I believe that the devils do control us. I know this sounds crazy or even shocking, but it is true. They have ways that we cannot resist. Why? Because most people have little openings in their soul that a devil can use. These are little gaps and rips in the soul that we all “soul wounds”. We all suffer hurts and offences from other peoples words and criticisms against us, especially in childhood. But also in our love life we can be deeply hurt. It wounds our soul, and the devil leads us. That is why people go back to the same kind of relationship and the same hurt. Satan controls our reactions through our wounds. We have these “sore spots” and when someone touches it, it causes a reaction we can’t control. At the extreme it can even result in murder. The Bible reveals that Satan has come to steal, kill, and destroy.
There is much more to this than I could explain, but if you have any interest just put “healing soul wounds” in the You Tube search box and you will have plenty of info.