The Reformation for Secular Homosexual thinking

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I’m not here to defend the theory, Mark. You stated definitively that “NO ONE has discovered a purpose or good that same-sex attraction might serve.” That is clearly untrue. Whether or not you agree with the purposes or goods some folks believe same-sex attraction might serve is rather beside the point.
This theory has not “discovered” a purpose, it has told a story with no evidence to support it. The only evidence here is that homosexuals did not marry. (By the way, would you take this as a good argument against same-sex marriage? I mean, wouldn’t that defeat nature’s purpose for making people gay?)

But you know what: unmarried people do lots of things other than babysit the kids of their siblings! It would make as much sense to argue that the absence of kids would give a person more time to devote to art, or philosophy, or labor, or prayer. This theory accounts for something—the evolutionary advantage of free gay babysitting----that the researchers have no idea ever happened.

As described, it does present homosexuality as subservient: the evolutionary purpose of gay people is to babysit the children of straight relatives. I’m surprised that so many homosexual persons find this story so appealing.
 
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Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
Mark,
Some scientists have indeed proposed evolutionary goods that same-sex attraction may serve, the most prominent of which relates to caregiving–same-sex attracted siblings are more likely to assist in the care and rearing of their opposite-sex attracted brothers’ and sisters’ children, which allows those brothers and sisters who are reproducing to have and care for more offspring than would be otherwise possible (given limited and/or diminished resources). I can point you in the direction of the research if you like.
This thread is not about SSA. You may start a thread on that if you wish, it is about Secular Homosexual thinking.
We can discuss other goods that people through the ages have associated with same-sex attraction (as opposed to homosexual sexual behavior, mind you). For starters, though, have you read the Symposium or the Phaedrus?
You may want to start a thread on Social Construct theory of Homosexuality if you wish however this thread is about Secular Homosexual thinking.
You’re being silly, reactionary, or, like Elizabeth, merely rhetorical. In any case, it’s difficult to take an outlandish comparison between same-sex attraction (which is not sin) and hatred of a particular group of people (which is sin) seriously. You’ve embarked on a category error. Comparisons such as these work better when you compare like with like.
I don’t recall that I was arguing either my own normality or my own health. Would you like to discuss whether or not I, personally, am normal or healthy? That would be odd, no?
What is odd is your persistence in discussing other than Secular Homosexual thinking…for the record

Are you in favor of the APA voting Homosexuality out of the DSM?

Do you approve of the lawsuit in California attempting to silence NARTH?

Do you beleive that the Catholic Medical Association and all others listed in the OP have a valid point of view?

Do you accept Essentialism=Born that Way?

Do you accept the Social Construct theory argument for Homosexuality?

Are you for or against Secular Homosexual thinking as outlined in the OP?
 
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Perhaps, then (and within the context of Roman Catholic moral theology specifically), we might begin to understand whatever good use same-sex attraction might have as having nothing to do with homosexual sexual activity…as opposed to simply assuming that it has no good use at all?

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
Mark,

What is the relevance of SSA in the context of this thread The Reformation for Secular Homosexual Thinking?
 
He does have a point regarding “estrangement”, a substantial amount of males weren’t close to their fathers because when a couple has a child the husband has three basic job choices, a) work full time, b) work full time plus overtime, c) work two jobs which doesn’t leave a lot of time for kids. Depending on how you define this “estrangement” you very well might have more men “estranged” from their fathers than not.
DR,

How is it you believe looking for a cause solves a present problem?
 
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I’m not here to defend the theory, Mark. You stated definitively that “NO ONE has discovered a purpose or good that same-sex attraction might serve.” That is clearly untrue. Whether or not you agree with the purposes or goods some folks believe same-sex attraction might serve is rather beside the point.

But in the interests of us actually thinking about and engaging with things (as opposed to just reacting to them)…I’ll play devil’s advocate:

No one ever said that homosexual folks made great babysitters–that’s not the point of this particular theory. What the theory touches on includes: 1) since homosexual folks will not have children, whatever available resources their children would consume can be appropriated to the children that their heterosexual siblings have; 2) they’re extra caregivers, not extra miracle baby sitters. As to your other “objections”:

1–“what evidence suggests that, among our ancestors, ‘homosexual persons’ provided more child-care for their siblings than, say, unmarried heterosexual relatives? Answer: none.”

The theory is an evolutionary take on kin selection. That’s all. Since there is no way to determine whether our unmarried ancestors were homosexual or heterosexual, this point is moot.

2–“If there is an evolutionary advantage to the presence of homosexuals in a society, why do the most primitive societies have the strongest aversion to homosexuality?”

Some primitive societies have such an aversion, others do not. Before we can go further, though: when you say primitive, to what, really, are you referring? Non-Western & Non-Industrial societies, pre-modern tribal societies…?

