I’m not saying that your soul is human nature. Man’s essence (real definition, nature) is rational animal. Rationality is essentially immaterial, so the soul is the part of man’s hylemorphic whole which is immaterial, ie. the rational part. Man’s soul is still the rational aspect of man, not rationality in the abstract. Forms are static because they are abstracted universals. But they are abstracted. Forms do not change, but substantial forms, which are instances of forms, can change qua substances, though their forms do not change. As Oderberg says, “the substantial form of the person is the rational nature of that person” (emphasis mine). Substances (including human substance) have forms; it does not follow that substances can’t change. A soul’s changing does not change man’s rationality, but it does change his substance.
This is consistent with the rest of hylemorphism. If you change a substance, it retains its form (unless you destroy it), even though it may instantiate its form more or less well.