The Purpose of Marriage

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Also, just one other quick question if that’s okay.

Do you believe that God created us male and female as Jesus say’s in this below quote from the gospel?

Matthew 19:4
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’

God Bless

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Josh
 
You are deliberately ignoring the context in which I used the term. Mainstream Christians - including members of the Greek and Russian Orthodox Churches - believe the teaching of Jesus about marriage is concerned with love and the pursuit of happiness and there is no evidence that the majority of Christians have ignored that teaching.

Irrelevant ad hominem.

Why do you restrict your attention to civil marriage as if marriage is totally unrelated to Christian beliefs? The topic is not civil marriage but marriage which is not solely a human convention but regarded by Christians as intended by God.

Why are you uncivil yet restrict your attention to civil marriage - as if marriage is unrelated to Christian beliefs?

Do you believe Jesus teaches us nothing about marriage?

Irrelevant given that the topic is not restricted to civil marriage.
Orthodox Christians belong to the Eastern Orthodox Church or the Oriental Orthodoxy, you can use a word such as conservative, conventional or traditional to avoid confusion.

The OP is about civil marriage, the case it mentions and the question it provoked have nothing to do with marriage in any religion, let alone Christian religion.

I have posted evidence about the constantly changing purpose of marriage throughout history and no one has posted any contradictory evidence.

Paul teaches that the purpose of marriage is to avoid temptation (1 Cor 7). Please give chapter and verse where Jesus teaches that marriage is about “love and the pursuit of happiness”.

Most Catholic posters on CAF argue that marriage is about procreation, not about the pursuit of happiness (a phrase not from the bible but from the US Declaration of Independence).

I gave up on one poster who denied facts, let’s please discuss reality and avoid this repetition.
 
Also, just one other quick question if that’s okay.

Do you believe that God created us male and female as Jesus say’s in this below quote from the gospel?

Matthew 19:4
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’
I’ve think we’ve been round this before, Jesus is teaching about divorce, not marriage. Also it’s off-topic. Here’s the OP again:

*Today’s decision in US v Windsor provoked this question: Just what, exactly, is the purpose of marriage?

If it is a civil right, then it has the potential to include many other types of relationships as well. I do not think we are headed down the slippery slope just yet, but I do not see how the US can deny polyamorous marriages, or even adult incest marriages, IF marriage is defined as a constitutional right/privilege. *
 
Orthodox Christians belong to the Eastern Orthodox Church or the Oriental Orthodoxy, you can use a word such as conservative, conventional or traditional to avoid confusion.

The OP is about civil marriage, the case it mentions and the question it provoked have nothing to do with marriage in any religion, let alone Christian religion.

I have posted evidence about the constantly changing purpose of marriage throughout history and no one has posted any contradictory evidence.

Paul teaches that the purpose of marriage is to avoid temptation (1 Cor 7). Please give chapter and verse where Jesus teaches that marriage is about “love and the pursuit of happiness”.

Most Catholic posters on CAF argue that marriage is about procreation, not about the pursuit of happiness (a phrase not from the bible but from the US Declaration of Independence).

I gave up on one poster who denied facts, let’s please discuss reality and avoid this repetition.
You are distorting St Paul’s teaching by implying he believed the **sole **purpose of marriage is to avoid temptation. [edited] God created us to be married and happy. Do you believe He created us to be married and miserable - or married just to avoid temptation? :eek:
 
You are distorting St Paul’s teaching by implying he believed the **sole **purpose of marriage is to avoid temptation. God created us to be married and happy. Do you believe He created us to be married and miserable - or married just to avoid temptation? :eek:
If one is not able to consistently avoid this temptation, is it better to be married and miserable or to sleep around when unable to resist? I think Paul would say married and miserable.
 
Orthodox Christians belong to the Eastern Orthodox Church or the Oriental Orthodoxy, you can use a word such as conservative, conventional or traditional to avoid confusion.

The OP is about civil marriage, the case it mentions and the question it provoked have nothing to do with marriage in any religion, let alone Christian religion.

I have posted evidence about the constantly changing purpose of marriage throughout history and no one has posted any contradictory evidence.

Paul teaches that the purpose of marriage is to avoid temptation (1 Cor 7). Please give chapter and verse where Jesus teaches that marriage is about “love and the pursuit of happiness”.

Most Catholic posters on CAF argue that marriage is about procreation, not about the pursuit of happiness (a phrase not from the bible but from the US Declaration of Independence).

