I would like to say a prayer for everyone here. The loss of a loved one is difficult. It is a path I wish I could avoid. My heart aches not only for my loss but for yours too. I know how you feel. The heartache is real.
But I also know God is good and loves each of us and wants us to come back to him. We all need to keep strong and everyday thank our loving God for this life he has given to us even if our time is short here on this earth. I pray for all of our faithfully departed that they may find eternity and one day we can be with them again.
Peace and faith be with you all
I want to add my prayers for everyone here as well!
Mom passed on the feast of the assumption of Our Lady last year, and I must say that I was in what can only be described as a fog. I was not depressed all the time, but rather repressed my feelings most of the time, and would let it all out only once in a while,alone.- But that was not all: I was forgetting a lot of important things, and had a hard time studying, and was basically quite numb.I would also get irritated easily at times.- Strange thing is, I was oblivious to much of these dynamics for several months! I was too detached from my feelings to notice.
It took all my freinds at the friary and community [as well as a couple of close Postulant classmates] to get me through it all… I am VERY gratefull for those two, especially; they stuck with me and hung around when I needed it, which was most of the time.
Here, I want to say that grief can affect you in many strange ways, even without your knowlege, as in my case. If you or someone you know is behaving in odd ways like these, or even their health is suddenly affected by the loss of someone close, PLEASE have someone pray with you or them on it, and if it is at ALL serious, talk to your pastor or a professional! These things can really do a number on you.
Well, I’ve already written more than I intended, but I hope this will be helpfull to someone…
Blessings To All !