance on the matter.