You’ve never had the, erm, privilege of attending a Mass during which “Morning Has Broken” was played? I envy you. And my word, even at my regular parish, people talk loudly right up until the opening hymn is announced, they repeat this at the sign of peace, and once the closing hymn begins it starts all over again.
Yes, but have you in addition to the above (with tambourine) had the privilege of attending a Mass on Sunday where the Creed (in any form) is never given and the Eucharistic Prayers are ad-libbed and sole part of the consecration left unchanged is “This is my Body”? IOW, it’s as though somebody sat down and said, “let’s see exactly how illicit we can make a Mass without technically making it invalid --let’s have no penitential rite, no Gloria 3/4 of the time, even when it is supposed to be said, ad libbed collects, songs instead of the Responsorial Psalms, every “he” in the readings changed to either God, Jesus, they, ‘he and she’ etc, ‘dialogue gospels’ throughout the year, glass chalices, excuse me he calls them ‘cups’ still, ad libbed canons, ad libbed Lords Prayer, ad libbed post communion prayer, ad libbed Blessings, etc, constant criticisms of correct behavior as brainwashed and rigic because it is not being 'spontaneous” and ‘free’, discussions of certain church teachings as being ‘outmoded’ and ‘rigid’, frequent remarks that St Paul is being sexist, speaking of Jesus as being a product of His times, that the Caananite woman was in the right and JESUS was wrong, etc. etc.
I am not criticizing the priest because I don’t presume to know what is in his heart. But what I am doing is reporting actual incidents.
If I am reading my missal which has the Sunday collect and I can read what that said, and I listen to the priest and he says some of the words but leaves out some others, and adds still others, then I can rationally and nonjudgmentally state that the collect is ‘ad libbed’. That’s a fact, not a judgment. There are a host of reasons that the priest could be ad libbing, and since I don’t know the reason for sure, all I can do is state that it IS ad libbed.
And stating that is NOT judging. And being concerned about it is my right and responsibility as a Catholic lay person.
I guess that’s the most frustrating part when it comes to just trying to share a concern about liturgy here. . .the assumption that a report of something that is objectively NOT what is part of the liturgy being said or done is assumed to be a criticism of the priest for saying or doing it.
But it isn’t!
If we are kept from reporting facts because they’re assumed to be judgments, then the main result is that
we are kept from reporting facts. So we’re in the situation where we are ‘allowed’ to state things that are considered not judgmental, like, “My experience at Mass is positive”. But we are not allowed to state, “My experience at Mass is that I’m concerned because instead of having the Creed or baptismal promises recited by the priest and people, we don’t.”
So what now? We’re just expected to sit back because noticing discrepancies is ‘criticizing the priest’? We’re supposed to have our children experience this for years and years and either say nothing or have to tell them that what Father says and does is not what the Church and other priests say or do in many ways, but hey, we can’t criticize so even though we don’t get to have full and active participation in the Mass, too bad?
No WONDER we have so many people who come of age and say that they never heard X in the Mass, or saw X, or heard about this or that Catholic teaching.
Because while my experience is probably pretty ‘extreme’, it is on a continuum. If you have a parish, a diocese, and its families exposed for 10, 20, or 30 years to Masses where there are two, five, ten ‘innovations’ which skew the whole liturgical focus in one direction and away from another, you’re going to wind up with thousands and thousands of Catholics who at some point find
another diocese, or find the TLM, or find EWTN, or the Internet and experience the liturgy as it should be, and are gobsmacked to learn that for all those years they were deliberately steered to think of Mass in one way and away from another understanding.
It is not that Mass is NOT communal. (It is). But it is also Sacrificial.
It is not that Mass is NOT joyful (it is). But it is also solemn. Solemnity does not presuppose a negation of joy, nor joy a negation of solemnity.