The legitimacy of devotion to Mary

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All right guys. This is a continuation of the thread from Veneration vs Worship. My personal opinion is that all of them should be given to god. The totality of Veneration and worship is to be directed at god.

While I regard saints as heroes of faith what the reasons for devotion to mary?
 
As the first catholic to post, I must establish that no catholic has a devotion to Mary that is stronger then their devotion to the trinity. If a catholic does have a stronger devotion to Mary then to God the father, son and Holy Spirit then he/she is in serious error.
 
All right guys. This is a continuation of the thread from Veneration vs Worship. My personal opinion is that all of them should be given to god. The totality of Veneration and worship is to be directed at god.

While I regard saints as heroes of faith what the reasons for devotion to mary?
hi Kingtroll1,

Here’s my answer. 🙂

Saints in the Roman Catholic Church are venerated – not worshiped – as some mistakenly believe.

English language tends to fall short when it comes to the use of certain words. For example, we have one word for love, yet we use this word interchangeably to describe many different “feelings” of love. We say, “I love my parents”, or “I love chocolate” or even, “I love my spouse”, yet all these different phrases of love do not have the same definition.

Centuries ago, it may have been said that a saint gets “worship”, because the word came from the Old English weorthscipe, which simply meant “worthy of honour” or “worthy of respect”. That is why British speakers of English used to say “Your Worship” as a title of courtesy to people in a position of honour or power (such as Kings), and why we still address a judge as “Your Honour”.

Today, of course, worship means only our attitude to God Almighty, and it is to God alone whom we give all highest honour and supreme worship.

In Latin, which is richer than English in meanings of words, the worship owed to God alone is called LATRIA, a word that has its roots in the ancient Greek word, latreía, meaning the adoration that humans owe to the divine. It’s a matter of acknowledging your total dependence upon God. The respect that we owe to the saints is a totally different kind of attitude; it’s called DULIA, which means “appropriate” or “fitting and proper” as when you say that someone acts dutifully, or that a trial was handled with due process. In an everyday sense of the word,* dulia is our demeanor in court or meeting the President; it’s much more like what you’d call courtesy than what you’d call worship.* Dulia comes from the Greek word douleia, meaning “service” or “slave”. In Luke 1:38, 48 Mary’s description of herself as doule translates as “handmaiden” / “female slave” – (Slave more in the sense of “servant”).

For Mary, the Mother of God, we have a variation of dulia that is often misunderstood: HYPERDULIA. This is a higher kind of reverence that’s given only to Mary, who is considered first among the saints. Note that this is basically dulia, only higher. [The word hyper comes from the Greek: hypér “over”,” above”]. It is an entirely different thing from latria, and it can’t lessen the unique honour owed to God.

It’s never correct to say that the Church worships Mary or the Saints – it hasn’t been correct since people stopped speaking Old English, anyway. In recognition of Mary’s unique relationship with God, the Church gives to Mary a unique reverence notably higher than the respect given to other saints. Reverence means: a feeling or attitude of deep respect tinged with awe; veneration; honour.]

From the beginning of the Church era, Christians began to venerate the martyrs as saints. Venerate means to hold in deep respect and honour in recognition of qualities of holiness, excellence, wisdom, etc.] They believed that the martyrs, (the word comes from the Greek, meaning WITNESS) who suffered and died for their unshakable belief in Christ, went straight to heaven and could therefore be effective as intercessors for the living. By the 3rd century the veneration of the martyr saints was already common. [An intercessor is one who will intercede (plead or request) or offer petitionary prayers to God on behalf of others.] In Revelation we are told that the Saints and angels in heaven hear, and carry our prayers to God.

You may have heard non-Catholics saying that there is only one intercessor between man and God, and that is Jesus, himself not only divine, but human, (see 1 Timothy 2:5), therefore, they say, it is wrong to pray to the Saints or angels in heaven, but this in no way means we cannot or should not ask our fellow Christians to pray with us and for us as 1 Tim 2:1-4 tells us to:

1 First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for everyone, 2 for kings and all who are in high positions, so that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and dignity. 3 This is right and is acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour, 4 who desires everyone to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.

