This is a hard question…and I mean that depending on where you are, the question can put you between a rock and a hard place. In this age of few priests and many complaints coming at each of them, it is a situation that needs to be approached with discretion. Not to give up on what you want, but to put it on an equal footing with the desires of others, assuming their desires are legally valid as well. We have to make our argument without being argumentative, lest we put a reverent practice in a bad light.
I mean this:
When you’re at a parish where no one receives kneeling and there are no amenities remaining (or ever installed) for distributing to kneeling communicants en masse, the parish doesn’t own a paten with a handle (and so on) there are logistical problems with it. I think the best solution in that case is to talk to the pastor, because very often, it is possible to sit in the front and receive with those who have difficulty walking. When those who wish to receive kneeling are few, this is a reasonable accomodation. When there are more, then there obviously a quorum exists for a greater accomodation to be made.
(OTOH, I hope nobody would dream of trying to receive standing in a parish or at a Mass where recieving kneeling is the norm, unless kneeling presents a physical difficulty–in that case, the person should be accomodated with what he or she can do. Let’s hope that goes without saying.)
Secondly, the bishop’s hands are anointed and ours aren’t, this is true, but the bishop’s judgement also enjoys pre-eminence over ours. Therefore, we have to be careful that in idealizing his hands in comparison to ours we do not fail to also extend to his authority a recognition that he has the authority of Christ, too, and not the hands of Christ only. Again, in putting forth our needs, we have to put a priority on discretion, patience, and every virtue, since our behavior puts the practice of receiving kneeling in a certain light. If we recognize the hands of Christ in the clergy, but not the authority of Christ, we risk seeming more interested in our own desires than in the desires of Christ.
It is like serving as a EMHC…if those who feel a deep reverence and love for the Eucharist will not do it, out of reverence, then who is left to do it? Which makes the Lord suffer more…that we do it, or that we refuse? So there is a rock and a hard place there, too.
I don’t think there is anything more Traditional than the virtues. So those have to come first, before even the best reverent practice. If you genuflect perfectly and kneel to receive on the tongue, but have not love…
That is not saying that reverent practices are in any way opposed to the virtues. Far from it! It is simply that the temptation to put the practices even slightly ahead of the virtues they are meant to encourage in the heart is one of the evil one’s oldest tricks. This can tempt some to put the blame on the practice–giving the evil one two attacks for the price of one!–but that is misplaced. Still, we always have to put the virtues first, if for no other reason than to put no stain or mark on the practice, but really for the good of our own souls.
IOW, these are trying times, but we need to keep our eyes on the ball, so to speak.
Having said that…you don’t need any argument that you want to receive the Lord kneeling. It is an ancient practice, one that is recognized by our current Holy Father for its reverence, so it needs no defense. Rather, you need to take care not to give the opposition ammunition.