I gave up on one poster who denied facts, let’s please discuss reality and avoid this repetition.
Actually the the OP did not specify civil marriage. The OP asked what the purpose of marriage is. There is no “civil” modifier. Without asking the OP for clarification, a presumption that it is about civil marriage is not warranted.
 
Also, just one other quick question if that’s okay.

Do you believe that God created us male and female as Jesus say’s in this below quote from the gospel?

Matthew 19:4
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’

God Bless

Thank you for reading
Josh
inocente;10953478:
I’ve think we’ve been round this before, Jesus is teaching about divorce, not marriage. Also it’s off-topic. Here’s the OP again:

*Today’s decision in US v Windsor provoked this question: Just what, exactly, is the purpose of marriage?

If it is a civil right, then it has the potential to include many other types of relationships as well. I do not think we are headed down the slippery slope just yet, but I do not see how the US can deny polyamorous marriages, or even adult incest marriages, IF marriage is defined as a constitutional right/privilege. *
In bringing up that passage, I’m not doing it to point out divorce or marriage, it’s simply to show that Jesus stated, that in the beginning the creator made them male and female, I’m just asking do you acknowledge this or not? and if not, why?

God Bless

Thank you for reading
Josh
 
Actually the the OP did not specify civil marriage. The OP asked what the purpose of marriage is. There is no “civil” modifier. Without asking the OP for clarification, a presumption that it is about civil marriage is not warranted.
The OP also did not specify Sacremental Matrimony, so I am rather confused why many ‘Civil marriage means such’ are answered by ‘That is wrong because Matrimony means elsewise.’
 
Okay, then it looks that a primary difference here is one is prescriptive where as the other is descriptive.
No, the difference is that one is true and the other is false. The true one pertains to natural law and the false one is based on legal positivism.
Are you sure? The voice of apathy at it’s strongest is silence. Since you’ve engaged in this conversation I get the impression that to some degree you do care.
Let me rephrase: I don’t care what they say they want it redefined for. They’re lying about their ends. So I have no reason to believe that their premises are motivated by what they claim either.
Laws and contracts are often dependent on how terms or qualifying criteria are defined for that particular law or contract. If you scroll through an EULA for software even then you’ll find that they define terms for the purpose of the agreement. As long as people are writing laws and contracts, people are going to be defining the terms in that contract or law.
Wrong again. Terms already have definitions, objective definitions. Marriage already has a definition. The state doesn’t reserve the right to change definitions of objective terms and facts whenever it is politically motivated to do so. This is again based on the utter stupidity of the legal theory of positive law.
That’s true for some but not all types of marriage.
I don’t agree with your premise of “types of marriage”. Anything less than that fact is objectively not a valid marriage.
The civil qualifier before marriage itself isn’t a conflation. Given the definitions of “civil” it’s appropriate.

Civil
  • Of or relating to citizens and their interrelations with one another or with the state
  • Being in accordance with or denoting legally recognized divisions of time
Again, I reject the definition and it’s use in regards to marriage because it is a legal positivist definition.
The requirements for civil marriage may differ from those that churches put forth. (ex: can two people that were previously married marry each other even if their ex-spouses are still alive? The answer to that will differ depending on which type of marriage you are talking about.
No it will not. Divine law states that what you describe is in fact adultery and is against divine and natural law.“What God has brought together no man may put asunder.”

You will argue that in civil marriage God is not involved in all so therefore neither does that statement apply. You’re wrong, it only makes their offense that much more severe. By enacting an invalid marriage they’ve already committed serious sin, then by copulation and procreation of children they’ve committed fornication. Then further by “civil divorce”, or outright abandonment, they then enact another “civil marriage” they only compound their offense by committing adultery.

The bottom line is that just because you call something “civil” doesn’t give you or the state the right to set aside divine and natural law for the sake of your own ideology. They are entirely objective.

Even if everyone believes a lie, that doesn’t make it true.
They don’t all have the same requirements and implications which is why I discourage conflating the civil marriage contract with the sacrament of matrimony.
All marriage has the same requirements and implications. Again your argument is a legal positivist argument. Therefore I reject it.
In some states they do, but not in all states. Now if they aquire those rights in all states I don’t know if there is a “next fight.” I’ll call some one gay in a bit to ask if he knows of anything. I must admit I’ve not kept up with any issues that extend beyond civil marriage contracts. I know there had been issues before dealing with gays being physically assaulted for being gay and other things that equate to attacks. But I don’t hear about those problems as much now days.
Each and every state issues living wills with power of attorney and power of executor clauses which covers all those contingencies, if not outright “equal rights”.