Others may say that Saints are dead, and cannot hear us, and we are to only pray to God. However, there are many passages in Scripture that tells us to pray for one another, and that the angels and saints in heaven carry our prayers to the heavenly altar of God.

God made it clear that those who died are still alive (in their spirit/soul), for He is the God of the living. When Christ had the Transformation, the spirits (souls) of Moses and Elijah appeared beside Him. Same when the witch was told by King Saul to conjure up the soul of the dead prophet Samuel. (See 1 Sam 28:8-14) We were created to be immortal, the soul is the part that animates our corporeal matter, and upon death the immortal soul leaves the body, the body returns to “dust”. However, one day, when Christ returns, the bodies of the dead will be resurrected and are eternal, reunited with the immortal soul. This is all Biblical.

Blessings,

CEM
 
All right guys. This is a continuation of the thread from Veneration vs Worship. My personal opinion is that all of them should be given to god. The totality of Veneration and worship is to be directed at god.

While I regard saints as heroes of faith what the reasons for devotion to mary?
Mary brings us closer to God. The closer we are to Mary, the closer we are to God.

Is a child less close to his father the closer he is to his mother? In a truly loving and healthy family, when a child draws close to one parent, that parent teaching that child to love the other parent as well.

Mothers are gentle. A child goes to his mother to have her ask his father for a favor. The mother knows how to ask her husband in a way that softens his heart. If the child went directly to the father, he might refuse the request.

God gives Mary to us to bring us closer to Him. It’s a mystery. But God chose it to be so.
 
+JMJ+
As the first catholic to post, I must establish that no catholic has a devotion to Mary that is stronger then their devotion to the trinity. If a catholic does have a stronger devotion to Mary then to God the father, son and Holy Spirit then he/she is in serious error.
👍 this.
 
Mary brings us closer to God. The closer we are to Mary, the closer we are to God.

Is a child less close to his father the closer he is to his mother? In a truly loving and healthy family, when a child draws close to one parent, that parent teaching that child to love the other parent as well.

Mothers are gentle. A child goes to his mother to have her ask his father for a favor. The mother knows how to ask her husband in a way that softens his heart. If the child went directly to the father, he might refuse the request.

God gives Mary to us to bring us closer to Him. It’s a mystery. But God chose it to be so.
I agree; better than I would have said it myself.
 
All right guys. This is a continuation of the thread from Veneration vs Worship. My personal opinion is that all of them should be given to god. The totality of Veneration and worship is to be directed at god.
Then I would suggest that you might begin by capitalizing God in your posts…😃
While I regard saints as heroes of faith what the reasons for devotion to Mary?
I have a very simple and straightforward reason for my devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary.
It is simply because, in the spiritual realm, she is my mother.
God is my Father, Jesus is His Son and Mary is His mother…I am also a son my adoption. That makes Mary my mother and Jesus both my King and my brother.

Because Mary is my mother, I Love her as such and am devoted to her as a good son should be.

Hope this helps.

Peace
James
 
A beautiful post. and Very true for many - but If I might be allowed a comment or two…Just to demsontrate that there is a bit of latitude within the faith and our individual journeys…
Mary brings us closer to God. The closer we are to Mary, the closer we are to God.
I suggest that the converse is true as well… the closer we are to God, the closer we are to Mary.
Is a child less close to his father the closer he is to his mother? In a truly loving and healthy family, when a child draws close to one parent, that parent teaching that child to love the other parent as well.
Very nicely put indeed. Loving parents DO encourage their children to love both parents equally…That said, I do think that in every family some children will naturally feel closer to mom and others with dad. And - as you say above - in a truly loving and healthy family neither parent would have a problem with this. They recognize that their children are individuals and each has his own way.
Mothers are gentle. A child goes to his mother to have her ask his father for a favor. The mother knows how to ask her husband in a way that softens his heart. If the child went directly to the father, he might refuse the request.
I hear this quite often - and I suppose that there is some truth in it…But it wasn’t true in my family…😉 If one of my folks said no - you can bet the other would say no also.
This idea of having a better shot at some request by asking Mary is simply not something that appeals to me. Therefore, in truth, the majority of my petitions are addressed directly to “dad” - Our Almighty Father. I DO ask Mary to, “pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death”.
God gives Mary to us to bring us closer to Him. It’s a mystery. But God chose it to be so.
Agreed and apparently it works just this way for many people.

