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EmmaSowl
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I agree and disagree. I agree that the sexual rules are difficult. In fact, obeying them is part of the source of my anxiety - which is why, since I endure anxiety in obedience pertaining to sex, It seems only fair and merciful to be relieved of some of that anxiety with obedience at Mass. Instead, I get a one-two sucker punch.But regarding lack of Mass attendance, I think the main reason people are not going to Mass is that the Catholic Church teaches too many difficult sexual rules,
I disagree that the rules are too many. Since they have to do with the holiest thing we mortals can do (participate in God’s creation), they are needed.
And while the Church teaches these rules, I do not think many parishes in my diocese do - or else they teach them badly. The Catholic kids I know have never heard of the theology of the body (which has given me reasons for enduring anxiety). And even the ones who are uncomfortable at the thought of abortion are uniformly of the opinion that Planned Parenthood is a wonderful women’s health organization which saves them money on birth control. (Obviously, they think free birth control is good).
In fact, my general impression is that Catholic schools in my area do not teach reasons for believing any of the teachings of the Church - effectively releasing their students into the insanity of college culture like lambs to the slaughter.
I have a still-forming theory in my head which I would love cradle Catholics older than I am (pushing 60) to chime in on. I have reasons for this theory which I won’t bore anyone with unless asked or if the reasons are confirmed/rebutted by the comments of those who lived as Catholics in America (can’t speak to other cultures at all) in the 50’s or earlier.
Here goes:
Catholic teaching in the 50’s worked for large, harried families which remained in Catholic ghettos, but it did not work for the increasing number of families who became mobile and isolated and smaller. This is because, while the teaching was solid, it was primarily repetition. Repetition may ingrain a belief, but it does not prepare one for unexpected challenges to it.
V2 happened. It is my understanding that, in part, it was a renewal of the Catholic pearl of reason and reasoning which had been under-emphasized in some places for some time.
But, 50 years later, there is still no emphasis on Catholic reasons and reasoning. Plus, there’s not even repetition. I don’t know what’s taught in our diocese, but it’s not keeping the youth Catholic.
Yipes - word count; more coming.