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PaulaB52
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I read that book Why Catholics Don’t Sing and I took some of the suggestions to heart. I used to sing in the choir, even though, imo, I do not have a singing voice. But I do love singing, so I sing. My dh got fed up with having to take care of the kids every Sunday, so I made a deal with him. I sit with the family and he sings too.
So here we 4 are. Me, with an alto voice trying to stay low enough to not crack, my dh with a baritone who can’t carry a tune in his pocket, my 8 yr old who LOVES singing and does it with gusto, and my 7 yr old who is getting fluent with reading and now loves to read along and sing.
We sing loudish, but not so that everyone is looking at us. When songs are unfamiliar or it has a funky tune with it, we just go along. If we mess up, oh well. In fact, this past Sunday during the entrance hymn, both dh and I messed up at the same time. We looked at each other and started smiling and kept right on singing.
I agree though, older, well known hymns get the whole congregation going. On Thanksgiving day, we sang God Bless America without any cantor or accompaniment and let me say, the roof was coming down people were singing so loud! And during the summer last year around the 4th of July, we sang Mine Eyes Have Seen the Glory and people knew it and belted it out. Marian hymns are always a big hit, because everyone knows them.
So here we 4 are. Me, with an alto voice trying to stay low enough to not crack, my dh with a baritone who can’t carry a tune in his pocket, my 8 yr old who LOVES singing and does it with gusto, and my 7 yr old who is getting fluent with reading and now loves to read along and sing.
We sing loudish, but not so that everyone is looking at us. When songs are unfamiliar or it has a funky tune with it, we just go along. If we mess up, oh well. In fact, this past Sunday during the entrance hymn, both dh and I messed up at the same time. We looked at each other and started smiling and kept right on singing.
I agree though, older, well known hymns get the whole congregation going. On Thanksgiving day, we sang God Bless America without any cantor or accompaniment and let me say, the roof was coming down people were singing so loud! And during the summer last year around the 4th of July, we sang Mine Eyes Have Seen the Glory and people knew it and belted it out. Marian hymns are always a big hit, because everyone knows them.
I am not nearly as troubled by silence as I am by the caterwauling that passes as singing from some in the congregation. It is a wise man (or woman) who knows and respects the limits of his/her god-given talents when in communion with others.