Either way, my charge still stands.
I was in San Francisco for the Microsoft Build conference when the Supreme Court ruling came out. Turns out that came out at the same time as Pride Week in San Francisco (Pride Week happens at different times in different states). One of the offices I had visited was having a Pride party. That would have been a prime time to get more information on other issues! If only we were having this conversation earlier.
That is the supreme example of the difference between secular progressives and the Church.

They have “pride week” where they openly display their perversions and debauchery for all to see.

The Church has Corpus Christi processions.
 
Marriage is not about merely “avoiding temptation”. Nor is marriage about the “pursuit of happiness”; which is so vague and absurd in itself that it doesn’t even deserve a response. Nothing in this life can really provide happiness in it’s truest form. “Happiness” in worldly minds is like chasing after the wind. It’s impossible. No one has been able to find it and have it. It’s an experiment that has been tried millions of times and has failed just as many.

Marriage is obvious when you look at the use that GOD has ordered it towards.

Complementarity of the sexes. Men and women are utterly unique and indispensable in their persons. When joined together in a union of total commitment and fidelity they help each other in total self-forgetful and disinterested love. Their union is entirely in accord with natural law and which God uses to produce more generations. This complementarity is impossible to achieve in homosexuality. Instead of natural complementarity there is implicit and obvious competition. The acts themselves are utterly abusive and self-serving.

Positive unitive development of the spouses. Each helps build and support the other in the development and fostering of all the virtues. True charity fosters free communication and generous forgiveness when one or the other slips because of weakness. Sexual union of couples creates a permanent transcendental relationship between the spouses. They become “one flesh.”

Procreation of children. Marriages between a man and wife is naturally fruitful. And children have the necessary right to be raised by a father and a mother. When the love of the spouses is demonstrated to the children the obvious consequences take shape. The children imitate the love of their parents and then take that into the world when they leave the home.

The proof of the overwhelming evidence that is demonstrated by a family built on these fundamental truths is irrefutable.

Anything less than this excellent truth is a perversion.
 
No, the difference is that one is true and the other is false. The true one pertains to natural law and the false one is based on legal positivism.

Let me rephrase: I don’t care what they say they want it redefined for. They’re lying about their ends. So I have no reason to believe that their premises are motivated by what they claim either.
Yes, I think there are many that share that perspective. Though it seems the perspective is less common among those that are members of the younger generations. Their perspective is in part the result of growing up in a different environment. When I was younger homosexuality was something that you only heard reference in the context of “sin” and the like. For more recent generations homosexuality is one of many labels that they may find that describes their friends, loved ones, and cultural icons. The personal and emotional connection plays a role in their perspective. Whether or not this trend will continue I don’t know.
I don’t agree with your premise of “types of marriage”. Anything less than that fact is objectively not a valid marriage.
That’s strange. Even the Catholic church recognizes some of the different types of marriages.
Again, I reject the definition and it’s use in regards to marriage because it is a legal positivist definition.
So here let me present a question that was asked earlier:

“What is the temporal consequence of an allegedly invalid marriage that is valid in the eyes of the state?”
You will argue that in civil marriage God is not involved in all so therefore neither does that statement apply. You’re wrong, it only makes their offense that much more severe.
Nope, this isn’t my argument.
By enacting an invalid marriage they’ve already committed serious sin, then by copulation and procreation of children they’ve committed fornication. Then further by “civil divorce”, or outright abandonment, they then enact another “civil marriage” they only compound their offense by committing adultery.
Like I mentioned earlier, this is a point of fracturing. Even if I only consider the views only of those that are religious there are various incompatible views. The only that you have presented is one of many.
The bottom line is that just because you call something “civil” doesn’t give you or the state the right to set aside divine and natural law for the sake of your own ideology. They are entirely objective.

Even if everyone believes a lie, that doesn’t make it true.
Civil marriage isn’t contingent on divine natural law. One could engage in a state recognized marriage and hold the view that their Church or their God doesn’t approve or that the marriage isn’t recognized by their church or their God. No cognitive dissonance needed.
All marriage has the same requirements and implications. Again your argument is a legal positivist argument.
Nope, they don’t. That’s the case across different jurisdictions, cultures, countries, time, so on.
Each and every state issues living wills with power of attorney and power of executor clauses which covers all those contingencies, if not outright “equal rights”.
They don’t grant rights such as 5th amendment rights unless two people have a recognized civil marriage. Nor are health, survivor, or social security benefits available to those not in a recognized civil marriage. Perhaps if these things were not contingent on a civil marriage it would be a on-issue.
 