Just to add - The Church has reviewed these matters of Marion devotion and found them to be good and efficacious. In her Dogmatic constitution, she spells these matters out along with an admonition that we be careful not to go overboard - lest we slip into improper devotion. I believe that the Church as a whole is very careful to avoid such excesses.

Peace
James
 
The Fourth Commandment tells us to honor thy father and mother. Jesus fulfilled all the Commandments faithfully. One way that we imitate Jesus is by loving and honoring those whom He loved and honored. In fact Jesus told us to love one another as I have loved you.thos would naturally include His own mother.
I trust the Word of the Lord and His Church in all things.
 
Ok, seriously, Kingtroll1, your username worries me 😃

Just find out about the hyperdulia tributed to her, which is of the same kind of honor (veneration) given to saints (dulia) but greater, since, you know, she is God’s mother. And by the way the saints aren’t honored for being heroes of the faith, but because they are members of the Church Triumphant in the Communion of Saints, which means that they are members of the mystical body of Christ. It is truly Christ being honored.

Indeed, ultimately all honor given to saints and to Our Lady is actually given to God, so the totality of veneration and worship is already directed to God.

It is, however, an old protestant heresy to claim that it is erroneous or even bad to honor the saints or God’s mother. The Church has done this for literally almost 20 centuries, and we know that God is well-pleased by this.
 
Ok, seriously, Kingtroll1, your username worries me 😃

Just find out about the hyperdulia tributed to her, which is of the same kind of honor (veneration) given to saints (dulia) but greater, since, you know, she is God’s mother. And by the way the saints aren’t honored for being heroes of the faith, but because they are members of the Church Triumphant in the Communion of Saints, which means that they are members of the mystical body of Christ. It is truly Christ being honored.

Indeed, ultimately all honor given to saints and to Our Lady is actually given to God, so the totality of veneration and worship is already directed to God.

It is, however, an old protestant heresy to claim that it is erroneous or even bad to honor the saints or God’s mother. The Church has done this for literally almost 20 centuries, and we know that God is well-pleased by this.
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All right guys. This is a continuation of the thread from Veneration vs Worship. My personal opinion is that all of them should be given to god. The totality of Veneration and worship is to be directed at god.

While I regard saints as heroes of faith what the reasons for devotion to mary?
It’s very simple. How much like Christ do you want to be?

If you believe that Jesus did not have a special relationship with His mother, you have deceived yourself about Who Jesus is. He is fully Man, fully God. As God, Jesus pours His love out upon the whole world, but in His humanity, He certainly had some relationships that were closer than others. His devotion to His mother, as a model Jewish Son, exceeded the devotion that anyone here has for her. Our veneration is but a small imitation of His devotion to His mother. All worship is, of course, always directed to God-- that was also what was modeled to us by Jesus. I choose to conform myself to Jesus in all ways that I can. I try to love His mother with my whole heart as my own mother. Anything less than that is selling my relationship with HIM short.
 
Mary brings us closer to God. The closer we are to Mary, the closer we are to God.

Is a child less close to his father the closer he is to his mother? In a truly loving and healthy family, when a child draws close to one parent, that parent teaching that child to love the other parent as well.

Mothers are gentle. A child goes to his mother to have her ask his father for a favor. The mother knows how to ask her husband in a way that softens his heart. If the child went directly to the father, he might refuse the request.

God gives Mary to us to bring us closer to Him. It’s a mystery. But God chose it to be so.
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Prayer_Warrior:
It’s very simple. How much like Christ do you want to be?