Also, when you broaden the discussion beyond the largely Western-inflected homosexual-heterosexual dichotomy, you will begin to notice the various concepts of a “third gender” in many (and not just tribal) societies.

3,4,5–see above.

6–“an evolutionary advantage would look something like this: the children babysat occasionally by homosexual men grew up to leave behind more offspring than children babysat only by heterosexuals. How, exactly, do they think they know this?”

I think you’re misreading the intended effect, here–the point is not that children babysat by homosexuals will have more children, but that the children who do not need to compete as hard as other children for scarce resources and care will do better than other children who are, comparatively, worse off.

7-- “this explanations assumes the subservience of homosexuality to heterosexuality and that homosexual persons are essentially servants, the drones of the human family. I don’t buy that either.”

Subservience is not assumed. In what universe does a Christian assume that service=subservience? Perhaps you would do better to speak of mutuality.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
Mark,

What Homosexuals did in the past has relevance for you in how you construct the Social paradigm of Homosexuality. What is true today is that Homosexuality has become an agenda with the purpose of trying to silence anyone that disagrees with the agenda, like in California SB-1172, like trying to change the meaning of marriage, like trying to argue that sodomites represent a special class of people that deserve civil rights and your positioning yourself as the story teller of the past, the usefullness of Homosexuality in Society has no relevance except that it portrays what emanates from Secular Homosexual Thinking…the best for you is to do this…

Start a business…**Homosexual Nannies…**available for you and your children…
 
We can discuss other goods that people through the ages have associated with same-sex attraction (as opposed to homosexual sexual behavior, mind you). For starters, though, have you read the Symposium or the Phaedrus?
Oh please, Mark. Tell me you are not reverting to your favorite tired theme of the ancient Greeks, and how their standards for sexuality should determine those of modern society, let alone Catholicism, are you?

The notion of “good” in the Roman Church (not the Anglican Church, of which, I realize, you are a member) is connected to God’s creation. “Good” is not an arbitrary or whimsical construct of changing social mores, determined by a particular culture and changeable by other cultures. As was true for Socrates, there is a permanence and an absolute character to good, but the difference in Christianity is that Good proceeds from a monotheistic God, singular, and that goodness is defined and determined by God, a good manifested in and by God’s Word, a Word that became incarnate in history.

The notion of Love is ancient Greek is considerably different from how the Jews and later the Christians, as their inheritors, understood the nature of Love (and again, as proceeding from God and defined by God alone). God declares how we must love and what we are allowed to love, and in what way that love is shown, which makes sense because God Himself is Love. He is the standard.

You and I have had this discussion before: The basis of your lack of understanding of the Church’s view of sexuality is that you are not sharing the same philosophical premises (system) that underlie the theology of the Roman Church, and without which that theology cannot be sufficiently understood. That philosophy is not based on ancient Greek notions of The Good, The Beautiful, etc.
You’re being silly, reactionary, or, like Elizabeth, merely rhetorical.
Funny, others here think I’m being factual. Unless you are accusing the Roman Church of mere rhetoric in its theology. Not to mention, there’s a certain irony here, given that the Phaedrus discusses the art of rhetoric.
 
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Oh please, Mark. Tell me you are not reverting to your favorite tired theme of the ancient Greeks, and how their standards for sexuality should determine those of modern society, let alone Catholicism, are you?
I didn’t know it was a theme of mine, let alone a favorite theme. Moreover, I didn’t know that I had expressed a desire for their standards of sexuality to inform ours. Are you doing more eisegesis, Elizabeth? Pity.

Pay attention to context. The issue was: has no one found a good which same-sex attraction may serve. I provided some examples. The idea that same-sex attraction may serve some positive good is offensive to you, I realize that. The thought that that good may be completely unrelated to homosexual sexual behavior confuses you, and you would therefore like not to think about it. I realize that , too. 👍
The notion of “good” in the Roman Church (not the Anglican Church, of which, I realize, you are a member) is connected to God’s creation. “Good” is not an arbitrary or whimsical construct of changing social mores, determined by a particular culture and changeable by other cultures. As was true for Socrates, there is a permanence and an absolute character to good, but the difference in Christianity is that Good proceeds from a monotheistic God, singular, and that goodness is defined and determined by God, a good manifested in and by God’s Word, a Word that became incarnate in history.
All that’s fine, Elizabeth, and I’ll not quarrel with it here.
He is the standard.
Indeed.
You and I have had this discussion before: The basis of your lack of understanding of the Church’s view of sexuality is that you are not sharing the same philosophical premises (system) that underlie the theology of the Roman Church, and without which that theology cannot be sufficiently understood.
You’d be surprised what I do and do not understand, Elizabeth–I have my doubts regarding whether or not your grasp on what I do or do not understand is as firm as you would like to think it is. I suspect that if someone does not understand something in precisely the way you understand it, then you conclude that they lack understanding completely. That’s certainly a way of being catholic, Elizabeth–I’ve seen enough of it here on these forums to convince me of its schoolmarmish perniciousness–but it’s not the only way (if history and general experience are any indication), and I have my doubts that it’s the only way that the Roman Catholic Church prescribes for her faithful.

