Part 1
As an Irish person who was actively involved in the campaign during the referendum, I learned a few things about how people view abortion which very few Pro Life people have even realised. It is to my mind one of the biggest reasons why we lost, and why we keep loosing.
You see actively Pro Life people approach the argument with the assumption that most decent people believe that a person’s life should never be taken. The thing is that most people actively involved on the Pro Choice of the argument think this too. Thus we have vicious arguments over whether or not the unborn is merely a clump of cells, or whether or not it an individual. The abortion argument is thus presented as a rights of the unborn child vs rights of the woman debate.
All the while, a good percentage of the population, and especially of those in the 18-35 age bracket have moved way beyond that. There are substantial proportions of the population, including substantial numbers of Mass attending Catholics, who believe that it is perfectly ethical to take an individuals life in certain circumstances. I saw this, with shock, in how people talked about abortion of the disabled or the sick. Large numbers of people believed that it was “more compassionate to kill the child than to let them suffer”. A mantra I heard a lot was that “we wouldn’t let a dog live like that, so why do we let a child live like that?”, faced with that, the argument that each person has inherent dignity just didn’t cut it with most people.
You find that with everything to poverty to a mother who has too many children. In those cases, people thought it was kinder, more compassionate, to kill the child. One of the most surprising things I heard from Pro Choice campaigners was that they actively, openly, referred to the child as a “baby” and were talking about how wrong it was bringing children into the world in terrible circumstances, convincing people that their’s was the side of kindness, all the while the Pro Life was blustering over the fact that the unborn are babies, something everyone already agreed with. Thrown into the mix, nutters from the USA and the UK arrived with huge pictures of aborted babies and stood outside of hospitals and schools, really upsetting women who had had miscarriages and frightening children.
The most depressing thing about the whole debate was how practising Catholics approached it. Many priests refused to let Pro Life people campaign outside Mass, when we were allowed we were confronted with the image of people holding rosary beads and explaining to us that they “couldn’t force their opinions on others”.The final stick of the knife is that, according to the exit polls, had church attending Catholics held to Church teaching and voted no, the Pro Life side would have won comfortably, settling the question for another generation and saving the lives of countless children.