I sincerely apologize. I was not intending to get into anything controversial in this thread; it’s just that as I meditate on the different points suggested by John 3:16, I see a very special relationship between John & Jesus, as evidenced by John’s declaration in 3:16. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
John was referred to 5 times as “the one whom Jesus loved” and this was not said about anyother disciple John 13:23, 19:26, 20:2, 21:7, 21:20, I must check this out but I seem to recall that Peter is mentioned over 90 times in the NT and John about 20 something. “…Thou art the Son of the Living God” said Peter and Jesus responded that Peter was inspired to say this. I can’t remember where to find the passage but you should know.
“Whom Jesus loved.” It was John’s special joy that Jesus loved him. But we must keep in mind that John was the one who penned these words,exactly and it may not be that he was actually “better” than Peter in Jesus’ eyes; it is just John who felt this love of Jesus so intensely.I am sure that Peter would have also felt the love of Jesus but John was obviously more demonstrative. I think as I look at all the verses where he describes himself as “whom Jesus loved;” he also knew how that Christ, as the Son of God, and surety of his people, loved all of His true disciples alike; not one more than the other; but as Son of Man, Jesus had a distinctive affection for John, Peter and most of the Apostles were weak and slept while Jesus prayed in the garden. Peter later cut off the soldier’s ear - again he was fiery and demonstrative.and therefore admitted him near his person like this, and was very familiar with him and in this case the appellation is more tender and honorable than being called any mere name. John was with Mary at the foot of the cross and Jesus ask him to take care of Mary.John was admitted to a special friendship, perhaps, because the natural disposition or character of our Saviour was more nearly like the amiableness and mildness of John than any of the other disciples. We all know how impetuous Peter could be at times!
I mean, lets face it, the highest honor that can be conferred on any person is to say that Jesus loved him; and to say it with belief.Jesus loves us all - he gave his life for us - he suffered not only physical mortification but being persecuted in return for his great love must have caused him great sorrow. Yet this is an honor which all may possess, but which none can inherit without his spirit and without knowing Him, and loving him. It is an honor which cannot be won by wealth or learning, by beauty or accomplishments, by rank or earthly honors, but only by the possession of a meek and quiet spirit, I agree. Jesus took Peter, James and John up the mountain and revealed his Divinity to them at the Transfiguration. This was also a moment when the Trinity was present and the Father’s voice was heard(as also during Jesus’s baptism). which is in the sight of God of great price, 1Pe_3:4; compare Rom_8:9. And it is so exciting for me to see how “God so loved the world” in this same way that He did John the Apostle!