At any rate while it’s certainly true that we gain a certain kind of understanding of something (such as a community or a relationship) by being a part of it, there is also a species of understanding available to those outside the thing that is unavailable to those inside it. Complete knowledge of something can only be attained by being both in it and out of it simultaneously. Tough to do. The point? We could all afford to be more humble when it comes to our assessment of our own understanding and the understanding of others.
Funny, others here think I’m being factual. Unless you are accusing the Roman Church of mere rhetoric in its theology. Not to mention, there’s a certain irony here, given that the Phaedrus discusses the art of rhetoric.
You’re often factual, Elizabeth. But your previous post to me on this thread was not concerned with facts–or if it as, it didn’t seem interested in indicating that concern. You asserted I was making an effort to discredit someone because they disagreed with my assessment that homosexual behavior is a wonderful thing. Since I didn’t and haven’t made that general assessment, and since I maintain that I was not discrediting anyone, your assertion is your perspective which is grounded, in this case, on untruth or mere bias. It’s hardly factual. The rest of your post was a series of conjectures. No fact.

Re: rhetoric–your use of the word “browbeat” was an example of (mere) heightened rhetoric, particularly within the context of your earlier post to me in this thread.

Re: irony–there’s a lot of it about these days.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
 
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Mark,

This is how Carl started his post…and I find all your comments distressing.

You conclude with this???

Everyone’s life is a story that has meaning to them, not to you, not to me, but to them. This CAF, was a place where a man, who happens to have disitress put his personal experience in a thread that declares by me…that there needs to be a Reformation for Secular Homosexual thinking…and he courageously, openly placed his experience for others to read. I said little because what was said was personal.

What this means is that you do wish to question a personal experience and you deliberately without being asked to go about doing what it is you say you wish not to do. It is tantamount to evangelizing a homosexual agenda.

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I would wonder about this desire you have to point someone who put their personal experience on the line to what purpose? To prove your point? To show compassion? To register understanding? To do what? I would say that if this person asked questions they would ask them and I would suggest that they do not get them from without asking these questions?

Are you a practicing homosexual that is offering this advice?
Do you struggle with SSA as I have and had difficulty that you may be able to aid me?
Are you a professional?

I would suggest that any advice be sought by someone that was recommeded that would be Catholic and hopefully that understands this situation.

did you happen to notice the acceptance of Catholic thought when Carl said this…

Do you see an argument? I certainly don’t. I see a man exposing his innerself, his struggle and a life that appears to be in line with Catholic thought and if you did not happen to notice this is Catholic Answers.

Having assumed an interlocutor that does not exist you go on to insist that this argument is fallacious. Again Carl offered a personal experience that perhaps you do not like. Just say you don’t like it.

I don’t see any reasoning for argument. I see a man sharing personal experience.

May I remind you that Carl said…

It was detrimental for him. You ask him to look for a purpose…

This begs the question? This suggests that Carl is lost and needs to look further to find that purpose or perhaps you may be satisfied to know that he has found his purpose in the bosom of the Church. Have you considered that?

Your efforts are exactly why this thread was started and I ask you not to derail this in pursuit of evangelizing someone that puts their personal experience on the line. No comments are needed for someone that says they had a problem, they found a solution and they came to CAF and let everyone know.

You find Carl’s life story a problem
What is it Carl’s life means to you?
What does it say about you that you cannot be content with someone finding resolution?

Please reconsider your efforts to derail this thread.
Most of this, Coptic, is just hot air and posturing.
You find Carl’s life story a problem
No, Coptic, I don’t. I have no doubts that his experience is precisely his experience and that it is valuable and precious to him. Where I have my doubts is with regard to how that experience has been interpreted and re-integrated into a very particular narrative about same-sex attraction. You believe in that narrative, so you’re more apt to use his experience as just more data to re-enforce belief in that narrative. Do not deceive yourself: you’re not defending Carl’s experience, you’re defending your narrative.

I have an interest in looking at that narrative (and the interpretation of experience that informs it) from a different perspective. That’s all.

