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MarkInOregon
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I am trouble by the attitude portrayed in your post. The “either accept it or reject it” attitude. It seems rather harsh and uncharitable. Christ calls us all and we all come to Mass at different points in our journey. Life has left us all open to hearing different things at different times in our life. I know in my own life there are passages of Scripture that I had read many times–and then one day I read it and well I understand it and it speaks to me–I finally get it. When people come to Mass or for Catechesis or whatever–we need to be charitable, we need to attempt to help them see and accept the truth–this may be a slow and painful process filled with many stops and starts–as people come to terms with and grasp the truth. They may fight and restist it but as long as they will discourse–we should be open and charitable–looking for a way to help them, to get through to them, for the Holy Spirit to opem their ears and heart. Simply throwing out the truth/Catholic teaching and saying “Thats the truth take it or leave it” is not good enough. We should suffer and beat our heads against the wall if it will save even one person. Keep proclaiming the Gospel–you never know when the person you are proclaiming it to will be open to hearing it even if they have rejected 100 times before–and I suggest preaching it in love is more effective than merely preaching it matter of factly with a take it or leave it attitude..
An ex-Catholic who decides to leave is his or her choice…no one forces anyone to be Catholic. We are not Protestants were we need to provide the warm “fuzzies” or “feel-good” feelings or “change” in order to retain them. Either accept it or reject it…plain and simple. The church can turn blue in the face and have it all planned it out,do you truly believe for one second,no one will leave? Really? If Jesus who is God struggled with humanity,what makes you believe the church has it any easier regardless what “great” plan is implemented.
Peace,
Mark