I don’t know if I posted in this thread already.
But this post / prayer is for my mother, Emma, who passed away on September 6 - 12 weeks tonight, at age 99. Her 100th birthday was November 20th.
She was my mother, my Catholic educator (long before First Holy Communion instructions), and my rock. She raised me alone, and she was the greatest gift God gave me next to my own soul. Without ‘my rock’ to advise me, I’ve crumbled in making decisions for her, spiritually and temporally as she neared her end. Life is miserable without ‘my rock’ to console me while I ponder these decisions now and where her soul is - something I had not anticipated would happen in grieving her.
I’ve come to the conclusion, after her death, that her soul was as valuable to me - as my own soul. May I have done the right things for her, and particularly may she rest in God’s Eternal Peace, and may my tortured mind and soul find peace in the knowledge that she is with God in Heaven.
For these requests I pray -
and thank you -
Conservative
Dear Conservative,
Do not let your mind be tortured. You did do the right things for her. Her body may have died but her soul continues to live forever. We will meet again. God does not want us to worry, he wants complete peace for us.
John 14:26-27
But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
God does not want us to worry, he wants complete peace for us. His disciples had the same worries.
John 16:17-23
17Some of his disciples said to one another, “What does he mean by saying, ‘In a little while you will see me no more, and then after a little while you will see me,’ and ‘Because I am going to the Father’?” 18They kept asking, “What does he mean by ‘a little while’? We don’t understand what he is saying.”
Jesus saw that they wanted to ask him about this, so he said to them, "Are you asking one another what I meant when I said, ‘In a little while you will see me no more, and then after a little while you will see me’? I tell you the truth, you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy. A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy. In that day you will no longer ask me anything. I tell you the truth, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.
Lord, please take away all fears, anxieties, worries from my friends life. Fill those voids with comfort, peace, love, and hope. Please help my friend not to entertain any negative thoughts and run to you immediately as those thoughts come to mind. You know how much a mother can be loved and missed, but we believe in your promise Lord that she is with you rejoicing in heaven. Please be my friends “Rock” and help her rely on you for anything she may encounter in life. Bless her and her family as they go through this tough times. In Jesus name we pray. Amenhttp://forums.catholic-questions.org/images/smilies/prayer/signofcross.gif