Good luck with your reformation, Coptic.👍

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
 
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Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
Mark,
Most of this, Coptic, is just hot air and posturing.
You dismiss my honest thoughts with this statement in a similar fashion that you approached Carl. You have yet to answer any of the questions posed to you.
No, Coptic, I don’t. I have no doubts that his experience is precisely his experience and that it is valuable and precious to him. Where I have my doubts is with regard to how that experience has been interpreted and re-integrated into a very particular narrative about same-sex attraction. You believe in that narrative, so you’re more apt to use his experience as just more data to re-enforce belief in that narrative. Do not deceive yourself: you’re not defending Carl’s experience, you’re defending your narrative.
I have an interest in looking at that narrative (and the interpretation of experience that informs it) from a different perspective. That’s all.
If this is true then what purpose is there in posting it for public view. Interpret as you wish from a different perspective without trampling on the life of another.
Good luck with your reformation, Coptic
Mark, Anglicans, of which you are a associated with are a product of the Reformation…seems to work…👍
 
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Most of this, Coptic, is just hot air and posturing.

No, Coptic, I don’t. I have no doubts that his experience is precisely his experience and that it is valuable and precious to him. Where I have my doubts is with regard to how that experience has been interpreted and re-integrated into a very particular narrative about same-sex attraction. You believe in that narrative, so you’re more apt to use his experience as just more data to re-enforce belief in that narrative. Do not deceive yourself: you’re not defending Carl’s experience, you’re defending your narrative.

I have an interest in looking at that narrative (and the interpretation of experience that informs it) from a different perspective. That’s all.

Good luck with your reformation, Coptic.👍

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
Mark,

I see you routinely providing an understanding of the Social Construct of Homosexuality and propose that Homosexuality has a purpose. When you return provide something that would be meaningful as it regards this…

You believe Homosexuality has a purpose

What is the purpose of Sodomy?
 
!I didn’t know it was a theme of mine, let alone a favorite theme.
It’s been both an occasionally explicit theme and a regular subtext throughout the years.
Moreover, I didn’t know that I had expressed a desire for their standards of sexuality to inform ours.
Then if it’s irrelevant to contemporary western standards, why bring it up?
Are you doing more eisegesis, Elizabeth?
I have never engaged in eisegesis. That activity is reserved for the endless pursuit, by others, of “discovering” moral excuses for homosexual behavior in Sacred Scripture, and even suggesting that pagan sexual practices should legitimately inform ours. (Because if it’s ever been done, or ever theorized about by [insert honored ancient philosopher here] it must have merit.) Secondarily, eisegesis is reserved for the Liberation Theologians, who engage in it regularly.
Pay attention to context.
I have never not done so. That’s my specialty.
The issue was: has no one found a good which same-sex attraction may serve. I provided some examples. The idea that same-sex attraction may serve some positive good is offensive to you, I realize that.
Inasmuch as an attraction of any kind may serve some positive (as long as, if evil, it is not acted upon), there is not an issue. Not an issue with the Church (clearly), not an issue with her Saints, and not an issue with me, which is observable from my posting history on the subject – threads on which you never appeared and probably never bothered to read, because they were not outlets for your apparent agenda, which is to try to get lay Roman Catholics to doubt their Church’s theology about sexuality.
The thought that that good may be completely unrelated to homosexual sexual behavior confuses you, and you would therefore like not to think about it.
No, Mark. No need to patronize me. Nothing that you say confuses me. It is in fact crystal clear that you like to confuse the issue by introducing irrelevancies and by making Roman Catholics consider that perhaps the foundation for their Church’s belief is in error.
Got it. (And I’ve gotten it for quite some time. ;))
You’d be surprised what I do and do not understand, Elizabeth–I have my doubts regarding whether or not your grasp on what I do or do not understand is as firm as you would like to think it is. I suspect that if someone does not understand something in precisely the way you understand it, then you conclude that they lack understanding completely. That’s certainly a way of being catholic, Elizabeth–I’ve seen enough of it here on these forums to convince me of its schoolmarmish perniciousness–but it’s not the only way (if history and general experience are any indication), and I have my doubts that it’s the only way that the Roman Catholic Church prescribes for her faithful.
Frist of all, I or anyone here, could report those remarks ^ as violating forum rules for chairty, with their ad hominem (“schoolmarimish perniciousness”). I realize that you’re resorting to this because you’re not winning the argument. I understand you clearly, and having respect for my fellow man, I believe you also undertsand clearly. I’ve always thought that you understood the points being made, just that you do not accept them, and so would prefer to obfuscate as a substitute for argument. I’m every bit as classically educated as you are, so I wouldn’t try pulling that one on me.

In fact, that’s what annoys me. You most likely do understand the way others describe the theology, and you probably do understand how I relate the philosophy behind it (or have learned it), but you prefer to dwell in other, unrelated theories.
We could all afford to be more humble when it comes to our assessment of our own understanding and the understanding of others.
When it’s shown that we do not understand. Since that is not true for me in this instance, and in all the other instances in which you’ve opposed me, perhaps you meant the observation to refer to yourself. 😉
 
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