You are distorting St Paul’s teaching by implying he believed the **sole **purpose of marriage is to avoid temptation. Your faith is undoubtedly defective if you need evidence that God created us to be married and happy. Do you believe He created us to be married and miserable - or married just to avoid temptation? :eek:
That’s a new low in your personal attacks, I’ve no interest in your pontification on my faith. Romans 14 does not say we live for tonyrey, nor does it say tonyrey is lord.

Paul says If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.

You too will answer to Christ, you now have the opportunity for a bit of humility and repentance.

And all to evade giving chapter and verse for your claim that “the teaching of Jesus about marriage is concerned with love and the pursuit of happiness”. 😦
 
Actually the the OP did not specify civil marriage. The OP asked what the purpose of marriage is. There is no “civil” modifier. Without asking the OP for clarification, a presumption that it is about civil marriage is not warranted.
Here’s the OP again, please say where and why you think it’s about anything other than civil marriage:

*Today’s decision in US v Windsor provoked this question: Just what, exactly, is the purpose of marriage?

If it is a civil right, then it has the potential to include many other types of relationships as well. I do not think we are headed down the slippery slope just yet, but I do not see how the US can deny polyamorous marriages, or even adult incest marriages, IF marriage is defined as a constitutional right/privilege. *
 
In bringing up that passage, I’m not doing it to point out divorce or marriage, it’s simply to show that Jesus stated, that in the beginning the creator made them male and female, I’m just asking do you acknowledge this or not? and if not, why?
We went around this over and over again on a previous thread. It’s off-topic, please refer to that thread, my views have not changed, and yet again Jesus doesn’t state it, He says “have you not read” and then quotes from Genesis. Jesus is teaching about divorce, He doesn’t blurt out an aside about gays in the middle of His argument, please read the whole passage instead of mining one verse out of context.
 
Are Christian marriages invalid if entered for reasons other than those delineated by Christ?
 
Does your sacramental marriage include the uniting of homosexual unions in holy matrimony under God?
The current policy is for each local church to make its own decision, so it depends on the views of the members and ultimately of course on the pastor who is to perform the ceremony.
 
We went around this over and over again on a previous thread. It’s off-topic, please refer to that thread, my views have not changed,
I don’t think it’s off-topic, don’t you want to get to the truth of what marriage is and why? don’t you want to get to the truth of what Jesus said?
and yet again Jesus doesn’t state it, He says “have you not read” and then quotes from Genesis. Jesus is teaching about divorce, He doesn’t blurt out an aside about gays in the middle of His argument, please read the whole passage instead of mining one verse out of context.
Okay, he say’s “Haven’t you read.”

So I guess if I said something like “Haven’t you read that in mathematics 2+2=4” that would imply that I agree with it, wouldn’t it?

Jesus is teaching about divorce, however why did he say “Haven’t you read, that in beginning the creator made them male and female?” what’s that got to do with divorce? and if he said that, wouldn’t you agree that he is stating that the father made us male and female? Why would he quote the old testament unless he agreed with it?

I am not saying that he blurted out an aside against gays or anything like that, I’m simply asking whether or not you acknowledge that the creator made us male and female?
The current policy is for each local church to make its own decision, so it depends on the views of the members and ultimately of course on the pastor who is to perform the ceremony.
Oh, okay. I didn’t know that.

Is it like that on other issues as well? e.g. interpretation of scripture? could you go to two different Baptist churches and be taught two separate things? or is it only like that for marriage?

Inocente, Just to clear things up, do you think in order to be opposed to same sex marriage we have to have some kind of resentment or something towards homosexuals? because I love my homosexual brothers and sisters as I do everyone else.

Homosexuals are no different to any one of us, not one person doesn’t have an immoral desire, should we all just recklessly give into our every desire throw our hands up in the air and say “If God didn’t want me to do this, than he wouldn’t have given me the desire to do it?”
Galatians 3:26-29
26 For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.
27 For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
29 And if ye be Christ’s, then are ye Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.
There is also neither heterosexual nor homosexual.

God Bless

Thank you for reading
Josh
 
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