It’s a lengthy article, and it seems to me to attribute homosexuality to some historical figures who may not have agreed with that designation. A strong friendship with someone of the same sex does not make one homosexual or even gay.
Frankly, I’m just tired of hearing about sex all the time. Sexual preference, sexual urges, sexualized friendships, sexual orientation. I don’t much care what other people do about sex. Most priests that I know seem entirely too busy to have either same sex or opposite sex affairs. When a priest is so busy that he falls asleep during the readings, he’s too busy for sex.
And I don’t really think it’s any of my business if a priest or anyone else considers himself straight or gay. I don’t want to hear married people discuss their sex lives or single people either. If a priest remains chaste, what does it matter if he is gay or straight? And if he sins, it’s a matter for the confessional. If a married priest falls into adultery, the same thing applies.
Does a same sex orientation mean that a man is attracted to every single person of the same sex? Obviously not. Does an opposite sex orientation mean that a man is attracted to every woman? Obviously not. And even if he were, marriage calls him to forsake all others and take only this one for his wife. And celibacy calls for one to forsake marriage, and sexual activity, altogether.
Sometimes I’d just like to discuss sometjing other than sex. String theory. M-theory. Crockpot recipes. Something else.
But that’s just me. Sorry for the rant.