Imagine a child’s healthy, loving relationship with his or her father. Daddy is strong and loving can fix all the toys, wipe all the tears, help heal skinned knees with neosporin and band aids. Daddy works hard to pay for food, shelter, and patiently disciplines the child with positive loving discipline. Daddy will do anything for his child, a truly loving father would give his life to save his child. What does the father want in return? The father wants the child to be happy, to learn to make good chioices and to learn to love in return. Does the father expect the child to repay him, NO. Does child need to earn the father’s love, NO, the father loves the child simply because the child is his baby. The father takes great joy in watching his child do wonderful things, playing and enjoying the good things in life, sharing and giving to others. Does a father’s love ever end, even if the child grows up to make bad chioces and ends up in prison, or on drugs… NO, the father may be saddened and disappointed. What if the child rejects the father? Daddy only wants his child back.
Being a good father takes parenting. A child can’t grow without the loving interaction between his or her father. The father teaches the child to do good deeds, to show love to others. What if the child is not mentally or physically capable of this? The perfect father loves him unwaiveringly, eternally. NoW imagine that the child has amazing gifts and talents, but tells the father, I have faith in you, that you will take care of me, but I dont’ need to do anything to earn it and so I dont’ need to do anything at all. The relationship would be stunted, and the child woudl never blossom into maturity.
You see, we are human beings, we cannot separate love from actions. To say that we are saved by faith alone forgets the fact that we are human and learn from experience. Our faith grows and matures with our good works, just like our relationships with our earthly fathers grows and matures as we grow with age and maturity. this is why St. Paul said 'faith without works is dead." because without works faith is not put into action, it does not grow and mature, it is “dead”
Imagine if a husband marries his wife and says “I love you, I have faith in you, that you will take care of me…” but then the husband never does anything to show his wife that he loves her, he never uses his physical abilities to interact with her. their relationship would be stunted at the word’s “I love you” but would have a tough time maturing past that point.
Faith without works is dead because faith is our relationship with God, and a relationship takes our entire being to flourish, not only our rational minds, but our hearts and hands as well.
Faith is not sterile and cannot be separated from works. The two are not in contrast with one another. We belive that we cannot earn salvation, but that God wants our relationship with Him to be alive, and to continue to grow and mature.
A mother is making sugar cookies. Her 3 yr old daughter wants to help, to share time with her, to learn how to make cookies. Does the mommy need the child to help, her? NO, she has made cookies thousands of times, But the child looks up, wide eyes, amazed at how wonderfully mommy makes cookies, So the mommy puts a step stool up to the counter and lovingly teaches teh little girl how to make cookies, so that they can be closer and so the child can mature, the mother takes great joy watching the child make her little cookies, and these moments help them grow in their relationship.