I agree with you, Dennis, that God does not send us to hell but if there came a stage at which we could not repent we would no longer have free will! Surely God in His infinite mercy and love would not take away the gift by which we most resemble Him. Without free will we would be incapable of love and even the power of reasoning. It would be more merciful to let us disappear rather than allow us to exist forever in such a hopeless state!
Yes Absolutely. .
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IOW: what’s wrong with mediocrity/lukewarmness? Why should God spew from his mouth those who want to - and who choose to want to - do what they feel like rather than seeking to do *God’s *will? IOW: Why shouldn’t those who choose to ignore the doctor’s advice that they are sick unto death be cured and escape death anyway?
The possibility that even one created being, angel or man (the devil included) will suffer torment in hell for eternity is incompatible with a good and loving God.
An important point to remember is that
No one tolerates hell. Even those who looked forward to hell eagerly while on earth, will regret their eagerness for eternity among tortures and pains, which cannot be enjoyed in any sense whatsoever, because those in hell have lost the presence of God and all pleasure and all that is good. They will not “become accustomed” to hell after a billion years, the tortures are ever new, as scripture clearly states, the worm does NOT die, and the fire is NOT quenched!
My main contention is that while God has given us free will, he has largely left us in the dark as to how to exercise that free will so as to avoid hell. Moreover, if he were to show us how to avoid hell (he doesn’t), it is certain that no one, not even the devil himself, would choose hell. As I said above, no one tolerates hell! That is why no one would choose it.
The fact that he has given us his Son, the Church, the Sacraments, etc, does *not *in anyway demonstrate that the choice is clear and certain for all men.
why? because these means of salvation are meaningless to all of those people who do not make use of them, or do not believe in them.
Look at all the world religions; all those who don’t believe in any God, and all the variations of belief and spirituality, that have gone back to the point where man first came into existence, (quite likely over 100,000 years ago!)
Man is largely groping in the dark, and has been throughout his existence as a species. If the existence of the Christian God and the Catholic Church as the true Church, were as certain as so many Catholics say it is,
every living person, without exception would believe and accept heaven
why? because hell is so bad, that we would clearly recognize that all the pleasure associated with disobeying God, and loving sin in this life, pales unimaginably to the pains and fire of even one second in hell. So no one would choose hell.
If anyone goes to hell, we know that God then created the universe knowing that some would suffer in hell eternally, because he is omniscient. St. Thomas teaches that the number of the predestined are directly willed and determined by God, and that this does not contradict with free will. That’s possible, but this does establish *odds.
*At the end of time there will be a final count of a number of people in heaven, vs a number of people in hell. This ratio of heaven/hell is a perfect ratio which God knew when he created the universe. It could not be otherwise unless he created man without knowing how many would choose him, which is impossible as then God would not be omniscient
God has taken this gamble for us, by creating us, already knowing what we will freely choose, he has placed an eternal bet on our souls, our “great gift” of free will so to speak. But no one knows where he will end up until after death, and it may well be that the many more go to hell than heaven; the fact that God has raised the stakes to this level, instead of allowing for "mediocrity, some middle ground (say annihilation) " is a terror which is completely contrary to any human notion of a loving God.
Maybe God just is cruel and a bully, and we have to accept that. I’m working on it, I really want to love God again!!