If you believe that Jesus did not have a special relationship with His mother, you have deceived yourself about Who Jesus is. He is fully Man, fully God. As God, Jesus pours His love out upon the whole world, but in His humanity, He certainly had some relationships that were closer than others. His devotion to His mother, as a model Jewish Son, exceeded the devotion that anyone here has for her. Our veneration is but a small imitation of His devotion to His mother. All worship is, of course, always directed to God-- that was also what was modeled to us by Jesus. I choose to conform myself to Jesus in all ways that I can. I try to love His mother with my whole heart as my own mother. Anything less than that is selling my relationship with HIM short.
Very good posts 👍

It should also be stated that Marian devotion takes humility and God loves the humble. I have a lot of work to do on humility and still have pride at times but when it comes to God I like St. Louis de Montfort do everything through Mary.Why? Because She is our link with God, for the simple fact He came to us through Her. My choice is to follow the footsteps of Christ. It is through Her that He came to us and it is I who choose to take the same path. We can never go wrong in following Jesus, He gave God His Father more glory in those years in submission to Mary than if He would of converted the whole world, St Louis de Montfort states.

To submit to Mary is to follow the path laid down by Christ himself.

Anything given to Mary, is directed and given to God. When we honor Her, love Her, praise Her, then God is praised, loved, and honored in and through Her. What does that do? It perfects our weak prayers, Mary makes them perfect, She is Full of grace, She is the priviliaged one, She knows how to bring about the most glory to God. Her merits are as countless as the stars and sand at the shore. We can never go wrong in going to Her, She is completely relative to God, She unites us to God.

Mary is not God, she is God’s perfect creature and she mirrors the Holy Trinity perfectly as much as a pure creature can.

I think some take “feelings” or fear that they can get in the way. Feelings can be the devils play toy, he tries to cloud minds. You can never worry about loving Mary to much, for we will never love Her with the same love Chirst loves Her. And like other posters stated devotion to Her is a continuation of His devotion to Her.
 
Do you know of any other person in all of human or Christian history as unique as the Blessed Virgin? Aside from Our Blessed Lord, she is certainly the most unique.

No one has ever had a more “personal relationship with Jesus Christ” than she does.

I believe that rather than we Catholics messing up the difference between veneration and adoration that it is actually more the case with those n-Cs who affirm Sola Scriptura because they err in elevating their devotion toward the Word of God far above what it should be and even above what the Bible itself lays claim to.

CA has some articles that you might want to check out that are both clear and concise. Here are some links…
There’s an answer you might contemplate…
 
Mary brings us closer to God. The closer we are to Mary, the closer we are to God.

Is a child less close to his father the closer he is to his mother? In a truly loving and healthy family, when a child draws close to one parent, that parent teaching that child to love the other parent as well.

Mothers are gentle. A child goes to his mother to have her ask his father for a favor. The mother knows how to ask her husband in a way that softens his heart. If the child went directly to the father, he might refuse the request.

God gives Mary to us to bring us closer to Him. It’s a mystery. But God chose it to be so.
Does Mary bring us closer to Christ, or to herself ? That is the concern of Protestants I know …

And, some Catholics too…
 
Does Mary bring us closer to Christ, or to herself ? That is the concern of Protestants I know …

And, some Catholics too…
We need to consider this from two perspectives. The perspective of the the one approaching and the perspective of the one approached. Whether one actually moves closer to Christ through Mary has more to do with the one approaching than the one approached

Form the perspective of Mary - the one approached - there can be no other desire than to bring us closer to Christ and through Christ to the Father. In fact the same thing could be said for any saint…That their desire, being fully in accord with God’s Will, is that we move closer to God - that we become ever more sanctified.

That said…It is possible that, for whatever reason, a person becomes stalled. This can occur if the person becomes too focused on the saint or on Mary or if they simply remain convinced that they are unworthy to approach Jesus directly and thus remain too fearful.
In the second case It would be like a small child who hides behind their mother. We’ve all seen this happen. You bend down to say hi and the child flees behind mom hugging her leg. In the case of the person who is fearful of approaching God…Well Mary can only get them as she can while encouraging them to come out from behind her skirts (or mantle I guess).
In the first case the problem is one of allowing the wrong thing to become the focus. This is a danger in many different aspects of spiritual discipline (and specific devotions would fall under the category of “discipline”). Now in truth, I must say that I am not familiar with many of the Marion Specific devotions so it is not my intent to cast aspersions on them or any of their adherents. However - in discussing what protestants find troubling - I believe this idea of “wrong focus” is valid. Also the Church herself warns in “Lumen Gentium” that we must be careful to recognize the proper role of Mary in the Church and not to overdo things.

