Larry Hurtado also introduces
issue in question.New Testament Studies I should note two of his comments in the comment box:
…] I simply cited the precedents of figures such as Jeremiah (portrayed as ordered by God to remain unmarried in view of his special mission), and John the Baptizer (likewise, celibate on account of his prophetic mission). My point is that it wasn’t singular for Jesus to have been celibate. He too seems to have felt a special mission/calling conducted with eschatological urgency. As you may know, the saying ascribed to Jesus in Matt 19:10 about those “who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven” is often thought to allude to John and to Jesus.
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Was Jesus married? All indications are no. It was, to be sure, somewhat exceptional for a Jewish male not to marry. But not without precedent or analogy. The biblical prophet, Jeremiah, for example, is pictured as commanded by God not to marry (Jeremiah 16). John the Baptizer wasn’t married, whom Jesus affirmed as a true prophet. Indeed, if seems the case, Jesus at an early age saw himself as specially called to a prophetic role, he might well have felt obliged to forego marriage.
Sometimes I hear a few people say that “Since Jesus was a rabbi / a Jew, He
must have been married.” Leaving aside the issue of what a “rabbi” is (the word ‘rabbi’ in Jesus’ time did not mean the exact same thing it does today), you can’t really use this or that cultural norm or expectation (“it was uncommon for men / rabbis not to marry then,” etc.) as a 100% guarantee that Jesus
did marry. Because - as everybody knows - in real life there’s always the ‘wild cards’ who make generalizations difficult because they don’t always follow the cultural norms. Who’s to say that Jesus was not one of these ‘wild cards’ Himself?