Many protestants - and some Catholics too - just don’t see what the big deal is about approaching God directly. For them, some of the more serious - one might say extreme - forms and approaches to Marion devotion seem more like a hindrance than a help.

For the Protestant, the last words of Mary’s recorded in Scripture seem to be wonderfully simple and to the point, “Do whatever He tells you” (John 2:5)…and when it comes to praying…Jesus tells us, “Pray then like this: Our Father…” (Mt 6:9)

For this reason, when discussing these matters with a new convert, or a potential convert from protestantism, I always advise caution. They already know Jesus well and they are comfortable in their current manner of prayer. Build on that and give them time to get to know Our Lady. She is patient as is our Lord and King.

Peace
James
 
We need to consider this from two perspectives. The perspective of the the one approaching and the perspective of the one approached. Whether one actually moves closer to Christ through Mary has more to do with the one approaching than the one approached

Form the perspective of Mary - the one approached - there can be no other desire than to bring us closer to Christ and through Christ to the Father. In fact the same thing could be said for any saint…That their desire, being fully in accord with God’s Will, is that we move closer to God - that we become ever more sanctified.

That said…It is possible that, for whatever reason, a person becomes stalled. This can occur if the person becomes too focused on the saint or on Mary or if they simply remain convinced that they are unworthy to approach Jesus directly and thus remain too fearful.
In the second case It would be like a small child who hides behind their mother. We’ve all seen this happen. You bend down to say hi and the child flees behind mom hugging her leg. In the case of the person who is fearful of approaching God…Well Mary can only get them as she can while encouraging them to come out from behind her skirts (or mantle I guess).
In the first case the problem is one of allowing the wrong thing to become the focus. This is a danger in many different aspects of spiritual discipline (and specific devotions would fall under the category of “discipline”). Now in truth, I must say that I am not familiar with many of the Marion Specific devotions so it is not my intent to cast aspersions on them or any of their adherents. However - in discussing what protestants find troubling - I believe this idea of “wrong focus” is valid. Also the Church herself warns in “Lumen Gentium” that we must be careful to recognize the proper role of Mary in the Church and not to overdo things.

Many protestants - and some Catholics too - just don’t see what the big deal is about approaching God directly. For them, some of the more serious - one might say extreme - forms and approaches to Marion devotion seem more like a hindrance than a help.

For the Protestant, the last words of Mary’s recorded in Scripture seem to be wonderfully simple and to the point, “Do whatever He tells you” (John 2:5)…and when it comes to praying…Jesus tells us, “Pray then like this: Our Father…” (Mt 6:9)

For this reason, when discussing these matters with a new convert, or a potential convert from protestantism, I always advise caution. They already know Jesus well and they are comfortable in their current manner of prayer. Build on that and give them time to get to know Our Lady. She is patient as is our Lord and King.

Peace
James
Excellent advice !

Just a thought… in Eastern Catholicism, Catholics have an elder assist them in learning to use Jesus Prayer in meditation, to get full graces it can provide.

Perhaps, Western Catholics also need an elder, to learn correct way to conduct Marian prayer.
 
Catholics who continue to commit offenses against God by “debating” legitmacy devotion to Our Most Holy Blessed Virgin Mary do not understand Mary and not yet worthy of being her devotee.

These ongoing debates are very offensive to God and are witness to tepid Catholics not firmly rooted in True Devotion to Mary. These laboring Catholics have been influenced by protestantism and due to weak faith, embrace or entertain logical controversies regarding the identity and position of Mary.

Further it is foolish for Catholics to justify to the feeble in faith a “defense” of Marian devotion. The heart of the recipient must first be prepared to receive Our Lady.

Please stop these offenses. MARY IS OUR MOTHER! Have you no love?

Mary is as inseparable from the of Most Holy Trinity just as the fragrance is inseparable from a flower.

No … I don’t say I worship Mary, I loudly and whole heartedly proclaim “I worship the ground she walks upon!”

One cannot enter into the mysteries of Jesus’ Salvific Crucifixion but by Mary. Even the other Marys and St. John who were at the foot of the cross were there because of Mary. For she is the perfect embodiment of Perfect Love of God and Perfect Love of God is the only vehicle by which Our Lord reveals His Eternal and Everlasting Compassion of His Self Sacrificing Love.

Our Lord, in His Compassion gave Mary to St. John and therefore, we Marian Catholics belong to the lineage of St. John. We follow the rule of St. John which is the service of Mary and the devotion to Mary as son give his mother.

All Catholics who have not consecrated themselves to Mary Most Holy Our Mother should do so immediately and be an example of True Devotion to Mary.

Any protestant reading this thread should meditate deeply on the Holy and Sacred words “Chaire, Kecharitome” and delve into their meaning.

The beginning of True Love and Faith in God the Father, the Son, and Holy Spirit starts with Mary and in scripture starts with “Chaire, Kecharitomene”
 
Excellent advice !

Just a thought… in Eastern Catholicism, Catholics have an elder assist them in learning to use Jesus Prayer in meditation, to get full graces it can provide.

Perhaps, Western Catholics also need an elder, to learn correct way to conduct Marian prayer.
You are exactly correct! One must recite the Holy Rosary “in the heartfelt love” of the Holy angel’s proclamation: “Chaire, Kecharitomene”

One must contemplate Mary’s heart of tender and burning love of the spouse of God and the mother of God.

One must contemplate in the first joyful mystery, the ecstatic love exchanged between the pure spotless Virgin Mother and the Lord in her womb. And that’s just the beginning, the 1st joyful mystery of the rosary. !!! Wow!!! Our Lord’s Love and Mercy are incomprehensible !
 
Now in truth, I must say that I am not familiar with many of the Marion Specific devotions so it is not my intent to cast aspersions on them or any of their adherents. However - in discussing what protestants find troubling - I believe this idea of “wrong focus” is valid. Also the Church herself warns in “Lumen Gentium” that we must be careful to recognize the proper role of Mary in the Church and not to overdo things.
No such “warning” exists in Lumen Gentium. The 5th Marian Dogma shall be proclaimed soon.
Many protestants - and some Catholics too - just don’t see what the big deal is about approaching God directly. For them, some of the more serious - one might say extreme - forms and approaches to Marion devotion seem more like a hindrance than a help.
Sacrilegious. It is impossible to know Jesus without Mary. One cannot understand relationship with Jesus Christ without Mary. Protestants are quick to ask “do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?” Our reply should be YES and which one? Mary’s relationship to the fetal Jesus in Mary’s womb? St. John the Baptists relationship to the fetal Jesus in Mary’s womb? The infant Jesus in the manger, whom NO ONE can approach or caress but by the permission of Mary. etc. etc.

Read and study and contemplate “Apostolic Letter Rosarium Virginis Mariae” by HH John Paul II
For the Protestant, the last words of Mary’s recorded in Scripture seem to be wonderfully simple and to the point, “Do whatever He tells you” (John 2:5)…and when it comes to praying…Jesus tells us, “Pray then like this: Our Father…” (Mt 6:9)
Mary is the beginning of Christian life. One cannot understand Father relationship without understand Son relationship. One cannot understand “Our” relationship without understanding “brother sister” relationship. One cannot understand “hallowed be Thy name” without understanding personal relationship with the person of God revealed by His Name. and so on and so on
For this reason, when discussing these matters with a new convert, or a potential convert from protestantism, I always advise caution. They already know Jesus well and they are comfortable in their current manner of prayer. Build on that and give them time to get to know Our Lady. She is patient as is our Lord and King.
I say otherwise. Pray the rosary. Many converts come by the power of the Most Holy Rosary of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
 
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